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Even if it crosses the entire earth, it can't stop the way home, so there is the Spring Festival, this world-shaking Chinese homecoming journey.
Home, what a beautiful word, she is a kind of longing, a kind of concern, a kind of responsibility, a place where you can rest when you are tired and tired, and let you return to a place in her arms no matter how many miles you go, only when you return to her arms is called the New Year.
Going home is to let the heart of the wandering four seasons be at peace, to go home to let the pace of running for a year to stop, and to go home is to comfort the aging parents for their children.
The feeling of going home is to carry a very heavy suitcase in your hand, carrying a schoolbag and a computer bag, and a mobile phone to bring home the small things, although it is very heavy, tired, ugly and crowded, but it is very happy, and you will laugh if you are not careful.
The distant way home will not become an obstacle to every wanderer's return. The heavy burden will not become the emotional burden of every trace of nostalgia. It is all these things that make up the meaning of reunion.
A narrow ticket, with countless wanderers, on the way home. Is your hometown good? How are your parents? Which side of the dreaming landscape is good? Is it good to accompany you all the way?
No matter how far away the journey is, no matter how hard it is, I feel that it is worth it, because my parents are at home, and I hope that every family will have a safe and reunited Chinese New Year, and the wanderers who return to their hometowns will have a safe journey!
In our traditional concept, we must go home for the New Year, and only when we go home is it called the New Year. Where your parents are, your home is there; Celebrate the New Year wherever you are. Returning home for the Chinese New Year is to create an opportunity for those of us who are wandering away to gather around our parents.
Going home is for the New Year, and in a way, going home is the New Year itself. The return of tens of millions of people has already become a huge collective worship. The great migration of the whole country on the occasion of the Spring Festival has become the most spectacular scene in China at the moment.
Since I was a child, I have also made it a rule to go home for the Chinese New Year. When I don't go home, I don't experience the taste of the New Year at all, as if even the heart of the New Year has been taken away by the other end of the house: on the one hand, my parents are worried about the stomach at the end of the **, and on the other hand, I am away from home on the other end of the New Year's boring.
I think that all the Chinese New Year that does not go home to celebrate the New Year with their parents, or the New Year when they do not have children to go home, is about a broken year. When we realize that the shortcomings brought by it dilute the atmosphere of the New Year, we should know how indispensable it is to go home for the New Year.
Going home is the real Chinese New Year. Go home, there is always some warmth in life that exists in a warm way. Because of going home, in this silent land, the word "hometown" will become vivid.
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Returning home for the New Year is a traditional concept of Chinese, reflecting the influence of culture on people.
Traditional culture is a kind of national culture that reflects the characteristics and features of the nation and is the overall representation of various ideologies, cultures and conceptual forms in the history of the nation. All over the world, all ethnic groups have their own traditional cultures. China's traditional culture is based on the complementarity of Confucianism and Taoism[1], as well as Mohist, famous, Enlightenment, Islam, Western learning, modern Western culture and other cultural forms, including:
Ancient literature, poems, lyrics, songs, fu, ethnic **, national drama, quyi, Chinese painting, calligraphy, couplets, lantern riddles, shooting, wine orders, afterwords, etc.
The full name of traditional culture is probably traditional culture, which is based on culture, corresponding to contemporary culture and foreign culture. Its content should be the material, institutional and spiritual cultural entities and cultural consciousness that have existed throughout the ages. For example, national costumes, living customs, classical poetry, loyalty and filial piety concepts; This is commonly known as cultural heritage.
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Going home is the most important ritual of the Spring Festival, and "going home for the New Year" is the strongest rhythm in the land of China. Returning to the roots and homesickness are the basic longitudes and latitudes of the Chinese concept of happiness, simple and powerful. For the wanderer who has been wandering for a year, even though the mountains are high and the road is far away, and the boat and car are tiring, when I think of the reunion with my relatives and the familiar local sound, I suddenly feel full of energy, and I can't wait to move faster, faster.
