I m in early love, and my parents won t let me go to school, what should I do? They asked me for a r

Updated on educate 2024-07-11
40 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Then you should discuss with your parents, study first for the time being, and let go of love first.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    First of all, congratulations on having a pair of very responsible parents, your parents love you very much, because they are in a hurry to come up with this countermeasure. Everyone will meet their beloved in their life and stay with them for a lifetime. Teenagers are in the stage of growth and development, and it is normal to encounter this.

    First of all, let's not talk about who is right and who is wrong, what you have to consider is, is your body and ability mature? Do you have the ability to support each other, what kind of happiness can you give her, and how can you protect her. If none of these are available, it means that your parents are doing the right thing, but in the wrong way.

    If you really love each other, don't disturb each other's studies, discuss it together, and wait for each other to go to college before falling in love, which can also verify your love. The reason is that you really understand that early love is not good, and you will handle this relationship well and make your parents believe in you.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    You say that knowledge can change fate, you have to have a higher pursuit, make more money in the future, and feel a different life.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    No, how can any parents not want their children to become talented, you can be coquettish, I often use it, they just scare you, just make a good guarantee.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    My sister was just a freshman in junior high school, and she was talking about boyfriends and stuff like that. I know it very well. Did you fall in love so early and get married at the age of 18? Look at it from afar.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If you focus on your studies, you can have a good conversation with your parents, preferably in writing, in the form of text messages, letters. If you want to go to school, you have to deal with it.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    My parents know that I am in love and won't let me go to school, what should I do? The reason is how old you are now: junior high school, high school:

    Or college, your parents know that you don't want to go to school, your parents are good for you, if it's junior high school, you haven't completed nine years of compulsory education, which one is sorry for your parents, if you still want to continue to go to school, make a statement to your parents, complete your nine years of compulsory education, if it's high school: the university wants you to focus on studying, don't fall in love too early, give your parents a complete answer, so that they can rest assured.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    First of all, how old are you to fall in love? If you are too young, you shouldn't fall in love, but you still have to complete nine years of compulsory education, and don't let love ruin your study career.

    Secondly, your parents don't let you go to school, so do you want to go to school yourself? If you don't want to go to school, then don't go to school, find a partner to marry early, and if you want to fall in love so much, you can start a family early and reduce the burden on your parents.

    If you still want to go to school, then don't fall in love, understand the painstaking efforts of your parents, and when you reach the age of talking about marriage, you will fall in love again, and your parents will definitely not object.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    First, you have to admit your mistakes to your parents. After all, it was during the school day. You're in love.

    The main thing is that it affects learning. For parents, they worked hard to raise you. Live your good school.

    The purpose is to let you have a good future and a good life, and they are not saying that you will not be allowed to fall in love, but that it is better for you not to talk about it during your school days. That's for your good. So you have to be clear about this yourself.

    Then make a promise to them.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    How can it be? Under normal circumstances, you are not allowed to fall in love and go to school hard, why did you come the other way around? However, you must not give up your studies, there must be some truth in your parents' words, you consider the real intentions of your parents from the perspective of your parents, there must be no parents in this world who do not love their children, communicate well with your family, and study must be on.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    How old are you now, you can't fall in love when you go to school, school is when you go to learn things, your parents are right, your parents are all for your good.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's not right to fall in love in school, you can recognize your mistakes, give your parents a guarantee, don't fall in love during school, and believe that your parents can let you go to school.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Parents want you an attitude, not not to let you go to school, you just need to give them you a guarantee, going to school and falling in love will indeed affect learning, parents are for your good, a hard work,

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    1.Then act on the opportunity.

    2.Talk to your parents!

    3.Tell them that it won't affect their learning.

    4.Don't mess with your parents just yet.

    5.Don't fall in love just yet.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Isn't this easy? Then you don't want to fall in love. I shouldn't have been in a relationship during school.

