What does it mean to be giving? What does it mean to give up?

Giving and gaining are two concepts, and the simple understanding is that there is giving to get.

Sometimes you can get something by giving up something, and sometimes you don't get it if you don't want to give it up.

For everyone, we may need to understand that true giving is a high-level cognition, and if we don't understand the wisdom and cognition behind giving, maybe we won't give, and we won't be giving.

Only by grasping the wisdom and true essence behind giving, can we understand that all the establishment and creation of life are based on giving.

Giving up is a kind of advanced cognition, and if we master this wisdom, the smoother and smoother the road to growth.

01 The first advanced cognition: only by giving can you get

In life, we may need to understand a truth, behind the giving is to tell us that we can only get by giving. Whether it's in a relationship or at work, we all have to learn to give before we can get what we want.

Behind the harvest is based on the gain. Why do we often say that taking too much is a disease, because excessive taking is based on not giving, which will not only consume one's own life experience, but also lose the motivation for life growth.

Behind the giving, it is based on our understanding that behind life is a process of continuous giving and continuous receiving. If you don't give, you may not get anything and you won't have that real sense of participation.

The essence of life is based on continuous giving, and as long as life is there, we need to continue to give, so that our life can truly reap balance.

When you understand the true meaning behind giving, you will deeply understand that life itself comes from our continuous experience, but also from our continuous exploration and communication, and the more we can experience and communicate, the more we can see a different version of ourselves.

The true self is never fixed, the true self is built on the basis of long-term exploration, and exploration comes from our continuous dedication, the more we know how to multi-dimensional, multi-directional giving, our life can become a more three-dimensional whole.

What does the word "willing" mean? Some people may say, don't you even know the meaning of this word? It's easy!

It's nothing more than the meaning of generosity! Here, it is indeed what it means, that is, to be willing to give something about yourself to others. For example:

The child had two loaves of bread in his hand, and he shared one of them with his little friend, and we said that the child was very willing. He is willing to give up his own interests without sparing.

In fact, what we usually say about reluctance has another meaning. If you want to get, you must give up, if you want to gain, you must give up, if you want to have gain, you must give up, and if you don't give up, you won't get.

If a student is afraid of using his brain, afraid of hardship, and unwilling to spend time learning knowledge and mastering skills, but blindly spends time on playing and putting on meaningless activities, then he will not be able to acquire rich knowledge and strong skills.

Some students study hard and are diligent. Homework assigned by the teacher and completed on time. I also have to take the initiative to learn a lot of knowledge outside of class and strive to improve my various abilities.

Other students are playing wonderful games and spending a lot of time on meaningless things. However, the hard-working students carefully read a wide range of useful books in and out of class, took a lot of notes, and did a lot of exercises that the teacher did not arrange.

I remember when I was in junior high school, there was a student in my class who was very hardworking. Other classmates were playing and bragging, but he found a lot of extracurricular tutoring books and took the initiative to complete the above exercises, especially mathematics, physics and chemistry, and did the most exercises. Everyone else was asleep, but he was still reciting English words and texts under the streetlights.

His hard work was not in vain, and in the high school entrance examination, his total score was the first in the whole school, and he was admitted to a well-known technical secondary school. You know, at that time, it was great that junior high school students were able to be admitted to a good secondary school. Because at that time, the secondary school students not only had free tuition and living expenses, but also had to be allocated, and the work was also very good.

So, what is the reason for this student's good grades? Because he is willing to give up a lot of his time to play, willing to give up the joy of playing, and devote himself to the hard and heavy study, he has achieved fruitful results.

That is, there is a give-and-take, and if there is no reluctance, there is no reluctance, and only a small give-and-go can be gained, and a small give-and-go can only be gained.

That is to say, only with Shejian Luzhou can you get it, and you have to be a person and know how to put your hands in the barricade.

If you have money, you can't experience the happiness of not having money.

To give is to get, a well, to get the sweet water, to dig the well, to pump out the water in it, and then, there is pure water overflowing, this is the way of balance, you are talking about sacrificing yourself for others, I feel that this is a good thing, help others, you for others, others for you. This social congress will be very good.

To give up is to gain. To give is to gain. illustrates a little silver tremor:

Give. That is, giving is taking. Illustrates a point:

Abandon. That is, giving is taking. To be a human being is to give up, which is a word that we often use.

As for how the word "willing" should be understood, I think we should all have heard of this. It is often said that (the person who is willing to spend money for you does not necessarily love you, but the person who loves you must be willing to spend for you: not necessarily does not love you, he is usually more frugal, he may want to give you a good future.

This sentence is dialectically more correct, it is to give up itself, and to give up one part to get the other part, of course, it is not necessarily the same amount of flat balance, in terms of life.

Giving is to get, a well, to get the sweet water, to dig the well, the water in it is pumped out, and then, there is pure water overflowing, this is the way of balance, this is full of turbid water, clear water is not injected, self-grasping, close the heart door, lock the manhole cover, stubbornness, break the self-grasping, is to be modest, open the heart, politely accept. If you are in a hurry to behave, it is equivalent to taking what you learned when you were confused, and generating unclear turbidity, do you accept it? Or is it spillover?

To see the turbidity overflow is to create karma, and to clean up the turbidity is to empty the cup.