Family means a lot to Chinese. "The only eunuch traveler, the new "Qinghong" dew from tonight, the moon is the hometown of Ming", "the young and the old man who left home and returned, the hometown sound has not changed and the sideburns have declined", the literati and ink writers have never been stingy with pen and ink, and they have endless thoughts about their hometown. Even if we move from "rural China" to "urban China", family is still the support of personal emotions, a harbor of spiritual rest, and the terminal of a wandering life.
Here, you can change from a well-behaved and capable "vivian" to a "second girl" who dresses casually and lets go of herself, taking off all the masks and being the truest version of yourself; Here, you can put aside the adult emotional management guide and pour out the tears and unspeakable sadness of the past year to your family without restraint. In the nagging of my mother and the smile of my father, the loneliness of wandering and the pain of life will disappear. This kind of emotional magnetic field makes us deeply realize that the warm emotion of blood thicker than water is the inexhaustible driving force in your life.
Some people say that the farther you go, the stronger the nostalgia becomes; The faster you go, the more nostalgic the quietness and peace becomes. For a society, the cultural roots of homesickness are the emotional gifts from history, and they are also the spiritual channel to the future. At present, the window of our life is expanding dramatically, and the virtual world is also expanding unprecedentedly.
Through these rituals that carry culture, we capture the deep power of Chinese civilization.
Of course, not everyone thinks of going home as romantic. As we get older and more experienced, the land where we were born and raised seems to be unable to keep up with the growth of young people, and topics such as "fear of returning" have also set off discussions on the Internet from time to time. Actually, we don't have to be so nervous as chain-sided.
Under the call of dreams, our hearts are far away. When I go home for the New Year, I may be afraid of my hometown for one reason or another. But whether your bag is full of glory or tired, home is a haven to accept you unconditionally.
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I went home for the Chinese New Year to reunite with Liangque, to see my parents, and to see where I grew up. When I returned to my hometown for the New Year, even if my hometown changed cautiously, in my eyes, it was still so kind.
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Don't you want to face your relatives at home every year?
1. As long as you go for a while, you can't avoid being asked what you haven't partnered with, why haven't you married yet, and so on. I feel very annoyed, and I get married relatively early at home, so I will talk to you in a different tone, which is very strange and annoying.
There is a burst of negative energy, and when they meet, they will talk to you about the bad things in their family, what daughter-in-law has a complicated family background, the son-in-law is not filial, and the in-laws are unreasonable. All I can say is that it's not a family that doesn't enter the door.
2.I don't usually contact you, but I will ask you to borrow money as soon as I get in touch. Do you want to order Bilian?
3. Eight women can't do it, they ask blindly, and they love to point fingers at others. How is your work lately, when will you have a baby, and when you hear you say that you have been busy with work recently and have no plans to have children, Yin and Yang are weird and say, "Ouch, you are really calm!" "Rub, if you can't speak, say a few words, you can't manage your own family affairs well, and judge other people's family affairs day by day, when will I have a child, it's your business.
4. Snobbery, a family looks at money. There are so many things that I don't even know where to start. Too much, 10,000 words are omitted here.
5. A family is a Pixiu by nature, only in and out. Treat the family group as a red envelope group, Pinduoduo chop a knife group, usually in the group has never had any positive effect, except for grabbing the red envelope is to let others cut him a knife, and he never sends a red envelope in the group, but others send red envelopes to her He will always rush to the top three, in order to grab the red envelope, but also pull the people who were not in the family group before to the family group (the person who pulled is also a relative in the family, but has not been in the family group before). After grabbing the red envelope, it doesn't matter if you don't send it, you don't even have a word, the whole emotionless red envelope grabbing machine, it's really eye-opening, and you can't let others cut her at every turn, I just want to cut her.
This year, I was also very annoyed that I didn't want to go home for the New Year, and I still didn't want to face those relatives. It's annoying.
