My sister dumped her boyfriend, what should I do but he handled this matter rationally

You should feel happy having lost someone who doesn't love you.

Tell her that such a man is still all over the street. Much better than him, don't be unworthy for him.

Loving someone is painful, being loved by someone is blissful. Tell her that she is lucky to lose someone who doesn't love her because of the opportunity to meet a loved happiness.

The most hurtful thing is that the boyfriend betrays him with his relatives, of course such a man throws it away immediately, why keep it.

The family is unfortunate to teach your sister a good lesson.

Trash man,,Kick out,,Your sister also has a problem,,It's not worth your kindness to them。

Does he have a younger brother? If so, you can do the same.

What kind of person is unreliable, cut in two.

Don't be sad, believe that this time is not your true love, but a beautiful dream, let him pass It's good for others and for yourself.

Learn to tolerate, and learn how to love, so that you won't lose it in this world after the next time you get it, and there are many people who deserve love, aren't you, so be strong, you have to work hard to get real love, you can't be decadent, it's nothing. If he or she really hurts you, forgive him Don't be stubborn, and don't drag on someone else's happiness.

If you love, let the person you love fly, you can work hard, to improve yourself, to find a better lover, after many years you can tell the person who is now losing how wrong it was for him (she) to choose to leave you at that time, I believe this is the most gentle revenge and the most generous tolerance Bless you.

It's okay, maybe the next one will be better.

Break up decisively, what is this, the one who begs to come back will not be happy.

I also feel sorry for you, and I want to love you too.

Look at the point and don't give up the whole forest for a single tree! ...

No, since he doesn't love you anymore, then you will let go, there are many good men.

If you still love him, you can find him, if he doesn't agree with the feelings, he can't force it, and he doesn't regret it.

It's not worth it to give up when you break up, and it's not worth it to be sad.

The old doesn't go and the new doesn't come, since you're tired together, it doesn't matter. If you want to open up, be happy, and the best days are ahead.

If you love him, talk to him to see if he is angry; If you don't love, let go, give each other freedom, and find your true happiness sooner.

As for it? If you want to vent, find him and smoke him.

Hurry up and divide the game Remember to contact me.

In matters of feelings, there is no one right, no one is wrong, there is no absolute! So, rational thinking. Get the facts of the matter.

Deal with it rationally! My own sister was dumped, and as a family member, I must feel the same way! Angry!

However, because of anger, he lost his mind and was impulsively held criminally responsible. But the gains outweigh the losses! Besides, if he is a scumbag, breaking up now is the best ending!

Teach her how to deal with this kind of thing in the future, how to face it, and how to face it calmly when things have happened.

I'm going to have to beat that kid up.

Although this brother and sister are indeed a little abnormal, they are brothers and sisters, so you can't say anything, and you seem to be cautious if you talk too much. If you really love your boyfriend, just bear with it, she will marry anyway.

Respect and forbearance, and you will have to face a more domineering mother-in-law in the future.

He's a little uninteresting.

I only care about my sister's feelings and ignore you.

Is that his own sister? If not, it's a bit risky.

Yes, she'll get married, wait, bear with me.

His sister is not his own wave, otherwise how could this be, don't you understand the difference between men and women?

First of all, I support you on the issue of this show, because a woman may get married once in her life, and if it is a wife, I will try my best to satisfy her at the wedding, and it is a big deal to be hungry for a few days.

And the man's parents' approach is inappropriate, after all, marriage is a matter for the children of the two families, and the parents of the two parents should more or less help according to our Chinese customs and reasonableness.

I thought、No、No.。

Your boyfriend's parents' family conditions, the number of children and other factors determine your boyfriend's current practice, I suggest, depending on your actual situation, you should strengthen communication between all parties, do a good job in your boyfriend's ideological work, if you have the opportunity, you can get the parents of both sides together, have a meal, and come forward by the in-laws to explain the marriage of the children 1510

If there is any difficulty, let's solve it together

After all, marriage is a lifelong event for children and cannot be sloppy.

