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Yes = = My stepmom and I have all kinds of incompatible magnetic fields, and we hate each other.
I felt like she had robbed my father and ruined my family.
She was afraid that I would snatch her husband.
This is related to the possessiveness of human beings, no matter who they are, they will not like their lover to have an affair with someone else or even have children.
This represents a past without her that she cannot participate in, and there will be a sense of unknown trepidation and fear for her.
The child represents the bond between husband and wife, and isn't the child of a man's ex-wife the bond between a man and his ex-wife?
Even if a man has no affection for his ex-wife, it is impossible to ignore his children, after all, they are his own flesh and blood, which is an unbreakable bond. Therefore, women will subconsciously reject the children of men's ex-wives, but the extent of this psychology depends on the situation.
If the woman herself is a kind woman, then the rejection will not be great.
If the woman is insecure and loves the man, and the man loves the ex-wife's child very much, the woman will inevitably be very worried that her husband will get back together with the ex-wife because of the child, etc., and will have a great rejection of the child.
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Hui, it feels like there will be an illusion that the stepmother must be bad, you should carefully discern it, and believe that you will definitely find a way to verify and solve it if you are smart.
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If the child is sensible. Or they don't know anything and don't look for trouble. Or the man is not too partial to the child. Women shouldn't be too repulsive. Contrarily. Will drop.
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It depends on the person, and from the perspective of the public, human nature or kindness.
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If motherhood is strong enough, it won't.
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It depends on what kind of child and what kind of stepmother.
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No, you can believe that flesh and blood are more important than anything else! It depends on the individual, and a responsible person will naturally think that the divorce is sorry for the child, and will love the child more and compensate him!
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You're also selfish ......Why should a woman sacrifice her life's happiness ...... for the sake of her children?You also said that you plan to remarry for the sake of your children, which shows that you don't really want to remarry. She was also injured, so she would be like this, at least let herself be protected.
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There is no need to remarry, you can be a father and a mother. No matter if you encounter difficulties or troubles, as long as you learn the knowledge of education for your child, it will be helpful for your child
If you are busy with work, you can find a stepmother who is good for your child. But you must carefully observe her character, not so-so!!
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I think you should tell him that you want to remarry, on the condition of the child, and say that it is for the child's growth.
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I think it's still necessary to communicate well, but also to make a little concession and sacrifice.
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You should have hurt your ex-wife before.
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In relationships, men who care about a woman's past often come out of these three psychology.
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I think you are a shrewd woman, and the man is mainly because of what you said: don't let the child suffer, care about her, and have no feelings for her. I want to help her in these three aspects, but the remaining feelings will never affect the happiness of the two families, but you can put 120 hearts, your current man loves you very much, respects you very much, and will never do anything unpleasant to you, because he will always discuss with you beforehand.
Cherish it.
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I think the first: fear of the child suffering; Second: sympathize with her (must compete for husband and wife).He is a good man and cherishes it. I wish you happiness.
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The ex-wife is the mother of her child, her business is losing, and the child must also be affected, so you have to empathize with it, don't be so sensitive.
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--A man helps his ex-wife because the human heart is flesh... After all, 100 days of husband and wife, 100 days of husband and wife like the depth of the sea...
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It should be worried about the child and her suffering, such a man is quite affectionate and righteous, you should support your boyfriend more!
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Good man. He did this with the child's life in mind. It has nothing to do with my ex-wife. Such a man can be relied on.
A thousand times stronger than that kind of beast that doesn't care about the life or death of a child.
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Since there should be no love when you broke up, maybe just because she is her daughter's mother, she helped for her daughter?
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Anyway, they have lived together, and it is normal to care about her. Be generous, after all, you own him now.
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It's also possible, after all, a husband and wife.
There is no reason not to be saved.
Not to mention that it was his child.
His daughter alas.
If you really care about him, respect his ways, respect his past.
You have your love, and they have their past. (Pay attention to your sentence...) Emotional discord
If you really want to know, just ask directly... But it may hurt your feelings ...
You just have to remember that he is your boyfriend and is now.
If it's a good man, don't let it go, take good care of him.
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You are a generous woman, your decision is great, and your husband is a kind, sensual man. One day husband and wife, it is impossible to have no feelings, at least their few years in exchange for an indelible family relationship.
Don't worry about their residual affection, even a little bit can only prove that he is an emotional man, much better than those ruthless and unrighteous men.
But when you tolerate your husband, a man's sensibility with a tolerant heart, you can make him die for you.
If you can, join him to help your husband's ex-wife. Let your husband spend the rest of his life grateful to you.
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Love is not the same as love
To love someone, you don't have to live together.
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Such a man deserves your love.
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Only the parties may know...
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You don't have to care about his ex-wife's psychology, you just know what his ex-wife's psychology is, can you change her psychology?
There is a kung fu to ponder her, but it is better to ponder what to do in the face of this situation.
A man, if he is a good man, then he will be kind to all the women in his life, including his ex-wife. Although their marriage is gone, she is the mother of his children after all, and the woman who has lived with him. If he treats his ex-wife as an enemy, it means that the love in his heart has not disappeared.
It is impossible for a divorced couple with children to have no relationship at all, and you should understand this before marrying him. It's very normal for them to hit the ** for the child's affairs.
Now that the child is still young, the child's mother will definitely discuss with the child's father about the child's education or something in the future.
In the future, when you go to see the children, you and your wife will go together. You will handle the living expenses for your children, so that the other party will know that you are in charge of many things at home, and it will also relieve your doubts.
Quarreling over this kind of thing is exactly what his ex-wife wants to see. Whatever the reason for their divorce, she is happy when you break up.
Always quarreling will also make your husband annoy you. will think you don't trust him, will think you are careful, will think you have nothing to do. If he carries you behind your back to his ex-wife because of your endless ends, then you are in danger.
There is no harm in being a woman, if you are such a stingy person, you are really not suitable for filling people's houses.
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No, generally ex-wives are a little jealous, and if you also have children, there will be no such thing. You are a legal husband and wife, and no one can interfere.
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Maybe, but as long as the two of you are truly in love, you don't have to mind what his ex-wife is like, and you have to have faith in your husband.
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There must be, but such people have psychological problems and lack trust.
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People are father and son.,You can participate in playing together when his child is your own.。。。 If it's jealousy, get out of the way!
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They have already divorced, and the woman still wants to remarry, but she has no right to interfere in her ex-husband's marriage, so she will not be noisy, nor can she be generous and tolerant.
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For the children, for themselves, and for money.
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I am ashamed of this man, such a good woman is suitable to be a wife, maybe you are not suitable for her, you are a person who does not know blessings in happiness.
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The main thing is for the children, but maybe I still have a little affection for my husband, hoping for a miracle, but it will end in disappointment.
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I think maybe the men are rich and the women are reluctant to divorce.
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is looking forward to it, using a lifetime of happiness to expect a man who no longer loves him to change his mind.
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Maybe the woman has become pessimistic and accustomed to living alone.
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Of course, give the little ones a complete home.
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I think he's respecting your choice. If you don't want to bring children. Does he have any other choice? He just wants to tell you that having children won't affect the divorce between the two of you.
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It may be that he is respecting your choice, or it may be that he doesn't care about the child.
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I agree with the statement upstairs, the first is that you don't care about the child, and the second is to respect your choice, but I see that he said it so casually, I guess that he may not care about the child, so you should take the child so that the child does not suffer with him.
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All too young. Won't think too much about the future.
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Selfish! Maybe people are too young to be sensible! Personal opinion,
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Accommodating your choice, at least he cares about the child.
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