The pain of not being able to find a wife alone, or the pain of marrying someone you don t like, whi

The latter is painful, life can't make do, I'd rather be single for a while, I don't want to be lonely for a lifetime, I am with someone I don't like, there is no common topic, there is no feeling, it may be okay at first, but after a long time, I will be very tired, and when one day you find what you like, you are married again, can you easily divorce? Will the one you like marry you after the divorce? You can easily divorce your wife, you will be able to divorce her in the future, a smart woman will not meddle in other people's marriages, will not bear the infamy of the mistress, if you divorce your wife, is it fair to your wife for the youth that your wife has paid for you for so many years?

I hope you think it through and don't be impulsive!

The former is painful, because the latter can be cultivated to like, and the boss in the gatekeeper knows. If not, it's very painful, and you will be urged to marry every day!

The latter is more painful, the former is painful for a while, and the latter is painful for a lifetime.

It's more painful to marry someone you don't like If you can't find a wife, you can find it slowly, you will find someone you like, maybe it's fate, it's not yet fate. Bless you; Hopefully, you'll find someone you like soon. If you marry someone you don't like, it's a lifetime.

It's painful to share a bed with someone you don't like every day. You have to think clearly, don't make a blind choice, this is the biggest thing in life, I hope it will help you.

The pain is that there is no one to share with you, and if you marry someone you don't like, you don't have to go through the pain of not being able to find a wife. Besides, those who can get married are not the kind that are useless, and after getting along for a long time, they should be able to discover each other's advantages and get along with them. Besides, there are jobs, careers, relatives and friends in life, and not all the time is spent on "people you don't like".

Of course, I still follow my feelings, I know that I am wrong and continue, and the bitter fruit can only be enjoyed by myself!

If you can't find a wife, it's better to find someone you don't like to spend your life with, at least have a companion.

I don't think I can find a wife.

I can't say which one is more painful, the first one can easily go on, without restraint, when you are alone, you can't help but be lonely, lonely, no one will pay for you without asking for anything in return, life will be empty but there is no pressure, the second can only say that you have more experience, marry someone you don't love, not that there will be no happiness, just no feelings for a lifetime, but someone to take care of when you are sick, someone to heal when you are sad, and having a child can be said to be a burden for divorce, because it is not the crystallization of love, But you can't be without love for your children, so there is no pain, and divorce is not painful, it's just that you have lost time on the way to walk, but you will still walk the same, have one more child, it depends on what you think, it is very common for women to divorce at that age, it is normal to have children, and it is also good to take children to find a man you love you.

Now you haven't gotten married, you haven't met the right person, don't worry about these senseless pains, only if you experience it yourself, you know that it's not actually pain, single life and divorce are just two different paths, but don't force yourself to get married, maybe you meet a man you don't love, but will bring you happiness and love you, marriage is not a bad thing.

Divorce is more painful, and divorce is a blow to the heart.

I think it's the latter, I'd rather be lacking than rotten! It's good to live alone, so you can do whatever you want.

It depends on your attitude.

For me, I don't think it's possible to say that I can't find someone who is in love. I will not marry someone I don't love, and I don't love how to live with him. I believe in fate, and more contact with the outside world can always find the right person.

I think you should be given a definite answer, being single for a lifetime will be more painful. Because as long as you enter marriage, you will definitely get a family affection, as long as you have feelings, as long as you are not cold-blooded, your children, you will definitely be regarded as treasures, and if you are single for a lifetime, you will only have a free and futile attachment, you will get nothing, pay a beautiful youth. People live, sometimes just for the future to die of yourself to leave a memory that can be remembered, your memory can be flowery, can also be painful, but after all, you have experienced, that is wealth, and when you don't even have some memories, then your life is really in vain.

There is also a sentence that is long-term love, how many happy families, the wife and the husband are really happy with each other from the beginning, marriage is magical, he can evolve your love, but also give you affection, your husband is not only your lover, but also your relatives, of course, there are children are crystallization, if you are single, you can be very chic in front of people, you have to let others see that you live without worry, relaxed, but behind is bitter; Having a marriage, you may be bitter in front of people, but you may not really live in pain, you have children, there is a long-term hope, this is precious, family happiness is not the most enviable? That's why we're after those sweet burdens, aren't we? I wish you happiness and beg for adoption.