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Many people are unable to return home for several reasons. 1. Visiting relatives and friends is time-consuming and tiring, the New Year is not easy to go home, everyone is the most Qi at this time, of course, it has become the best time to visit relatives and friends, the first year of junior high school in their own village neighbors' house for a hundred years, the second uncle and grandmother's house, the third year of junior high school until the end of your holiday has been the New Year's greetings of seven aunts and eight aunts, if there are many relatives at home, you have to go to at least three relatives a day, otherwise you can't finish before the end of the holiday, if you can't arrange the time, it will attract gossip, It was supposed to be a good Spring Festival to go home to rest, but it was arranged clearly and properly, and there was no time for me at all, so not going home became the best choice. 2. I can't stand the comparison of others, and there is no harm if there is no comparison.
When I go back to my hometown for the New Year, there are always some curious seven aunts and eight aunts who ask questions, knowing that you don't earn much money, and you don't have enough scenery outside, and you suddenly have a sense of superiority, showing off how much money your children have given you, how many clothes you have bought, how many high-end health care products you have bought, how to honor yourself, and so on. For a good year, I went home happily for a reunion, but I was ruined by these messy things, alienated from the feelings between relatives, and felt congested when I thought about it. Therefore, some people would rather work overtime outside to earn money during the Chinese New Year than go home.
3. There is a difference in urban and rural life, and it is easy to say that people who are urban at home have similar working conditions when they go home and work outside, but it is cold and inconvenient for rural people. It is too cold to build a stove without a stove, and it is too dusty to make a stove; I have to go to the toilet in the middle of the night and go outside against the north wind; Or the kind of person who digs a small pit and squats without a light and plays a flashlight, especially if the hometown is in a remote rural area, there is no free Wi-Fi, you can't play with your mobile phone, you can't get on the Internet, you have lost contact with the outside world, you are bored and anxious, some young people are used to living in big cities, and some people have more friends and colleagues outside, and they like young people to spend the New Year together. There are more topics and hobbies, and the customs and ways of celebrating the New Year at home can no longer be adapted.
Send some money directly back to your family, and people will not go home for the New Year.
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For each of us, going home for the Spring Festival is the biggest sustenance and expectation in our hearts. Although I myself have not been unable to go home for the Chinese New Year, I fully understand the feelings of many people who cannot go home for the Chinese New Year for various reasons. ......Specifically, the reasons why those people are not able to go home for the New Year are because they are busy with work, they cannot go home for the New Year because they are studying in other places, and they cannot go home for the New Year because they are developing their careers in other places.
1. I have to work in the unit because I am busy with work, and I can't go home for the New Year.
Some people can't go home for the New Year because of their busy schedules. ......These people may not work far from home. But because they are busy with work, they have to work in the unit during the Chinese New Year, so they don't have time to go home for the New Year.
For these people, although they are very close to home, they cannot go home for the New Year, and the feeling in their hearts is very, very complicated. But for the sake of work, it is also worth the effort.
2. Studying in a different place, too far away from home, and unable to go home for the New Year.
The reason some people can't go home for the Chinese New Year is because they are studying in a different place. ......These people go to school far from home and are busy with their studies. They don't have enough time to rush home for the New Year, so they have to spend the New Year at school by themselves.
For these students, although they feel very sorry not to be able to go home for the New Year, but to be able to study in school to learn more knowledge and master stronger skills, which will make them have stronger abilities and broader development prospects in the future, so it is understandable for them not to go home for the New Year for the time being.
3. Develop a career in other places, so I don't have time to go home for the New Year.
There are also some people who are also unable to go home for the Chinese New Year because of work. But their specific situation is different. ......Specifically, the reason why these people can't go home for the New Year is because they have no time to go home for the New Year because they have a group banquet and exhibition career in other places.
Collapse silver ......For these people, they can't go home during the Chinese New Year, and their hearts must be full of longing. But when they think that their careers have developed and they can have a better life in the future, their hearts can be opened, and they will work harder and work hard for their better life.
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