What do you do when you see a beggar on the street?

I now see beggars on the streets, and they won't give a penny, and they won't leave a single crumb. Because once since I gave alms, I felt bad luck in myself.

During that time, I was not in good health, and on the way to the hospital, I met a little girl, who buried her head very low, stepped on a piece of paper under her feet, saying that she was lost in this city, and now she needs money to go home, hoping to give 13 yuan for the fare.

At that time, I was still a little pitiful in my heart, after all, I was not in good health, and at that time, I was helped by my boyfriend, and I felt that my life was finally starting to go up from the trough, so I wanted to show them some kindness.

But my dad kept telling me at the time that you can't give money to beggars, that beggars who don't have them are cheating, they are organized and premeditated, and if you give him money, the money will be collected by some of the leading people, and these beggars don't actually get anything. So at that time, I went to the fast food restaurant next to me to buy a lunch for this little girl and delivered it to the little girl.

The little girl didn't raise her head, she took it and continued to drip there, silently in a daze, without a word of thanks, without an expression, feeling like a completely soulless doll.

I didn't care about it at the time, so I continued to walk directly to the hospital, but a woman suddenly came out from behind, and scolded and said there, you shouldn't give her anything, you will transfer all your luck to her, and your good luck will disappear from now on, which is a very detrimental thing to you. I didn't pay attention to it at the time, just said thank you to her, thanked her very much for the reminder, and moved on.

But since that time, I have found that I have a lot of problems around me, and my disease has been very well controlled, but since I gave the beggar a lunch, the state has been back and forth for a while.

After that, I quarreled with my boyfriend, and the two of us were willing to do very small things first, which was very unpleasant, and then they broke up inexplicably. Two or three months after this incident, I felt that my life had become very difficult, and I had a very good foundation for the registration exam I was preparing for, but I only got a lower average score.

Later, I even had several awkward fights with my family, and the job search was delayed from the early autumn to the end of the year.

I don't know if everyone is in a different situation, but since that time, whether on the road or anywhere, active or passive begging, I don't care anymore.

Whenever I go out and see people begging on the road, I feel very uncomfortable, no matter what makes them like this, I just feel that this society, has not yet reached the time when it can take care of the disadvantaged, some people may be pretending, and some people really have no way to force this part, every time I see these people I will dedicate a little of my insignificant strength, although my help can not change anything, but I want to tell them, this friendship between people, Let them feel the warmth and coldness of the world, and they will hear many people say that they are all fake, don't waste your money, time and love, to help people, but He has ever thought that when you have a nose and a mouth, when facing so many people who have been the same and equal as yourself, it takes courage to bow your head in front of everyone and prove to everyone that you can't do it. <>

So, I don't care if he's acting, or if he's really in difficulty, I can't bear it, I can't see what happened when nothing happened, so, sometimes, even though other people are persuading me that this person is pretending, I will not hesitate to give a little bit of my own meager strength, there is a lyric that reads: "As long as everyone gives a little love, the world will be better," maybe in the eyes of others, I just like to suffer, and then I will think I'm stupid, Or you will laugh at me in your heart, in vain, no one will know your love, but what I want is not the kind that makes the world worship, so that the whole world will worship your love, it is not really love, it is love on the basis of fame and fortune, and it is okay not to give. The dedication of love is not for anyone to see, but to help others, to care for others, to love others, and to truly achieve widowhood, loneliness, and disability.

I believe everyone has had this experience, if you go out shopping with friends or family, on the street, on the overpass, in the underpass, there are more or less begging people, they are in rags, some are disabled, some are seriously ill in their family members, and they have to come out to do begging work. But many of them are also forced, and I saw a message on the Internet that there is a special organization that goes to such disabled people and then controls them, forcing them to come out and beg for money. So whenever I see people begging, sometimes I feel a little sad and sometimes a little pitiful for them.

Whenever I see a beggar, I look twice to see their age and physical health. If it is an old man, I will definitely give it, because I think he is in his old age, why can't he enjoy the joy of family, why come out to beg, it must be the family who forced him to come out to beg or the family is gone, he is the only one left and can only live by begging. So every time I give a piece of two.

There is also a kind of middle-aged people with sound limbs, they are generally several people standing together, and there is a pictorial next to them, which says that the people in their family have a disease, ** have spent all their savings, and have to ask for help from the society. Every time I see this, I have a kind of doubt, why not go and make my own money? Those with sound limbs can work on their own.

You don't need to come out and beg together. If it's true, then hopefully the money can really help you, and if it's fake, won't your conscience really hurt?