A child is a slowly blooming flower, how should parents evaluate their children?

The child is a slowly opening flower, the child is born with a flower bone, the process of growing up is the process of slowly blooming, the child is like a blank piece of paper, the parents are colorful colored pens, how we draw, the child is what it looks like, so we can not prematurely evaluate the characteristics of the child, each child has the shining point of each child, we have to use a magnifying glass to look at our child, he must have a lot of advantages, worthy of our discovery.

Every child is an angel, they choose the parents they like, we can't judge the child arbitrarily, we can't draw conclusions about the child, the child is introverted, does not like to talk, is not social, is relatively stupid, does not know how to greet the elders, all kinds of language will hit the child's self-confidence, so that they will feel that their parents are so appreciative of themselves, deeply doubtful of themselves, deny themselves, feel that they are very bad.

Attentive parents will know how to encourage their children, speak for their children, understand what their children think, and are willing to let their children express themselves, not easily evaluate their children, because they have a great possibility, they are more interested in anything and everything at a young age, and are eager for the help of their parents, and at this time what we parents can do is to help children seek the areas they want to explore, 100,000 why is the best expression for children.

As parents we have to treat our children well, they are not their own private property, let them control the development, each child has the characteristics and shining points of each child, we know how to find it, and then praise and encourage the child, you say the child is right, she will develop in the right direction, you say she is wrong, she may not dare to try again in the future, angels are kind and beautiful, they love their parents to the extent that we as parents can not imagine, so, like a blank sheet of paper, how innocent is it, Don't destroy the innocence of children.

Children's growth is to be gradually explored, parents should correctly guide their children to be positive, healthy and upward, rather than blindly blaming children, usually must praise children more, evaluate children objectively and fairly, do not easily judge children's practices with personal feelings.

Parents' evaluation of their children should be positive, and only by giving their children full affirmation can children have confidence in themselves, so that they can grow better.

As a parent, I will evaluate my child objectively, acknowledge his strengths and strengths, and point out his problems to help him improve.

Day 10.

Recently, I have been listening to the book, "Every Child Can Open Like a Flower", which talks about a lot of headaches in the process of educating our children.

There is a kindergarten in Japan that promotes Montessori education.

In this kindergarten, children are allowed to do everything that is not out of the ordinary. For example, children who don't want to sing are not allowed to sing. Give your child full respect and if you don't want to eat, you can apply to keep the meal.

Every child has a different personality. Just because you can't do something now doesn't mean you won't be able to do it in the future.

In the domestic children's manuscript education, all you see is the arrangement of the teacher in a uniform manner. If you don't obey quietly, you will be labeled as "unobedient".

In fact, we understand that in kindergarten, teachers are also in order to manage so many children in a unified manner. Make sure your child is safe. Therefore, I am still worried about the current way of kindergarten education in China.

What we parents can do now is not be so nervous when our children come home or when they are complained by kindergarten teachers. Be honest about seeing your child's naughty problems.

In addition, harmony between husband and wife in the family is the best education for children. On several occasions, I have argued with the child's father in front of the child. In retrospect, I regret that I really shouldn't quarrel in front of my children, because parents are the mirror of my children, and children will learn their parents' behaviors subtly.

It's nothing that children are naughty, it depends on how parents and teachers treat me, I am not a mother who knows how to educate children, and I often yell at children when I see them naughty, and I am slowly changing by reading some books.

Kindergarten teachers, you may meet a lot of naughty children, every day is very hard, every kindergarten needs a teacher who really likes the work of preschool education and loves children!

But it is not easy to meet such a good teacher, and recently I found that children often say, "How many times have I said it, you again... I got angry. ”

I asked who I learned this sentence from, the child said that I learned it from the teacher, I explained to the child, don't say that in the future, sedan sedan first of all, others don't care if you are angry, the people who care about you are all people who love you, you can talk to your mother well!

Children of different ages have different ways of education, and teachers and parents need to keep learning to give children a relaxed and comfortable environment to grow up.