Is there a stand in in love? What does it feel like to be used as a stand in in your relationship?

To be precise, there are no often people who often regard the current him (her) as the former him (her) and embody the love that has not been let go of the past in the present he (her) This practice not only hurts themselves but also hurts the current him (her) If you don't love him (her) Then end this "love" that should not appear as soon as possible!

Love is a floating cloud, always floating, coming and going freely, unpredictable, one will dress the sky up gorgeous, the sky is clear, and the other will be dark clouds pressing the city, wind and rain full of buildings. When the sky is clear, there are few clouds, and people see the brightness of the clouds, but when the sky is cloudy, there are many clouds, and people see the dimness of the clouds. There are always many clouds floating in the sky, very brilliant and beautiful, dazzling and dizzying, but only one of them is truly yours.

But the sky is not always clear and cloudless. When the clouds of love begin to change their color, that's when the weather and mood change. Whether you have a cold or a relaxed heart depends on whether you can understand and grasp it.

Even if you can't feel me, love makes me still love you. I asked if there was a stop sign for love, I asked when the encounter would come, and was there any clue to guess? Maybe there are no princesses in fairy tales, and perfection is just an extravagant thought.

It's not so much a stand-in, it should be said to be a sustenance of feelings, and there are many such things in life.

He still loves that "she", and the stand-in is just a shell.

Remember.

Is it a stand-in for yourself to know in your own heart!

I don't think so, if your significant other really loves you, he won't let you feel his cold. You have to believe in Him, if you really don't feel His love anymore, then you can talk to Him, if He really loves you, He will change for you, if He doesn't love you anymore, then you will be at the end [gparagraph3]! I wish you happiness.

It can be very clear that you, my lover and I are not a stand-in for each other's love, we love each other very much, I think love does not need a stand-in, and everyone is irreplaceable, maybe there has been a lover who has been in love before, and it is also so deep in love, but Biqi is once you choose to break up, you must learn to be strong, and know that when you come out, you will definitely experience some passers-by in your life, and some past romances may make you unforgettable, but it has passed, and it no longer belongs to you, It is immoral to face a lover who truly belongs to you and treat her as a substitute for your regretful love.

Maybe there are many people in real life who do what you asked, using each other as a stand-in for love, and I think since you can't get out of the shadow of the past, why hurt another person who loves you? Since you choose to be together, you must know how to cherish this feeling, especially as a man, you can't be half-hearted, you are in Cao Ying, your heart is in Han, it is better for you to be lonely for a lifetime, if you are just looking for a stand-in for your love, you will not be happy, and you are hurting each other.

I firmly believe that love does not need a stand-in, only by loving each other with your heart, you can get the happiness you want, there are many people in this society who are looking for a spare tire or even a jack for the previous love, but this kind of person is a scumbag or scumbag girl who is spurned by everyone in society, and he is simply the most unpopular person, so my lover and I are absolutely truly in love, I am the kind of thing in the past to let him pass, they are just a passerby in my life, even if the love that was generated at that time, But in the end, we can choose to break up, that means that the love between us has not undergone the test, the other party may really be suitable for themselves, rather than choosing a stand-in for love at this time, it is better to try to get out of the shadow of emotional failure, stand up and bravely face a new relationship, do not involve any previous feelings.

Therefore, I advise today's young people that if they want to fall in love, they must learn to cherish each other and not easily use each other as a substitute for love.

Yes. Love is mutually reciprocal, only people who understand each other, are considerate of each other, and tolerate each other can come together, love is to progress together and grow together, and the shouted Sun Yi has become each other's manuscript seepage and dismantling stand-ins.

No. My lover and I are the only ones of each other, not the stand-in of love. Guess that our ears and hands are warm and sincere in their feelings for potatoes. It will not be said that a replacement for love is sought for the sake of a person.

No. Because we truly love each other, we are not substitutes for love.

It feels like I'm at a loss, and I try my best to satisfy what the other party wants, otherwise I will be rejected by the other party. Meng Han feels like he can only be used to keep warm, no matter how hard he tries, there is no way to get real love and comfort from his heart. Hope.

Maybe I'm just a lot like him.

Of course, there are differences, and there are significant substantive differences.

As the name suggests, the spare tire is the reserve savings, and its position in the relationship is in the back position, it is emotional, and from another point of view, it is a backup"Strength"。Even if it is used as a backup to feelings, he is also respected and can keep his own. This is not the case with stand-ins, which are taken at face value; It's that it takes someone else's place.