I wish you a happy family

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1. You can find out first: is his family particularly difficult, is it that the two old people are sick, and the money for taking medicine every month is not enough?

2. Some things are conventional, such as financial gifts, no matter how difficult it is, you have to borrow money. Or did his parents really not know about it? Or just pretend to be confused.

3. There are some things that cannot be saved, only once in a lifetime. How many years later will that show be rerun? Even if it is reissued, can youth be made up? How many years from now will you be able to regress to where you are now?

4. Many things have to be empathized. Look at the problem from the other party's point of view, you have already conceded a lot, has he thought about it for you? I also played a cold war with you, do you think you will definitely take the initiative to contact him?

I don't know what you think? How dependent are you on him? If it's "if you don't marry him", quickly admit your mistake.

When the parents meet before they get married, they should talk about these things, and that's one of the purposes of the meeting.

It's so complicated to run a wedding, your partner is under a lot of pressure, and it's understandable to lose your temper, and now it's like this, I think you should tell him not to get married, and turn reactive into active, because a large part of what happens is due to your weakness, and I think if you compromise again.

Then life after marriage will never be good Your parents should ask for the opinion of an unmarried man.

Filial piety to parents is understandable.

If you look for your own shortcomings first, I only see your dissatisfaction with him and what he does, and I don't see how you reflect on it. For example, the wedding program I think is dispensable.

Of course, I don't say this to your husband, I just want to discuss the problem objectively.

My wife has been with me all my life. The question is whether your wife has a problem with economic management? Can't get any money in his hand, so his parents are trying to get money out of your hands?

I also have a wife like this, and I can spend any money in my hand. The flowers are right, the flowers are justified, and she buys dispensable things. You need to reflect on this.

If it's not your problem, then you have to talk to your husband, and if you really can't change it, it's better not to get married.

When you talk, you should correct the premise of filial piety to your parents. Don't let him think that you are a bad daughter-in-law who is not filial or does not want to be filial.

It is the natural responsibility of parents to marry their sons. It is also the happiness of the elderly.

There are many couples who don't get married because of this. Not really.

His parents may not have any money. I have to rely on my son to raise him.

Do you love him or his parents? Are you going to marry him or his parents?

If you want to get married, you can bear it. The relationship will be good in the future.

If you don't want to get married, forget it, it's very simple = =

You must still want to marry him, and at the same time you are worried about your future life.

You text him like this: I really want to marry you in this life, you don't think the show is necessary, although I like it very much, but compared to you the show is nothing. When I get married, I will treat your parents as if they were my parents, not because they gave me anything, but because they raised you.

If you say so, he didn't put the show on it, and his parents didn't say anything about it, so it's better to dump him.

I can't figure out why so many people are unhappy like you because they don't have money? You can do a lot of things if you have money, but not necessarily you won't be happy if you don't have money.

That's right, the wedding is only once in a lifetime for most people, but its purpose is to commemorate your union, whether the scenery is beautiful or not is just a matter of that day, you know the wedding of a certain star and a wealthy businessman, how luxurious, but what is the result? It didn't take a few days to say goodbye, so let's do it in vain, hehe. What you need on your wedding day is not a big show, but your happiest smile.

You still have a long life to go, don't be unhappy because you don't have money, you must know that you don't necessarily be happy if you have money, it all depends on your mentality, don't be a slave to money, family harmony can't be bought with more money.

Well, having said all that, in the end, I wish you all a happy wedding and happiness !!

For a few hundred dollars, you can see what the future will be like. You are the way you are for a reason. Fate is not enough.

If you don't force it, whatever you can do in the Cold War, you love face. So this matter requires the other party to take the initiative to pull down. You're going to have to go back to your own style.

