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I'm sorry, I'm in exactly the same situation as you, under the pressure of the outside world, I tried to accept some people I didn't like, but I was very distressed before I started, and I really didn't want to go any further, because my heart kept telling me that this is not someone you like, and you don't feel anything about him.

Maybe we don't have the right to decide what kind of man we meet, but we still have the right to choose who we will be with. Don't deceive your heart, because it's a lifetime thing.

Girl, time waits for no one, not to mention that if you continue to "remain" at the ** age, you will become a leftover girl that no one wants.

When it really doesn't work, most women choose to find someone who can make do with it.

It's not good, but it's true.

After all, real marriage and love are not as romantic as in the book.

Waiting is not the best way, you can see that you are very picky, and when you pick the other person, can you examine yourself. What does the other person value about you? Is it appearance, money, or heart? What do you think of each other?

Why do you have to wait, you have to take the initiative, take the initiative to chase what you see, find each other in the relationship, understand each other, it's not suitable to change, a woman's age is very important, and she can't afford to wait.

Maybe the person you are destined for didn't appear, or maybe you missed him. Try to keep your eyes low. Need to find a potential stock to catch him. Your happiness will not come. Ideal for the long term.

There is always someone you have to wait for him, but don't be too passive, chase if you like!

It turns out that I am not alone!

When I'm older, will I not be able to find a female ticket, and I will be lonely for the rest of my life. For such thoughts, I always feel a little too negative, too concerned about age, and I already have a deep mustard in my heart.

We live in a big world, people come and go, and you always meet a lot of different people. Age is not happiness and happiness, and the key factor in finding a female ticket or not finding a female ticket. Happiness may be long overdue if it hasn't arrived, but it will come, and you can do it before that:

1.Have your own goals in life. Mature girls, before being with someone, think about many things.

For example, what kind of job is the boy engaged in, what are the plans for career development, and is he a family person. These are all key, so before meeting a girl, you must have your own goals in life and strive to make yourself better.

2.Enrich yourself. Girls are easily moved by some small details, such as just the right amount of humor, being able to take care of each other's emotions in chatting, have their own opinions, and do not appear to be deliberately pretentious.

When chatting, you can say more about topics that girls don't understand well, and patience and details will give you extra points.

3.It is really important for boys to have their own hobbies, like to play basketball, like to play Rubik's Cube, like to swim, etc. In this kind of life, a lot of color will also have a different beauty, and the character of such a boy will not be too dull, and they will dance when they talk about what they like.

I also want to bring my favorite girls to participate in sports and fully participate in life.

Han Gengbu said when talking about his girlfriend Lu Jingshan before, she didn't let me play extreme sports at first, and I felt dangerous, but then I took her to experience it, and it felt really good to be with my own girl.

I'm older, I don't seem to be able to find a female ticket, you see, you used the word like, it means it's just your personal feelings, about you, I'll tell you the story of a colleague of mine first.

I have a female colleague, let's call her Xiao A, nearly forty-three years old this year, I have never had a boyfriend before, just recently, I met a former colleague of mine when I was waiting for the car, talking about my colleague Xiao A, the former colleague said that Xiao A is now picked up and dropped off by someone to and from work, and the worrying little A finally found the boyfriend he wanted at the age of forty-two. I think that's very good news when I hear that.

So, the boyfriend of the forty-two-year-old Xiao A is not too young, didn't he also find a female ticket? And his character as a female ticket is also very good in all aspects.

Back to your question, being old is not the only reason that restricts you from finding a female ticket, if you want to find a female ticket, don't hold such an idea, if you always think like this, it will really affect your own finding a female ticket.

If you want to find a female ticket, if you are because there is no suitable person in your circle, you must go and see if someone introduces you, don't feel that you can't do it, or feel that the introduction is unreliable, sometimes you can really find your fate through the introduction, maybe you can find your best female ticket.

In addition, you can also talk to your close friends and let them give you ideas, they are often with you, they also know you, let them talk about what you are not doing well, what needs to be improved, after all, sometimes you can't see yourself clearly. Sometimes I don't know how to pay a female ticket, and I can ask my friends for advice in this regard.

I always think that marriage depends on fate, not hard to find, the right time, you will naturally meet the right person, but even if it is chance, you need to be prepared for what you should do, after all, the female ticket is really coming, if you can't speak, you can't pay attention, and the opportunity will be missed.

Good luck finding the female ticket soon.

Try a blind date, or don't resist the blind date arranged by the family too much, sometimes, you can still go to see, maybe you can meet the person you want to meet, because it is not said that through the blind date, it is not love, I remember a very impressive sentence, do not rule out blind dates, love and the way you meet have nothing to do.

Especially for girls, if you are a little older, in fact, it is not just to find a male ticket and talk about a relationship, but to find a person who can get married, and this way of knowing each other through a blind date, in fact, it is easier to find, I think many people are actually a little prejudiced against blind dates, most of the blind dates are introduced through family members or friends, usually more knowing, and through the blind date, if you can be together, the family will be a little less, unlike you know, There may be more parents for this, and if the parents don't like it, they may end up going through a lot of twists and turns even if they can be together.

