When you go home for the New Year, how do you deal with the elders who make things difficult for you

There is always no shortage of these very superstitious elders in life, but we can't blame the elders for anything, we can only face them with a smile.

When you bring your boyfriend or girlfriend home, you must keep smiling, and then show your affection as much as possible, you can hold a small hand in front of the elders, let them see that you are very affectionate, and it is impossible to separate.

Then some elders will ask you how your eight characters are, and then pinch your fingers to count, you are not in harmony, you will say some unlucky words, but as a young person, you must have quality, after all, they are elders, they can't care at all, they must smile and deal with it, and say some polite words.

If you are really unhappy, just smile and pass, you can not speak, after all, the elders also know what it means, but if many elders see that you are very affectionate, they will not make it difficult for you anymore.

In fact, the best way is for you to get married as soon as possible and take the marriage certificate home, so that no matter how much they think you don't match, they won't be talking about you.

If you are serious, you will lose, treat this kind of gossip, let's listen to it, don't take it seriously, otherwise it is very firm at the beginning, and then it is easy to be led astray by the elders, and you also begin to entangle yourself with the things of the eight characters, in short, you must keep in mind that in the new era, this kind of feudal thinking should not be believed, and only time can prove whether the two people are suitable or not.

In fact, the elders are idle and panicked, especially the old people in the village, often gossip about other people's things, can't see a little benefit of others, we have no way to change their thinking, just try to firm up their own ideas, anyway, it is they who are married and live their lives, and they are not elders, if they always use eight characters to talk about things, it is also very important to express their position at the appropriate time, do not let yourself be in a passive position as soon as you go home, and the key to happiness depends on yourself.

When the elders say these things, it is good to cooperate with them appropriately, use their own words to round the past, and then open up another topic, end this matter in the appropriate matter, don't take it too seriously and don't get angry, just don't care about it and don't believe it, so that you don't hurt the elders, and you can take the initiative in your own hands.

The disagreement is a superstitious concept of the older generation. In the older generation, they were introduced and finally married. Now this society is all about the freedom of marriage, and there are not so many superstitious concepts.

Just like when my daughter got married last year, it was also incompatible. My parents-in-law and mother-in-law were unwilling, and they were all against this pretending marriage. I also felt inappropriate and felt uncomfortable all the time.

But the boy on the other side is very good, and I am very satisfied. My daughter has always wanted to stick to her principles.

The whole family was not happy, and finally my daughter said. If you don't agree to this marriage, it's okay, think about it, if you introduce it to me, we have no feelings, we don't have a common language, we don't know each other at all, we can't get along at all, then will we be happy in the future? Can you guarantee me?

Which day is not good, I come to the house to cry and make trouble at home twice in three days, are you happy in your heart?

Even if you say it, the other party is good in all aspects, but after getting married. Can you guarantee that he will be good to me for the rest of his life? If there is anything bad about the person I am looking for in the future, I will not look for your business.

At least now we are happy, as long as two people are in agreement, help each other, understand each other, and tolerate each other, there is no disagreement at all.

Couples who are reunited, they also have times when they are angry. There will inevitably be bumps and bumps in life, and it is not so smooth sailing. So don't always believe in the superstitious ideas of your older generation. We need to believe in science and get rid of superstition.

When my daughter said this, I changed my mind. But my parents-in-law are still a little uncomfortable. In the end, I also persuaded my parents-in-law and told them that life is the child's own life in the future.

Don't your mind so much. Now it's a new society, a new era, and we really can't keep up.

In the end, my daughter also happily got married.

Eight-character fortune-telling can only be referenced, can not be overly superstitious, the eight-character disagreement with the marriage run-in, can be resolved to try to resolve, in the face of marriage can not stop anything, you can say that you yourself can tell fortunes, with some of the basic yin and yang five elements theory they don't understand, they agreed!

The old man can't be reasonable, the bell must be tied to the bell, only with the way of others and the heart of the person has a theory that you want to prove a thing, always take the coincidence as an argument, simply put, it is to prove with more convincing content that you are not only very compatible, but also Wangfu Wangzi, in order to make it more convincing, you can add some tirade and numerology analysis that they may not necessarily understand, in short, the fortune teller has to be taboo three points, even if the old man takes your materials to ask the fortune teller, it is estimated that the old ** Don't dare to talk nonsense.

In this way, the family will be safe and sound in the future, and there will be no mental obstacles, and the best girlfriend should not talk about this kind of thing, after all, it is not worth it to provoke the whole family for superstition. Otherwise, even if you are allowed to become temporary, a little disaster and a little bad thing will be blamed on your girlfriend and your disagreement, follow my routine, and call the danger into a disaster in the future.