Further, when a man uses you as a stand-in, it's really sad and sad. Joy is because you can replace others to keep people but can't keep your heart, sad is that in this relationship you will always be just a substitute for others, his feelings for you are not real, even if there is a memory, it is because of the remembrance or debt to the person you replace, you can never get the feelings that really belong to you.

Both of these relationships are relatively awkward. The former is a bit better, relatively speaking, it is only in a backup position, and it will one day be turned formal, and not in this awkward position. Compared with the stand-in, it is particularly embarrassing, it can only be a substitute for others, and it can never replace the position of Yu Shenyun, the person you replace.

The relationship between the two is relatively strong for the former than the latter, although they are both a little embarrassing, but the former's emotional existence is substantial.

Here I feel a little unworthy for the stand-in, we would rather each other's spare tire than be a stand-in, being a stand-in can get everything, but everything you get is his good to the person you replace, and it has nothing to do with you; And even if the spare tire is used as a backup, his feelings for himself are true. No matter how deep the feelings are, something is better than nothing.

Of course, none of us want to be one of the two, but in case we get to this point we need to have the right way to make judgments to deal with this kind of embarrassing problem.

Therefore, the essential difference between the existence of a spare tire and a stand-in.

Only Pei Dan can look at the values of love, spare tires and stand-ins belong to a kind of relationship between relatives, but they are not public, there is no difference in essence, but in the end, it is impossible to become a real love and envy.

The game of love for people with wealth and material things is not for ordinary people.

Of course there is a difference.

The two identities of spare tire and stand-in are quite embarrassing, both of which are dispensable, but in my personal opinion, the stand-in is more tragic than the spare tire. After all, the spare tire is turned right, and it is the upright room, and you can get the heart of the owner, but the stand-in is always a stand-in.

Maybe the Lord really wants to love you and really want to be with you. But helplessly, a certain quality in your body is to coincide with the person before, you will always be someone else's shadow, the main heart is strong and the love is not there, sometimes she wants to love you, she can't do it, it's not anyone's fault, this is a difficult mystery to solve.

In love, of course, there is a difference between a spare tire and a stand-in.

The spare tire in the car refers to the fact that during the drive, if a tire is broken, it will choose to replace it with a spare tire, so the meaning is similar in the relationship, which refers to the fact that in the case of knowing that there is a boyfriend and girlfriend, he is still ambiguous with others, and he does not explain his thoughts to others, so he hangs on other people's appetites, and once he feels that his boyfriend or girlfriend is not good enough, he will abandon it, find the spare tire, and be with him.

And the stand-in refers to the fact that in the previous relationship, or in the relationship that impressed you, when you experienced that period of love, you can't forget the feeling of the other half, and then find someone who is similar to him to replace the feeling of the previous one, but you don't really feel for the stand-in.

To be honest, these two people are really pitiful.

The spare tire is always an ambiguous object, and only after there is no real boyfriend and girlfriend will you think of the spare tire and let it turn positive. Now there are some people who like to find a spare tire, and some people like to make a spare tire, and the mentality of the person looking for a spare tire may not want to be single, and the person who makes the spare tire may really like that person and is willing to wait.

The stand-in really has no feelings, just pinning the feelings of the previous paragraph on the stand-in, to find the feeling of the last boyfriend and girlfriend, just treating him as the shadow of the previous boyfriend and girlfriend, and there may be feelings after being together for a long time, but think about it, isn't it the shadow of someone else?

So there is an essential difference between these two kinds of people, but there are also similarities, that is, pitiful and pathetic, I hope you don't want to be a spare tire or a stand-in, you have to be the main one, don't become the sustenance of other people's feelings.

The film "Love's Stand-in" focusing on the theme of ethical crime is invested by Tianming Jiaye, directed by Tang Xiaobai, the banner figure of Chinese female directors, with well-known director Han Jie as the screenwriter and Hong Kong photographer Li Yaohui as the director of photography. The film begins with a traffic accident, in which two ordinary families make an incredible but reasonable response to fate under the interweaving of complex emotions such as the hatred of losing a child and the hatred of an adulterous wife. While the female director Tang Xiaobai sharply uncovers the ethical scars of modern people, she also uses gentle brushstrokes to depict the delicate and profound aspects of human emotional relationships, making the film unique, cruel and gentle.

After the film was shortlisted for the main competition unit of the San Sebastian Film Festival, it may lead the trend in the film industry.