It's important, but marriage is not child's play.

As long as you can stand it, it doesn't matter if you get married or not.

Important, do it yourself.

Fate will come, and if you don't, you won't! Is that you?

How can there be so many years of quietness, we are all laymen, ordinary people. What is like? Impulsive feelings, just like we will notice the black dots on the white paper, you will also be interested in the colors in life, the unchanged life is the white paper, and the person who rings the doorbell with you is your color.

Eventually, interest will turn into impulse, and impulse, you will think that it is love. But you can't ring the doorbell for the rest of your life. If his mind is always on you, he will take you to ring the doorbell today, skip class tomorrow, and pull you on a hangover next time.

These things, people who like you will also do them, but you don't give him time, you don't give him a chance, this wooden person will draw colorful colors on paper, and what about the person you like? I didn't dare to jump to conclusions, but a lot of them lost interest, and I hurriedly crossed out a blank sheet of paper. We are actually very stupid, the person who can't see through us the most is precisely ourselves, we don't know our own emotions, we feel that impulse is love, and we tell ourselves in the face of peace of mind plain but resolute

I don't like him.

A word for you: if you can avoid violent joy, there will be no sorrow.

Find someone who will only be happy when you see you.

It varies from person to person, people are emotional, maybe they don't like it at first, they don't like it slowly, and they find each other's good after a long time.

Then do you have someone you like in your heart, if not, then you may slowly like him after marriage. For marriage, find someone who loves you.

Not necessarily, when you get married, you know that love is not important, and the most important thing is to have a suitable personality.

It can only be said that the person you love the most may not be with you for life, and the person you don't love may be the person who grows old with you.

Marriage is created on the basis of the relationship between two people, and if you can't change the reality, pay more to maintain it.

One is regret and the other is numbness.

In fact, the previous generation was like this, and my parents and parents also came over like that, it depends on who accommodates whom... If we are still like this in modern times, I really don't know how to say it!

Of course, do you want to be free?

Not all love becomes, and not all marriages have love.

Now men and women are roaring together, are they huddling together for warmth, or are they foaming with each other?

Some people say that for the sake of the future, what is marriage? Others say how good is it to be simple, happy, and happy for a lifetime? But that's how the world came to be, huh?

It's not complete, just get used to it.

Hello, in general, yes.

Isn't it painful to marry someone you don't like? Be. What do you think about marrying someone who doesn't have money?

At first yes, it's much better to go with your heart....Look a little bit away....

Who is to blame for the one you choose! Pain is not self-inflicted.

It doesn't have to be painful, the key depends on your mentality.

Communicate more, communicate more.

Don't just play your own work every day.

Walk around more together and create more alone time for the two of you.

Getting married in a hurry?? Didn't you get married directly after falling in love? If you get married directly, it's too normal to have nothing to say, and feelings are indeed cultivated by cultivation.

It depends on whether you like her or not, if you like it, you should take the initiative, talk nonsense and find topics, in short, you have to communicate with her to have trust and affection for each other.

Let's find a topic, see what she likes and what she is interested in,

Alas, I feel the same way, but my daughter-in-law does a good job of housework

Hurt in marriage....

Trouble, thanks!

I choose the hurt in my marriage.

Loving your own person and the person you love is not a person's problem, if you don't have a lover, if the conditions allow - the elders in the family understand, just be alone, but, the elders will not want you to live alone, so, if you choose, you must take the corresponding responsibility, respect and understand each other, because the other party is the closest person who has been with you for the longest time. Above.

Hello, I'm glad to answer for you, if it were me, I would choose to die alone, and I don't want to spend the rest of my life with someone I don't love.

Unless that person is good enough for themselves. It will come. Otherwise, go on your own.

It depends on whether you are young or middle-aged or have children.

It depends. If the environment forces it, it can't be helped.