There is a technique called family relationship sorting in psychology, in this way you can see his parents, he, you, your parents in his heart of the order and ways to deal with various contradictions, his current way of dealing with it is different from the usual way of dealing with it, it may have a lot to do with his previous family life, if you don't understand the things here, rashly enter, will not understand many of his ways of doing things, and then there are contradictions, two people quarrel for a long time and don't know who is right and who is wrong. This is the contradiction caused by the difference in family outlook and values, if it cannot be unified, it is equivalent to two heads of one car, going in two directions, and finally it must be a parting of ways. Therefore, it is important to understand why his way of doing things is the way it is.

Are you married? What does he mean by this, do you think you can mess around after getting married? Don't compromise!

Good men are the same after they get married as they were before they get married!! Terrific to find someone else.

People of his personality are not easy-going and not people to rely on.

All I can tell you is that communication is the most important thing. Because no one is a roundworm in anyone's stomach. If you don't say what is in your heart, he won't understand.

In the same way, he doesn't tell you what he thinks in his heart, and you don't know why. At this time, you have to calm down and sit together and explain things clearly. Say what you don't understand, say what you don't like.

You look at what he really thinks in his heart. In the same way, let him say what he is dissatisfied with. In this way, good communication and frank disclosure can build a kind of trust and a way to solve problems.

Divide it, with all due respect, now the woman is a treasure, if there is a woman who loves me very much, not to mention a few hundred, tens of thousands of I will also deal with, but the premise is that as long as I have it, I am willing to pay for what I like, now for a few hundred, when you get married, there is the hardship you endured, is it worth it just because hundreds of you are angry, your feelings are not worth hundreds of dollars, do you let the dog eat? This is also called feelings, the real feelings are understanding, understanding, you look at what you are, you are not married, you are like this, you are married, you may have to divorce because of hundreds, think about it, don't get married, he is in charge of his territory, when you have a child, you are reluctant to have a child, he continues to pick the door like this, what to do! Wishing you happiness!

Break up, get married just once, he's not satisfied with you, find a rich marriage, what's the point of you getting married, a few hundred yuan will be quarreled like this, men are really useless, you have a problem with your vision!

What he means is that he wants to find a girlfriend like you who can attract him, and find a calm and rational wife.

It's a pity that he may be past the age of finding a girlfriend now, and he wants to find a wife, maybe he thinks that your personality is not calm and rational enough, and it does not meet the requirements of his future wife.

He likes you, but he's more rational than emotional.

So... He will control his liking and find a wife with a personality that is more compatible with him.

This kind of man generally thinks a lot... Likes don't take too much weight on his marriage.

That is to say, he can't forget the 6 years of relationship in his heart, he has a good impression of you, but he feels that he and you have never reached the feeling of a lover with his ex-girlfriend, so he wants to retreat, he is afraid that he will delay you because of his indecision.

As for you, if you want to be with him, you should always care about him, but don't seem too active, let him slowly accept you from the heart, slowly can't leave you, and press the person in his heart into a dark corner.

Of course, if you don't love him very much, or can't accept that your boyfriend has someone else in his heart, then let it go decisively.

Forget it, don't be a friend, sometimes you have to take advantage of it and clear up the relationship, what kind of brother, tell him that you don't lack a brother, let him go farther.

The most disgusting thing is this kind of man, what is a brother, what is just a sister, since I can't be with you, why hold your hand, women can give up everything for love, but men can give up love for everything. Stay away from him, after all, it's not deep now, if you love it, please love deeply, if you don't love it, please leave, if you insist on being with him, you will be hurt in the end.

For a man with a 6-year relationship history. My advice to you is to give up. Maybe you have something in common with someone he once liked. That's why he will have an intimate behavior with you, and he will actually write a review book later =.

There should be no place for you in his heart for the time being, and for a relationship that can last for 6 years. It should be hard for him to give up. So I think, for the sake of yourself to be protected from more harm, it's better to leave this man completely.

It's just a personal opinion ...