    When I go to school, I mainly focus on my studies. Only by studying hard can you be admitted to a good university and have a better job. You fell in love during school, and you failed your parents.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    First of all, how old are you, and secondly, you're not in love, it's just curiosity about the opposite sex.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Are you a junior high school student or a high school student, I think if you have a puppy love, you should stop this phenomenon in time, you can have feelings but don't delay your studies.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If you go to school, the best thing is to study, you better listen to your parents, pity the world's parents, and your parents love you.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    First of all, how old are you, and secondly, you're not in love, it's just curiosity about the opposite sex. How old is it? The time to learn things when you go to school. There must be some truth in the words of the parents. Your things can only be.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    No, don't disclose it if it's unclear, unless you're a student in compulsory education, and I don't agree either...

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It is recommended to stop puppy love immediately, or to focus on studying, and your parents will naturally agree to your school.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Falling in love, study well, if you don't study well, it's really not suitable for school, after all, it's very expensive to fall in love too much, so it's not good to waste your youth on falling in love, I don't mean to say that you can't fall in love in adolescence, it's just that youth is very precious, and it's too luxurious to only fall in love. However, if you can study well, you can talk to your parents sensibly, ensure that you will not delay your studies when you fall in love, and use your subsequent exam results as a guarantee, as long as you perform enough to convince you that falling in love does not affect your studies, it is very likely to convince your parents.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    When you reach the age of love, don't do it, communicate with your parents and go to school.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Then don't fall in love, focus on studying, and the stone will be solved?

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    How old is it? The time to learn things when you go to school. There must be some truth in the words of the parents. Your things can only be.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Do you want to go to school, or do you want to be in a relationship?

    I guess I haven't been to high school yet, and if that's the case, I'd suggest you don't go to school if you want to fall in love, wasting time and money. To use an idiom, it is not a proper job.

    If you don't want to fall in love with the attitude of learning, you can directly admit your mistakes to your parents, and promise to study hard in the future, and your parents will definitely let you go.

    Parents are also well-intentioned, they can't learn well, and if they don't have money or status in the future, their daughter-in-law will cuckold you, because they want you to realize the importance of learning.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    My daughter is in the second year of junior high school, more lively, beautiful and beautiful, and her academic performance in the class is good, but recently I found that I love to dress up, and often buy some trinkets, and my grades have begun to decline, and I feel wrong, so I contacted the teacher at the school and said that the child and a boy in the class are very close, and I feel that my daughter must be in early love.

    Puppy love is now a common problem for parents and is increasingly trending towards a younger age. If girls are hurt in early love, it can have an unpredictable impact. If parents ignore it, it will affect their children's learning.

    However, if ideological counseling is to be carried out, otherwise it will lead to the child's disgust and rebellion, so it is very important for parents to communicate and guide correctly.

    What should I do if my daughter is unwilling to go to school because of her early love?

    1. It is necessary to purify children's hearts with traditional moral concepts, so that children can establish a rational, noble and pure concept of love.

    Don't expose your child to social-emotional gamification.

    2. When parents find that their children have learning phenomena that are affected by early love, they should calmly accept the reality and do not specifically blame their children. Communicate more with your child, and only by building a sense of trust with your child can you gradually solve the problem.

    3. Can't be embarrassed anymore. It is necessary for children to understand their own body structure and the physical changes of the opposite sex of the same age, eliminate the mystery of the opposite sex, and encourage children to make correct friends with other members of the opposite sex, which will help children identify the opposite sex and grasp themselves, and put an end to blind early love thoughts.

    Reasons for early love in girls:

    1. Because of the self-consciousness of adolescent girls.

    It will gradually increase, and it will also have its own opinions and thinking. As parents and teachers, we must learn to respect their own personality and let children have their own thinking. Don't impose your own ideas on your child, otherwise it will lead to the child being rebellious and the relationship will become more and more rigid.

    2. There are many parents who are busy working all day long to make money, and they don't even have time to spend with their children. There are even parents who are only concerned about the girl's academic situation, but never care about the girl's life and physical and mental development. And adolescent girls are emotionally unstable and can easily have conflicts with their parents.

