When you don t have a boyfriend, you want to have him, but you are used to treating him as a friend

Updated on psychology 2024-07-25
44 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    Maybe I haven't found true love yet. I saw that everyone around me had boyfriends, and I didn't have a love yet. Maybe the love she wants is vigorous.

    But there is a gap between reality and dreams. This may be the reason why she doesn't feel it after falling in love, since she doesn't feel it anymore, she naturally doesn't take it seriously!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Maybe she doesn't know what love is! It's just curious about falling in love, although she is in love now, it doesn't mean that she loves him, she just has a good impression of him, so she can't treat him as her lover! It's not that she doesn't attach importance to love, and when she really loves someone, she will know how to fall in love......

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Yes, you're still young. It's normal not to pay attention.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Tell him what you want, you don't want it, you don't say how people know, and you can't break up, I think this man is okay, in fact, his behaviors are expressions of love, the meaning is good, but you are not used to it, either he follows your wishes, or you follow his, I think your independence is not allowed to be violated by others, you will enjoy it, and you are worthy of it and there is no loss, do you ignore your love, I think you ask too much.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If you are married, you won't be treated like this, don't worry, now he is afraid that you will fly, and when the raw rice is cooked, he will be so good to you, and he is not very happy.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Hello, this is a blessing. I don't know how to be blessed in the blessings, and I hope you are happy.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Because I love you, I blindly accommodate you.

    Tell him what you think, tactfully. Is mutual understanding the foundation of emotional harmony?

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    After all, he is for your good, you should think about it, it is better to talk to him in person, let him know your inner thoughts, and understand each other.

    Finally, cherish it, there is such a man who loves you not to be hungry, bless you, be happy.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Ah! O beings in this world! It's good for ta, but it's not good; Not good, not good. It's really cheap!!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    As long as he's good to you, don't you want to find someone who still has it outside?

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    The reason for your age, I hope you are happy

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If you really love him, you have to treat him better, so that he loves you more, until he can't let go of you, can't do without you, and then think about telling him at that time, I believe that if he really loves you, he will definitely forgive you.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Let's just mention it. When the time comes, everyone will be embarrassed.

    Let's not say whether this is right or not.

    Then find a solution first, and it's up to him whether to choose or not.

    What about yourself?

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I don't think there's anything wrong with it, habits become natural, as long as you are happy, people get along with each other in the end, it will become a habit.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Your boyfriend may want to hear you say that he likes him, well, the so-called habit may be that your boyfriend is worried that you don't like him very much! Well, try to say "I like you" to him, hehe, come on!!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I want to say that when you ask this question, you must be biased towards the direction of "separation", because if you think that this "habit" is OK, you will not think about whether it is necessary, but after 2 years, you have a relationship, and you are reluctant to give up, because he has not done anything to be sorry for you. People who don't know what kind of personality your boyfriend is, some people are just more plain, this kind of person is suitable for marriage, and couples always end up with their relatives. In fact, what I want to say most is that if you can find someone who is like your family, you will be satisfied!

    Be happy and don't think too much! If he is sorry for you, you can leave him without hesitation, but he doesn't. Sometimes bland is a good thing!

    Wishing you happiness!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    There is only responsibility and habit and no love. It won't be long before you're going to have a breakup.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It really doesn't make much sense, but you'd better think it over before you decide.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    There is no eternal love, and love is all about family affection in the end

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Life will always return to the ordinary, and the songs are sung "only to know that the plain is the truth."

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Habits are also because there is love.

    Love or not love should be able to feel it.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    The good thing is that he has treated you as a family member, and the bad thing is that he has become accustomed to everything about you, and thinks that you are nothing special, and slowly he will feel very bored!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Good!! I've become accustomed to my girlfriend, and although I care less about it, I definitely won't separate! Hello blessed!

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Good... To get used to it is to be dependent ...

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Good thing, you two can't do without each other (a person's habits are difficult to change drops), I wish you happiness.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Love, if it becomes dependence, if only habits remain, it will only hurt two people!

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Well, it means that he treats you as a part of his life

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    It doesn't matter if you have strengths or weaknesses, as long as he gets used to it, he is dependent on your performance, bless you both.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    It's not good, it's a common problem for men, pay attention to changing your image often, even if it's a change of hairstyle.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    He loves you so much. He doesn't want his unhappiness to be attached to the two of you. So he chose to deal with it himself, and he won't tell you.

    He wants you to tell him why. He doesn't want you to take it yourself. He wants to bear with you.

    Don't blame him.

    Someone who doesn't love you. Your pain and his words, he won't listen to you, it's better to talk to him. We are all satisfied with each other.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Talk to him openly and honestly.

    I believe there will be results. (If that doesn't work, what are you).

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Your boyfriend, like me, is very machismo, so he wants his woman to rely on herself for everything, and her own affairs have to be solved by herself.

    In that case, you should be more obedient, he has no malicious intentions.

    Otherwise, you won't be able to do it.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Hehe, you should deal with it yourself, unless you encounter something difficult, you should talk to him.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    He loves you, and I envy you.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    He may think that he is a boy, so he will take on more responsibilities and not want you to be unhappy.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    You can tell him what you think, and talk about it once.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Slowly you will get used to it. But not all the troubles have to be told to him, it's up to you to deal with it.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Such a good boyfriend!My husband is the most annoying for me to talk about his troubles, and he says that he doesn't know who to talk about his troubles yet.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    The meaning of the boyfriend should be that sometimes you ignore him When he is in the mood, he is hot, he is not in the mood and ignores it, or he thinks that you have a boyfriend and does not take it seriously, and there is no relationship when you were in love before, when the two are together, they think about the old husband and wife, and it is generally very dull It seems that your boyfriend cares about you very much, I hope you can talk about it, and the conflict is solved I wish you happiness.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    That is to say, you are used to having him around you, but that is not love, (that is, if one day there is a boy around you who makes your heart flutter, you will choose someone else).

    So your boyfriend wants you to feel for him not just as a habit, but as well'Love"so that he will feel safe.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    "Just habit" means that there is no emotion, no love.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    He doesn't want you to just get used to being around you, that's just not going to be lonely, he wants you to know how to love someone, and he wants to have him, not just get used to him

  43. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Your love is too single and there are no surprises in the mood.

  44. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Since we have chosen love, we must treat it sincerely, cherish it, support him (her) when he (she) is in difficulty, and encourage him when he (she) is happy, happy together, and give him (her) comfort when he (she) is sad. Instead of ignoring its existence when you have it, laughing at it, and only after losing it you know that you regret it. Loving someone wants him (her) to be happy forever, to be his (her) eternal safe haven, to protect him (her), even if it is the slightest harm.

    Truly loving someone is not as simple as we think, an affectionate hug, a deep kiss, an unchanging vow, a token that does not fade....All this is tasteless, dark and dull in the face of true love. Believe in yourself As long as there is love, happiness will definitely exist

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