Why don t you chase stars now?

You're so much more mature than you used to be. But it's not mature enough, because you can't accept your past behavior, let alone tolerate it.

Truly mature people will accept the people and things around them, whether they like or dislike, with a tolerant attitude.

In this way, the child will be more peaceful and the heart will be stronger.

Because there is a past self, there will be a present you. Andy Lau is recognized as a serious and successful person, there is nothing wrong with you worshipping him before, it can only show that your heart wants to be as successful as him, which is also consistent with your current goals.

As for imitating him, it's normal, you should laugh at yourself back then, and feel that your star-chasing behavior is ridiculous but cute, not disgusting. Who hasn't done childish things when they're young?

As for now, you have your own goals and your own life, Andy Lau has only two possibilities for you:

The first one is a thing of the past, he's just the star you liked back then, that's all.

Second, you are a real fan of him, and you like his unique temperament, and what is really enduring inside.

In fact, when people grow up, celebrities are really far away from our lives, so we don't have to worry about this kind of problem.

It's definitely not right for you to chase like that before, and you've completely lost your own nature. Chasing stars should be just like your current attitude, learn from and learn.

I don't think you can accept what you think is stupid, for example, if you fall to the ground in front of everyone, if you think it's not a big deal, you laugh at yourself and don't take it to heart; But if you mind, you'll always feel stupid. Who doesn't do the wrong thing, who doesn't have the right thing, star-chasing is subconsciously wanting to be a singer or like singing, when you give up because of academic or other things, you will put this type of relationship on a successful singer, there is no such thing as losing one's own nature, what's wrong with liking star-chasing! Just don't delay your studies, isn't chasing stars a way to relax yourself?

Do you think you used to chase stars badly, I used to chase Mary Suwen, my own aesthetics are different.

After a long time, people's hearts will change, and it's okay.

The meaning of chasing stars is to become a better version of yourself and make life bloom with more charming brilliance.

The so-called star chasing is to see the world that you have never seen before through their light, because you like the shining person, you strive to become a better version of yourself, and work together with the person you like. Those high-quality idols who always work hard, have a beautiful heart, and shine brightly are enough to give you courage and strength to grow with you.

When you run forward with all your strength chasing the light of your idol, all your efforts will not lie, and every step counts on the road of life. The best way to identify whether you are following a quality idol is to see if he can really make you shine with it.

The point of an idol is to make you understand why you want to be better, and you are willing to follow his example and run hard. There is no love in the world for no reason. You will like an idol, mostly because he has taught you the truths you didn't know before, aroused your infinite yearning for a better life, and since then you have worked hard to become better, more decent, and more in-depth in your thinking.

Those who are good at singing make people follow their voices; Those who teach well make people follow their aspirations. For idols, the best support is never to be fanatical, but to retain the quality of their liking and let him know that the people who support him are a group of hard-working people. Because of the guidance of a spiritual idol like him, you who have seen the power of the wilderness that he broke out for his dreams, and who have experienced the "awakening era" of the spiritual world, will make yourself better on the road to becoming better, work harder in a down-to-earth manner, and further have further joy.

Starlight doesn't ask passers-by, time pays off. Chasing high-quality idols is not only to spur us to have hope in our hearts, light in our eyes, and not to be willing to live an ordinary life, but also to inspire us to draw wisdom and strength from the struggle experience of idols.

Looking up at the starlight in the distance, don't forget to be a real worker, always positive, always with tears in your eyes, always full of pride, always frank, and always on the way to run. I hope that one day, you will be able to catch up with your original idol with your own strength and achievements, shine in the process of running and chasing your dreams, and become a better version of yourself.

1；Idol, this word, for normal star-chasers like Xiaohe, they are sunshine and compass, illuminating the way that guides us forward.

As for parents who don't know the truth and passers-by who don't understand it, they say that they are like devils, and they can't avoid it and can't hide.

Because in their view, anyone in the world who has contributed to society is worthy of our learning and worship. Only idols are not worth it.

The idols in their eyes will only pretend to be on the screen, which will have a very negative impact on society and even on young people who are not yet mentally mature.

But in fact, normal star-chasing behavior, whether it is for idols or for our fans themselves, is beneficial and harmless.

2；How many people chase stars, and at the beginning they didn't chase those excellent qualities in idols that we didn't have?

Their hands and shouts on stage, their energy on the screen, their confident smiles and extraordinary words, what is not worth pursuing?

In other words, the idols we admire are actually the people we aspire to become in our hearts.

Take Xiaohe himself, Xiaohe was originally a person who was not good at words and communication with people, that is, the kind of existence that was placed in the crowd and no one would notice it at all. If you don't have self-confidence, it's not that you have low self-esteem, but you just feel that no matter what good things happen, there is a high probability that it will not fall on your head.

But these ideas only existed in a period of confusion and confusion, and after Xiaohe had an idol he admired, he naturally disappeared.

Thanks to their presence, Xiaohe has learned to smile at life and treat everything he wants to do with a positive and serious attitude.

3；There are two sides to everything, and with the development of society, there are also some irrational people, and these irrational people are also the root cause of some parents and passers-by misunderstanding idols.

But Xiaohe also dares to say that there are not a few people like Xiaohe who carefully guard their favorite idols, and they are the majority.

And it is precisely because we simply take idols as an example that we can constantly improve ourselves, make ourselves progress, and be a helpful person to society.

Isn't this the meaning of the existence of idols themselves?