    At this time, the communication with the opposite sex is often easy to resonate, and it will transform into early love after a long time.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Children are in adolescence, early love is a normal phenomenon, if the correct guidance of the mu will be of great help to the child, to guide the child to establish a correct concept of puberty, tell the child not to trust others easily. It is necessary to correctly guide children to study seriously and tell them to achieve excellent results.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    You have to transmit the correct emotional outlook to your child, and your boyfriend may dislike you after you don't study, so you have to tell her about your own experience.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    It is necessary to let the child understand that this practice is wrong, and parents can take their children to see the state of girls in different states after marriage.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    I think you can talk to him first and tell him: "People will have a time when they are young, but your main task at this stage is to study, to focus on learning, only by studying hard, you will have the ability to treat the person you like well in the future, I can understand you, but I still hope that you will stop and devote yourself to learning, after all, there is only one chance to read in life!" "If you continue after the communication, you will talk to his parents about the situation and let them take action.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    They shouldn't tell their parents, but they should be stopped, because their parents are not of the same age as them, so they will always deal with the problem in the way of parents, and it may hurt the child, but it must be stopped, because they don't understand anything at this age, and it can hurt the girl.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Students are in early love, and as a teacher, you can tell their parents, let them know about the situation, and then discuss a solution with their parents, which is also for the good of the child.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Should. Because the task of students is to study hard, too early love will not only delay learning, but also have an impact on the body and mind, and parents should be allowed to communicate with them to explain the seriousness of the problem.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Of course, they should tell their parents so that they don't do something excessive when they are in early love, which will also affect their schoolwork.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Students can tell their parents about their early love, but they should discuss with their parents how to deal with their children's early love? Teachers and parents should not work together to criticize the child, as this will be counterproductive.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Of course it should, because children's early love may affect their learning, and their future should be stopped in time.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Of course you have to tell. Because puppy love in students can be very detrimental to their physical and mental health.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Answering that children are in adolescence, puppy love is a normal phenomenon, if the correct guidance will be of great help to the child, but if it is not correctly guided, it may ruin the child, so it is important to guide the child correctly. 2/5

    It is necessary to guide children to establish a correct concept of adolescence and tell them that it is normal for children to have a good impression of the opposite sex at this time, but they should not delay their own learning, and they should still focus on learning. 3/5

    Correctly guide children to study seriously, tell children that it is more important to achieve excellent grades, explain relevant knowledge about adolescence to children, establish correct three views, and constantly improve their scientific and cultural knowledge and ability. 4/5

    It is necessary to face the appearance of early love calmly, treat it as a normal accident, and give correct guidance. Guide them to speak psychological words or develop the habit of keeping a diary, so that their feelings have a way to vent and gradually reduce their inner psychological pressure. 5/5

    Students should be instructed to deal with emotional problems. When instructing students, do not put themselves in the position of educators, but help them overcome their problems as elders who have experienced and experienced similar difficulties, and have a sincere attitude.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    What should I do if the child refuses to take the high school entrance examination, for the child of early love, "chasing and intercepting" and "beating the mandarin duck" are the next policy, the bigger the blow, the more fierce the child's resistance will be. Parents should guide and guide them rationally, take a step back and admit them first, do not exacerbate the contradictions, and then look for opportunities for education and change. However, this does not mean that parents are "laissez-faire" to their children, and on the premise of respecting their children's emotional communication and friendship rights, they will influence their children to form a correct world view and love outlook, and reasonably handle the relationship between emotions and learning.

    It is also a good means to guide and educate children to shift hobbies and interests to healthy things. Experience has taught us that puppy love generally doesn't last, and when parents generously let their children bring their friends to play at home, they feel that it is nothing.

    Of course, the most nervous thing for parents in early love is how to ensure that their children do not cross the "thunder pool". This is a sensitive topic, and children at this age have weak self-control, and their physical impulses, curiosity about sex, and lack of knowledge about sex can all make them make mistakes. In addition to taking active defensive measures (for example, parents on both sides join forces and do not provide children with opportunities to be alone), parents should educate their children about physiology and fertility, so as to eliminate the mystery of sex and reduce the chance of making mistakes.

    No matter how far the child has gone on the issue of early love, parents should keep in mind that they cannot give up their love and care for their child out of anger and disappointment.

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