If you don t understand me, why do you need to talk nonsense about what I mean?

If this man doesn't understand you, don't talk gibberish to me.

Most of the time, when we get angry and argue with others, it's ourselves who end up hurting us. Even if we have the upper hand in the dispute, what do we have to gain in the end? I'm afraid the main thing is the damage caused by the energy, brain and physical strength wasted in the dispute.

If we can take a step back, we will gain the peace of mind and respect of others.

Make an angry notebook; Keep a record of the time and why each time you get into an argument and anger with someone and look back again after a certain period of time. Perhaps you will find that most of the reasons are trivial or even boring. If you encounter a similar situation in the future, you will not be like a firecracker.

There are some things that don't have any impact on our lives or even our whole lives. At this time, we might as well give in generously.

In many cases, some major conflict or disagreement with a friend or colleague may start out as a minor disagreement, and people are reluctant to give up the so-called "face" for fear of being slighted and eventually put into practice. A small disagreement turned into an irresistible dispute, which hurt both sides. If you know how to give in from the beginning, you can avoid some trouble later.

As the saying goes, "Bear with me for a while, take a step back, and open up the sky." ”

Meaning: If you don't understand me, don't talk nonsense about me. Sometimes a person doesn't understand another person at all, including character, three views, living habits, preferences, etc., if you don't understand it, don't talk nonsense, so as not to bring harm to others, harm others and yourself.

If you cherish and love each other, you don't have to be next to him all the time, if you have him in your heart, you believe in him, so you can trust each other.

The second half of the sentence is detailed in Nalan Ci.

The strange road that is always parallel to each other! In fact, such a sentence is the best to experience that kind of artistic conception by yourself! If you have experienced it, you may remember it!

If you chose to leave, why bother.

Don't you know how much courage it takes to keep thinking about it? Since you are destined to have no chance in this life, why swear by the sky, give hope and break your thoughts. Today's kindness is like flowing water without a trace. After that, forget it.

After this day, who needs to remember whom? Since then, there has been no way out.

What you say is that you say too much and don't do it, and after a storm, you rush forward unprepared Things are followed by the words If you hear the news in the backsliding, don't ask openly, talk less, do more things, you understand?

Congratulations, this is a good sign, that is, the beauty can be treated, there is no need to worry about tossing and turning, and the love is silent. As long as you work hard, you can be happy.

I feel that you can talk more but not the same as following others, that way things will be smoother, and if someone can secretly give some gossip, you don't have to ask people everywhere.

When it comes to marriage, everyone is gossiping, but it's okay to listen to these words, but don't be serious.

Now, you have to figure out what the other person really thinks and figure out if it really means that way to you. If these things are figured out, do you still need to ask them again and again?

……What modern people say, it feels a bit contradictory, it should be that if you believe (or have in your heart) me, why worry about each other, if you have (probably integrity, etc.), I must believe you, so ......(Xi is a mood word, I really don't understand what it means).

I also drew this lottery when I went to Nanshan, and they explained it to me. Probably to learn to speak. Don't pay too much attention to what people say. Believe in yourself.

Bad things always happen in dangerous places where there is no light. Why should you care about the past? Although it's all wrong to be together now, it will be something that has nothing to do with you in the future.

The two born in the year of Chen and Yin are incompatible. Even if they fall in love this time, they will go their separate ways one day.

Answer pro, the meaning of these poems is that the dragon and the tiger are attached to each other in the deep mountains, and you don't have to talk about other people's affairs behind your back. You don't know if they're happy together or not. None of this will concern us in the near future.

Happiness and joy, cold and warm self-knowing. These words are to persuade people not to chew their tongues indiscriminately, and not to talk about whether other people's lives are happy or unhappy, because only they know whether they are happy or unhappy, and they don't want to do these things and themselves. The most important thing is to live your own life. [smiles].