I want to be good friends with a guy

In fact, you can secretly observe what interests and hobbies he has, what he likes, and learn more about his interests, so that the two of them will have a common language. And you're still in a club, you're still so good, you can still help each other in your studies...

And, let me tell you, boys generally like cheerful and straightforward girls, so oh you have to be optimistic and confident...

Actually, this is a tacit understanding between you, don't you think it's beautiful? I've heard that distance produces beauty! Have you ever thought that actually reaching out to the other person would ruin this feeling between you? You should go with the flow and not force it.

Dizzy, I'm also a student, but it seems to be a lot older than you! You may just have a good impression of him, you may just have a good impression of him, you are still young, maybe it is the ignorance of adolescence, and friends are slowly accumulated through daily life! I don't know what to say, I always feel that you are still young, and now it is better not to contact the opposite sex too much, I am really afraid that you will not be able to control it well!

All right! Be brave to chase, I know that you type so many words because you have him in your heart, I feel it. I used to be the same. I boldly said to the boys, let's be best friends! Come on, I'm sure you can do it! I'll help you!

Do you like him? Then be bold and chase it.

I'm glad to come to this question. This girl, I'm guessing you're in a situation right now, there's a guy who likes you and you're chasing you, and you know he has a crush on you, but you probably don't have much feeling for him at the moment. So you can't agree to be his girlfriend right away, so you offer to start with him as friends.

Actually, I think your proposal is very good, because you don't know him well now, and if you reject him directly, you may miss out on a good marriage, but it is not appropriate to agree to him immediately and be his girlfriend, because you don't know him well now, and you don't have any feelings for him. So you promise, the two of you start by being friends and get to know each other, and you're right to do this.

Today's young people are generally not cautious about emotional issues. Two people will always be easily together and easily separated. But falling in love and getting married, these are not playing "playing at home" when I was a child, they are all major events that should be treated very seriously and cautiously.

I think a couple of men and women, unless they have grown up together since childhood, are very familiar with each other, and know each other well, can quickly determine a romantic relationship. Generally, men and women who have not known each other for a long time must start by being friends before falling in love.

The advantage of this is that friends are a very broad concept. Two very close people can also be friends, two people who just know each other, and the person who will say hello when they see them is also a friend. Friends are a kind of intermediate relationship, and as you get to know him better, you can decide whether to close the distance and become lovers, or gradually distance yourself and become strangers back to the same path.

If you now offer to start as friends with him, his reaction will be to drift away or simply give up. That means that he is not sincere to you at all, he just wants to spend the shortest time and the smallest price to get you, and he just wants to "play" with you. If he is sincere with you, he will definitely be happy to accept your offer, and the two of you can easily start by being friends.

Love based on friendship is also more reliable and strong.

So I support you and the guys who have a crush on you start by being friends.

It is a good process to start with a boy who has a good impression of him, and you can get to know each other better in the process.

I think it's okay, sometimes it's not a kind of sincerity to take it slowly, and it's better to get along with friends slowly than the current fast-food love.

I think of course it's okay, since you have a good impression of him, if you start with friends, maybe in the process of getting along, the relationship between you will go further, and he will have another meaning for you.

Regarding this problem, it can be of course, because it is easier to shorten the distance between two people by starting with friends, deepen their understanding of each other in communication, and then determine whether they have met the right person. And get along as a friend, because the purpose of love is artificially weakened, and communication is more natural.

I think it's okay to be friends with guys who have a crush on me. I think it should start with friends, slowly get to know each other, and slowly deepen the impression.

Of course, in fact, the relationship should be like this, starting from the least friends, let each other understand each other step by step, so as to promote the relationship between two people, and the relationship will be more stable.

Yes, but the premise is that there is no boyfriend, and people who have a boyfriend should refuse, after all, they have a good impression of themselves, and being friends will affect the relationship with their boyfriend. If you don't have a boyfriend, you can try to be friends.

OK. Because in this way, you can get to know each other better, and you can also see the good in each other. If it's really suitable, you can develop in the direction of lovers in the future.

No, because you know that the other party has a good impression of you, and you still want to be friends with him, which is giving the other party hope and is unfair to him.

No, once you start as a friend, you can't develop into a couple, because you don't have feelings for him.

Yes, at first, it is easier to get to know each other as friends, and then confess to the man after the two parties are familiar with each other.

Yes, because you can't be sure of your heart, you can also start with a friend who tries to do it, and maybe you can eventually develop into a lover.

It is also possible because starting with a friend, both parties can have a simple understanding and then choose to become a further relationship.

Of course, because it allows you to get to know each other better, so it's good for the future.

My dear, it's very confusing to your question. He may have changed you from a good friend to a regular friend because there are some problems between you that make him not want to be your good friend anymore, and he may no longer think that it makes sense to be with you. So turn you into a regular friend.

If you want to salvage that friendship, let him rebuild his trust. To find out what you did wrong to make him who he is, you need to humbly apologize to him, show that you understand the impact of the incident on him, and express that you want his forgiveness. After apologizing, it's perfectly fine to express to him something about the rotation that you're really happy about for him to show that you're still his friend and have a lot to share with him so that he doesn't feel neglected.

At the same time, it is also important to pay attention to the protection of your friendship, remember that most friendships are two-way, everyone has their own moods and ideas, and they are willing to share them to some extent, but there are also many situations where it is impossible to express all your feelings; Therefore, what you have to do is to understand him inclusively, not to question him or limit him; At the same time, you should also defend your dignity and not worry about affecting the stability of the friendship, there can be some disagreements between friends, as long as it helps to form a consensus with each other, not to pull each other apart.