I have a friend who met my current wife through a blind date, when the family let me go on a blind date, they were very repulsive, and then because they didn't want to enthusiastically introduce the elders lack face, and had to go, as a result, the two of them fell in love with each other at a glance, and finally came together without accidents, the children went to kindergarten, which is really a very fateful thing, so I sometimes take it out and share it with friends.

I don't want to pay attention to many people, and just blindly wait, this is difficult to wait for the result, because you have to understand that to meet the right person, the premise is that you have to take the initiative to know more people, otherwise he will not fall from the sky and just hit you.

For falling in love, age and distance are not a problem, and the most important thing is that the relationship is not in place.

I know a boy who is four or five years older than me, and then he has been urged to marry by his family.

He was very worried about the urging at home, as if he really couldn't find a partner.

He said to his family, "The girl I liked so much when I was in school used to make you mess with it, and now it's been a few years since I graduated and worked, and you let me fall in love again, but I don't want to talk about it now, men still focus on career, I just want to work hard." ”

See, people seem to be a little resistant to falling in love at a certain stage, that is, the state of being single for a long time, and they feel that they are better to live alone, free and happy.

No one will say that life is bad for one person, but wouldn't it be happier for two people to live together, to have happy things to share together, and to have delicious meals to taste together.

Those who say that they are old and can't find a female ticket, I don't think you have to be in a hurry to find a girlfriend.

Fate will bring you a particularly good girl, and the relationship is not in a hurry, after all, the good ones are behind.

Getting older means that the first thing is to focus on the career, after all, the boy will have to support the family in the future, so it's nothing to work hard now, and it's no big deal if there is no female ticket, and when the career is successful, the peach blossom will naturally be very prosperous, and excellent girls will not miss you, a mature and successful man.

Age is really not a problem, don't hold yourself when you're old and you can't find a female ticket, many young girls actually like men who are five or six years older than themselves, because they are mature and know how to take care of people.

I believe that your love is not far away, and I wish you happiness.

Hello, I'm Tsundere Wow. 】

I can't find a boyfriend, and it's also a good choice to find a girlfriend.

Just kidding, many young women are still single now, it doesn't matter, people say that a good meal is not afraid of being late. As long as the marriage can be happy, it doesn't matter if it's a little later.

My sister-in-law was 27 years old when she married her brother, and at that age in the countryside, children in rural families might have to go to elementary school. But the sister-in-law did not choose to get married so early, and the sister-in-law studied well when she was in school, but her father was sick and there was no money in the family. Later, he went to Beijing to work, and was sent home to catch up with SARS.

And then I stayed at home all the time. The elder brother is a few years younger than the sister-in-law, and he is very capable, and this marriage is like this. In fact, my sister-in-law has not been in a hurry to get married, my brother is very obedient and takes care of the family, my sister-in-law runs cram schools to make money, although the two of them have no money when they get married, but for nearly ten years, they have been able to buy a house in the county.

So, it doesn't matter if you're old or single, it's okay, your happiness will come sooner or later. I'm not old now, but I haven't been in a serious relationship yet?

You have to laugh at your own negative thoughts, and then use the time you are single to work hard to improve yourself, you can usually read a little more books, take a few more certificates, cultivate your interests more, and then pay more attention to the men around you, and your happiness will come back soon. You just have to be ready, don't start to rush because the people around you have found your happiness, start to suffer from the loss of your future feelings, these are not only useless, but also affect your confidence, so ah, be optimistic.

Don't deliberately look for a boyfriend because you're too old to find a boyfriend, and believe that someone will be waiting for you in the future.

I think everything has to go with the flow, although you haven't found a boyfriend yet, but it doesn't mean that you won't be able to find it in the next few days or years, maybe someone will confess to you in the next second and ask you if you want to be his girlfriend, who knows what will happen in the next moment.

Age may be really important for girls, in their twenties is called youth, and they may already be middle-aged when they enter their thirties, but in spite of this, they can't deliberately look for it because they can't find it, some people just go to find someone to get married casually because their parents have been urging them to get married, but in the end it's not separated, but there are indeed people who have been together for a long time, but how can you bet on your happiness because you're older and don't have a boyfriend.

If you have a crush and he is also single, then you can rest assured and boldly pursue him, maybe he also likes you or is ready to like you. If not, don't worry, you have to have confidence in yourself, not having it now does not mean that it will not be in the future, maybe he is just a little late, don't worry, wait patiently.

And what you said doesn't seem to be found, so you can't see that you're not sure, right, so don't worry, don't always think that you're old and don't have a boyfriend, and you may be married when you're all around you, but so what, maybe your one met you by chance.

And what you have to do now is make yourself more confident, and what if you are older, that doesn't mean you will never find it. You have to believe that you are attractive, what are you afraid of, maybe someone will make you happy to live younger and younger, and I believe that you will live a very happy life in the future!

A person must also have a wonderful person, so that when you meet the right person, you can also have the confidence to say, you are good, but I am not bad. When love is absent, doing your own thing is the best arrangement.

Age is not a problem, the problem is that you are not confident enough. As long as you have enough confidence in yourself, and work hard enough to display your charm, and then make yourself passionate about life, a boyfriend will definitely be found.

What are you afraid of, it seems that I've only heard that men are not easy to find a girlfriend, and I'm afraid I can't find it