Lost yourself in order to get married? When I got married, I lost my home

1. Plan your life plan well.

First of all, you have to plan your life plan, you really can't spend your days in such a mess, give yourself a goal: what to accomplish at the age of 25, what to accomplish at the age of 30, what to accomplish at the age of 35, what to accomplish at the age of 40, and then plan towards this goal.

2. Do what you are interested in, quit the job that you are not satisfied with at present, and do a job you like, 360 lines, and the line is the champion. If you like it, you can learn it, and then you can be a teacher. You like to make cakes, you can learn to make cakes, and then you can open a cake pastry, you like to dance, you can learn to dance, and then become a dance teacher.

I always know that no matter what I do, as long as I specialize, I can have a bright future.

3. Read a good book.

Reading a good book will benefit you for a lifetime, the book has its own ** house, the book has its own Yan Ruyu, there is everything in the book, as long as you understand, you will have a goal in life.

4. Make a good friend.

A good friend is your mentor, he will guide you, enlighten you, help you get on the right track, the authorities are confused, the bystanders are clear, many times, when you are confused, there is always someone like a beacon to guide you.

5. Cheer up.

Don't be decadent, don't be idle, think about how to live, how to live a wonderful life, how to live a meaningful life, think about life, there are actually many beautiful things waiting for us.

6. Go out for a walk.

Look at the people and things around you, learn how people live, and see how people struggle and work hard. Compare yourself again, and you may have a passionate attitude towards life.

If he really loves you, he will take care of your emotions. Your emotions are so bad, it's because he can't take care of them. He really loves you and will run for you.

It's not you a girl who travels all the way to find him. Such a man has no responsibility. This is the case before marriage, and he will become even worse after marriage.

You have to think about it. Marriage is a lifelong affair. It's not the boys who sit back and enjoy it, and it's not the girls who stand alone.

It's better not to get married. It's not good to lose yourself.

On the first day of marriage, I was very happy because I finally had a home of my own. A place where I need to run my own efforts, a place where I can make decisions, where I can plan, and where I can relax. I thought everything was going to turn out the way I expected ......

In the first year of marriage, during which we had countless quarrels, I found that the impression of you gradually disappeared, and you became indecisive and calculating, and how many times I could not see my shadow in your eyes. I've cried, I've screamed, I want to leave this home that I thought was mine, I wanted to throw myself into my parents' arms, I wanted to tell them I wanted to be a child. But my parents went to my brother ** after I got married, and I only came back once in a long time, and I lost my ......

In my impression, home is warm, and it is also a place where I can be willful, I can relax, I can cry unscrupulously, and there will always be someone who will comfort and scold me. I give me hot water when I'm cold, accompany me to see a doctor when I'm sick, I can share it, you can also ask for it.

In the second year of marriage, we had a baby, she was very cute, but she also trapped me deeply, I couldn't leave her and couldn't leave this home, I always went around in one place, and I worked hard in one place, no one accompanied me, I felt very lonely, I wanted to go home, but I found that I was homeless ......

Feelings are beautiful. Marriage, on the other hand, is half splendid and half practical. After two people become husband and wife, only by combining romance and practicality can they complement each other, make the communication more and more harmonious and comfortable, and each other can rush to the direction of happiness together.

If there is no bloom, the marriage will become boring. If the two of them lack a realistic concept, then the marriage will lack the flavor of fireworks.

However, for many friends, even if they join hands and fall in love and enter into marriage, they still can't realize this, but treat the love of two people with a casual mentality. As you can imagine, this kind of couple is very easy to lose their way. When the daily life of marriage is filled with inconsequential trivialities, even if two people have loved each other, how much care is left to live together again?

The guys can only get more and more cold day by day, and even end up going their separate ways.

Women are rational, but also affectionate. If they don't love it, they will keep a certain distance from men. Because of women, they can realize that maintaining a sense of boundary with the opposite sex is a way to protect themselves.

It can not only avoid the misunderstanding of others, but also bypass some entangled men. If one day, a woman has an idea about a man. In the following time, they will also wait for love to come.

Especially when they get along with each other as a couple, the woman is transformed from a passive character to an active party. Because they want true love, once they have true feelings, it is usually a lifelong thing. From the perspective of marriage social psychology, marriage is a woman's second chance to be reincarnated.

Falling in love with someone, for the rest of a woman's life, there will be people to admire and guard, for such a woman, it is easy to grasp the happiness she wants and find a solid sense of trust. If you meet the wrong person, then the girl can easily fall into an embarrassing situation.

When you are in a relationship, it is important to choose a good person. This also means that a woman must maintain a cautious mindset to choose her lover for the rest of her life. In addition, even if two people are happy with each other, they walk into marriage hand in hand.

In the following time, each other will still encounter invisible trials, such as: the run-in period of personality, and the integration of habits. If you are not careful, the two will encounter conflicts.

Compared with the couple, how to clear the customs smoothly in front of the unexpected training? Just imagine, standing at the starting point of marriage, who doesn't want to be with each other until old age! It's just that a happy and long-lasting marriage continues to test the wisdom and patience of the couple.

If there are contradictions and contradictions, two people can not solve them calmly, it is easy to make each other, create an invisible gap, make the distance between the two parties farther away, and make each other's feelings strange. As a girl, should you be full of the mentality of a god's banquet to manage your marriage? Everyone should remember that no matter who you marry, you need to figure out these 4 truths, don't suffer from gains and losses.

I think the biggest point is that the most important thing to defeat this god is not to be impulsive in front of marriage, and don't give yourself over because you have heard two or three nice words from others, because marriage is a lifelong thing, and you must understand everything before getting married.

You must not be impulsive in the choice of marriage, you must stay calm, and you must judge the other party's mind and your own thoughts before making a decision.

First of all, I think you still need to know what you want to get in marriage, or what kind of person you should choose to marry, and you must know the value of marriage and the responsibility of marriage.