After a blind date, I got along well, but I found a lot of problems in the follow up, what should I

Of course, it's a breakup, so do you want to keep it for the New Year? My friend is also in this situation, she feels that the breakup is troublesome, and the family will force her to continue the blind date, just think about it, it will change, he will change it, and then he got married, the result is even more discordant, noisy every day, there is no day of stability, this is going to divorce recently, she said that she can finally be freed.

Let me say that if you can't do it, you can separate, get together and disperse, don't wait until the relationship is deep and it is difficult to give up, and it is even more difficult to choose at that time.

If you can correct the problem, then correct it, and if you can't correct it, it can only be said that it is really inappropriate, I don't think it will end well if you are barely together, and if you can't do it, you will separate.

My first blind date at that time later felt that there were also problems, and the run-in was not good, and then they separated decisively, and met my current husband the next year, and now I am very happy.

My wife and I are also on a blind date, and when we started to get along, we felt a lot of things that were not suitable, and it was also a run-in period, and then we both communicated once, whether to separate or correct our own problems, we both decided to continue dating, and the time slowly went on, and we also got to know each other better, found a better way to get along, and then walked into marriage, and life was very pleasant.

My wife and I have a lot of problems so far, and we start to feel that it is good everywhere, we will be more mature and more understanding, this has been 7 years, and it is still like that, making do with it, and it is very complicated to separate, and it is really necessary to solve it decisively at the beginning.

We are not blind dates, but we also encountered a lot of problems in the process of dating, at that time, I felt that the two of them had been for so long, and they were also very emotional, and they were reluctant to give up, so they went all the way to marriage, and as a result, there were many problems after marriage, and life was very lively.

My friend is said to have this situation too, after thinking about it, they had a good talk, and the two of them felt that it was difficult to correct themselves, and they broke up unhappily, and then another conflict broke out, and the two broke up after a big quarrel.

Since you get along and find a problem, you must solve it in time, see if you can understand, and see if the other party can change your mind, otherwise you can simply cut through the mess. lest overwork become ...... disease

This problem also has to look at what the problem is, to see if it can be corrected, in principle, the big problem can never be ambiguous, and the small things will be fine.