The sadness of a divorced woman with children, how difficult it is to divorce a woman with children

Updated on parenting 2024-07-19
7 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    If you are divorced and feel financially tight, you have to support yourself and your children's living expenses, children's study expenses, and so on. Especially as a stay-at-home mother, it may feel really stretched at this time. If the ex-husband is unwilling to give the money to the children, and even argues with the ex-husband every time because of the issue of child support, it is really tiring.

    Divorced, I feel that there is no helper, all my free time is dedicated to the child, and I can turn at any time, in case the child has a little headache and brain fever, it really feels like the sky is falling, so desperate and helpless.

    Divorced, I feel that I have no one to talk to, I can't find anyone to comfort me when I am wronged, and I can't find a shoulder to lean on. All the bitterness can only be swallowed silently.

    But in fact, think about it another way, if a woman has a child, if it is not because she is disappointed in her husband, how many will take the initiative to file for divorce? In marriage, how much did your man contribute to the family, how many times did he take care of the children, how many housework did he help, how many times did he listen to his own heart, and how many times did he rely on himself? Wasn't that time difficult?

    So it's still the same thing, whether it's difficult or not, it's about the mentality.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    It's very difficult, it's very difficult, in fact, I really don't recommend that the woman take the child after the divorce. This is not to say that I am ruthless, a woman with a child is hard, and it is absolutely impossible to experience it without being in it. My friend's sister took her daughter alone after the divorce, and the child usually had to work hard when she was sick, and the friends were responsible for driving her to the hospital, and the parents of the friends were with her.

    At the parent-teacher conference, his sister went to work, his friends sent his parents there, the children were disobedient, and the whole family was in a mess.

    Later, my friend's sister talked about the partner again, and the family was even more anxious, afraid that he would treat his sister badly and that he would treat the child badly. In the end, I was afraid that my stepfather would hurt my daughter in the future, anyway, many friends were afraid of the anxious thing, saying that it was too difficult for me not to divorce in the future. The children were also sinned.

    If the father is an irresponsible person, and can only be brought by the wind, it is strongly recommended to ask for more money, and it is better to have a house, with these, at least you will be easier, raising a child is more powerful than a money shredder, it is better to take precautions, than to look at the face and borrow money at that time. In short, divorce with children, not only must be resilient, but also have a brave heart, prepare for the worst, the best conditions. After all, after separation, there is cherishing, and some are not too tired.

    These are all ready, you can live with the child, no matter what, sometimes you still have to find the child, and the father should not feel that he will be a passerby if he is separated. Blood relatives are very magical things, you think that the father has not paid anything, but our children can always easily accept the father, so he should not be afraid of it, anyway, it will always be together in the future. Putting that kind of enemy thinking aside, it's not abound to be a dad in the morning.

    Let him work hard, don't be afraid of trouble, why let him have a relationship to have love, and a connection to have love.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    A divorced woman with children has a very difficult life, because if you take care of your children, you can't take care of your life, you can only choose one of the two, and only by starting a new marriage can it be solved!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It's not difficult to make money, but it's hard to have children without money.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If you are divorced and have children by yourself, and you are still a girl, of course, it is very difficult, and you still have to work and take care of him at the same time, which is actually very difficult.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It is still very difficult for a divorced woman with children, but you have to have confidence in yourself, as long as you are optimistic and confident, I believe that you will find your true love, and I believe that you will be happy.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    A divorced woman still has to take care of her children, first of all, the economy is a problem, she has to work and take care of her children, so it is very difficult for a divorced woman.

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