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I was born in 93, working in the system, and now the unit is a middle-level cadre, my parents are in business, the family conditions are okay, and the daughter-in-law is also in the system. Locust resistant.
Happy point 1: There is no stress in life. This is thanks to my parents, before I got married, I bought a house and a car in full, I didn't have to repay the loan, and I was very happy when the provident fund went to ** every month.
It turns out that I have been in the company for a year, and I have no right to refuse leadership, even if it is a small leadership type). So after working in the system for a few years, I hardly work overtime, I leave at the point, step on the point to work, no one can control me haha, the salary is still paid.
Happy point 3: the happiness of dual workers. The dining card issued by the unit, the supermarket shopping card, snack shop card, cake shop card, movie card, and clothing store card issued by the guild cannot be used up at all, and the double income is two, and the daily necessities at home do not cost money, not only us, but also my parents' daily necessities are bought by us.
Go to work together, get off work together, be on duty together, and have holidays together, although we both have cars, we usually ride a small electric donkey when we go to work, I take her, and the unit charging is also free. Moreover, the three views of the two of us are also quite compatible, how to rise together if we have nothing to do, and we have quarreled with passers-by together, and the husband and wife are invincible in the world.
Happiness point 4: Work itself is happier. I am now the deputy director of the office (the leader and director in charge are in charge, and there are staff members working in the lower section, everyone thinks I am busy), the secretary of the Youth League Committee (there is a branch committee to do things), a member of the trade union (responsible for publicity, all the propaganda manuscripts are available), a member of the party branch (responsible for publicity, as above), and every year all the awards and evaluations will consider me, because I seem to be busy.
And my job is more about facing leaders, and to be honest, most of them are more approachable, which makes me feel good at work every day. My daughter-in-law works for the enterprises and the masses that she faces, and she basically has to remind herself every day not to be like them.
Happy point 4: The material and spiritual worlds are relatively full. As for the material life, thanks to my and my daughter-in-law's parents, who support our little two (now my daughter-in-law and I rent a house near the unit, and then go back to our house on weekends to clean the villa and sweep for a day).
The spiritual world, we have nothing to do to have a romantic activity, playing cards, making an appointment with a hot pot, barbecue at home, flying chess, chasing dramas, watching movies, shopping, traveling, writing poems and publishing publications, and recently researching and writing**, and we are both more worried about the country and the people, pay attention to current affairs, we are both law majors, and can theorize a hot event overnight.
Happy point 5: Happiness from colleagues. I have a good relationship with my colleagues, I like to engage in small groups Hey, hey, usually make an appointment for breakfast together, make an appointment for dinner in the evening, make an appointment with cards, and travel on weekends, and complain about the "old pole" of the unit together if there is nothing to do, and study how to make them bad and crooked.
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Summary. It is everyone's responsibility to live happier. Happiness does not depend on external factors, but on our own inner attitudes and choices.
No matter what kind of environment we are in, facing challenges and difficulties, we can choose an optimistic, positive mindset and look for beauty and joy in life. Happiness is a subjective personal experience, so happiness may vary from person to person. Some people may find happiness by spending time with friends and family, pursuing career success, pursuing hobbies, exercising, and so on.
The key is to discover and cherish the things and experiences that bring us happiness and face life's challenges with a positive mindset so that we can live happier lives.
It is everyone's responsibility to live happier. Happiness does not depend on external factors, but on our own inner attitudes and choices. No matter what kind of environment we are in, facing challenges and difficulties, we can choose an optimistic, positive mindset and look for beauty and joy in life.
Happiness is a subjective experience, so happiness may vary from person to person. Some Kaisong people may get happiness by getting along with relatives and friends, pursuing the success of Sun Minye, pursuing hobbies, exercising, etc. The key is to discover and cherish the things and experiences that bring us happiness and face life's challenges with a positive mindset so that we can live happier lives.
Can you add, I don't quite understand it.
Happiness depends on an individual's inner attitude and choices, and is not affected by external factors. Through a positive attitude and finding the good in life, we are able to find happiness in any environment. Everyone's happiness may be different, but the key is to discover and cherish the things and experiences that bring you happiness, and face challenges with a positive attitude to live a happier life.
I won't tell you. Go read Aesop's Fables.
Increasingly stressful pace of life + work pressure + relationships + couples in the family. Many want to open a little.
Your problem is that you are putting too much pressure on yourself, and people can live very simply. When you feel tired, you can rest, and there is no need to deliberately suppress yourself. Because after all, you are just a drop of water in the ocean, and sometimes you may not even be a water. >>>More
Because after life is full, you will have a great sense of satisfaction, you will no longer feel empty and bored, you will feel that everything you do is meaningful, then you will be able to sincerely get happiness, this happiness belongs to you, because it is obtained through your own efforts, for people like us who like to be lazy every day, it is not able to enjoy.
The question you asked, society does exist. Life is depressed, this problem is felt by everyone, but it is just a question of whether it is too depressed or too small. In the 70s, we took the road of socialist collectivization, and with the strong support of the collective economy, there was no repression; Nowadays, the privatization of the land and households has lost the support of the collective economy, and everything depends on itself, so that the pressure is great, and the pressure will be depressed. >>>More