Some people carry the power of idol propagation, all the way forward fearlessly. Or find the secret of learning and get admitted to your ideal university. Or find a purpose for your job and become the object of envy in the eyes of others. Or maybe you have found the true meaning of life and become a better version of yourself.

Under normal circumstances, the love that fans give to idols has nothing to do with love.

This kind of affection is only about one's own affection, only about the attraction of high-quality spirit.

Under the guise of various support fundraising, there are many cases of "fans" from all walks of life guiding fans to donate money and materials, and finally fleeing with the money or using the collected funds for personal gain. The aforesaid behavior of "fans" not only infringes on fans' right to freely dispose of their property and their right to know, but may also constitute the crime of embezzlement or fraud. The meaning of chasing stars is to absorb positive spiritual strength, not to spend money.

For the expenditure of supporting favorite celebrities, you must do what you can, and in the face of support fundraising, you must keep your eyes open and clarify the identity of the other party and the use of the money.

Similar to a few years ago, in order to support the activities of a celebrity, the milk was bought, and the whole thing was poured out without drinking, which was very wasteful, although it was said that they spent money to buy it, but when you really saw these complete undrunk milk, thrown into the sewer in vain, it was indeed a pity, and it was a waste, just for a ticket, these fans frantically bought milk to waste it in vain, this behavior is really crazy.

There are also some fans who track the trajectory of stars day and night, to track their whereabouts, as if they can't live without them, and I have also seen the star-chasing girl in the documentary, her family is not very good, and her parents' salary is not very high, and it is already very laborious to support their family, but this girl still takes the money to chase stars, to care about a star whose living conditions are many times better than herself, and wastes her time and her parents' hard-earned money, I think this kind of star-chasing behavior is also crazy, after all, it is also giving up one's own happiness to become the happiness of an all-star.

I think that crazy star-chasing is not advisable, and it has also caused great harm to myself and my family.

Do you have the courage to find a public figure to be a love affair with?

In the era of social networking, we can often see all kinds of news from stars in the entertainment industry. Their lives and feelings are in the spotlight and have also made many people curious and fantasizing about their lives. Sometimes, we develop a crush, even a crush, for a public figure, and we wonder how nice it would be if we could be with that person.

However, after all, public figures are different from ordinary people, their lives and work have a high degree of popularity, and it is difficult to protect privacy. If you have the courage to find a public figure to be a romantic partner, you need to consider not only your own feelings, but also their feelings and the reaction of the outside world.

First of all, you need to understand the situation of this public figure. Their lives are open, but you need to know about their personalities, hobbies, values, etc., to see if they match you. If there are big differences between you, then this relationship may be difficult to maintain.

Secondly, you need to take into account the feelings of this public figure. Their lives have been ** a lot, and if you want to be with them, you need to make them feel like you are a trustworthy person and not a fan who is just here for fame and fortune. You need to give them enough space and respect and not interfere too much with their work and life.

Finally, you need to take into account the reaction of the outside world. The romantic relationships of public figures can easily become the focus of attention of ** and fans, and you need to be mentally prepared enough to deal with these attentions. At the same time, you need to think about your own life and work to see if you can withstand the impact of these concerns.

In short, Chunzheng needs to have enough courage and psychological preparation to find a public figure to be a love partner. You need to get to know the public figure, consider their feelings and reactions, and see if you can afford the impact of that attention. If you really want to be with a public figure, then you need to be a person of quality and make them feel like you are a trustworthy person and not a fan who is just here for fame and fortune.

1. Celebrities place their idealized state on themselves.

2. Celebrities are generally good-looking, and they are really pleasing to the eye.

3. The star character of the brokerage company's packaging is well versed in the taste of the mass market.

1.Idols are a kind of spiritual sustenance for most people.

The role of idols is to entrust all the virtues and abilities that people can have in their cognition, when we look at our idols, what we care about is not the idol itself, but an idealized perfect human being, which is why some fans can't see other people say that his idol is not good at all, because being perfect is not a problem at all.

However, it does not mean that idols are perfect. As the saying goes, no one is perfect.

2.Idols bring us positive energy to some extent.

The positive energy brought by idols can make you infected, and you can strive to achieve a better version of yourself, and then go to break through, and continue to work hard to get close to your dreams, so as to become a good person. When you run away, when you are cowardly, when you are afraid, when you don't make a clear choice. will say to themselves:

If the idol is here, it will definitely make you do the same, and have the courage to face your bad self.

Strive to correct, do your best, be honest and honest, gentle and delicate.

In this process of chasing idols.

We're so much better than we are.

3.Idols sell a beautiful dream.

In fact, idols are not just chasing stars, but chasing yourself, you are designing an ideal state for your own life, personality, and state. When the lights go out, when the feelings for the idol begin to dissipate, we may never find the shining person on the stage again.

I believe that everyone who chases stars has thought about what she will do if her idol doesn't want to be a star one day? She who has become an ordinary person Can he still bring you strength and become the support point of your life? Will he understand her?

Will you go to the last concert?

4.The stupidity brought by idols should not be the tearing and hatred of the rice circle, but the beautiful quality of idols.

If you like an idol, you should definitely go to a concert with him, go in person, see him and her with your own eyes. Because life on stage can last a long time, or it can be fleeting. You don't know what kind of person he or she belongs to.

You can't guess how much time there is left to shine, and you can't guess that the person on the stage will disappear to ** in the next second.