In the process of falling in love, do you always wonder if the other party is what you want?

Although I really want to say, no matter how you say it, it is also a relationship after all, and when you start, don't give up easily, after all, this is a common thing between two people, and you should take the corresponding responsibility when you decided to be together, but listening to what you said, it seems that you have begun to get tired of your girlfriend and begin to question your feelings, like is like, dislike is not like, There is no need to make so many excuses. If you really feel that the other party has a lot of things that you don't like, then you can try to mention it to her tactfully, and if you really can't accept it, then I still advise you to let it go. After all, it doesn't make much sense to consume.

It takes time, I'm not good at judging, but I can give you my opinion, the most important thing for two people to be together is the feeling, when there is a feeling, everything is easy to say, you will think she is very good, but sometimes because of a long time together, more or less find some small problems with each other, the most important thing with each other is feeling and trust, only by supervising each other and pointing out each other's shortcomings, so that it is possible to go further. I think it's still a matter of feeling and trust.

I really don't understand why you blindly chose her in the first place. You should get to know her before you deal with her. Otherwise, where would there be so many troubles. If you really can't get by, it's not too much. But be sure to learn a lesson later!

I've known him for a long time, and I'm on good terms, and I'm almost going to talk about getting married. But then I found out that he had other women, and on his phone I saw a ** that turned out to be with a girl he once liked, which really made me very angry, and we almost broke up.

I told myself that since I'm in a relationship, I have to trust them. Don't always ask the other person rhetorically. Going, who are you with, whether you go out with the opposite sex, etc.

Trust is a very important factor, if you don't even have trust, what kind of love can you talk about? If everything is too much to worry about, then it will make him very tired, and then this relationship will not last long.

When we encounter things, we make sense. Don't think too much, we have to learn to stand in the other person's shoes. If it were me, what would I do.

If you think differently, you won't always be suspicious of each other. I believe everyone knows the importance of communication. If you don't communicate, you will understand that you will always suspect that something bad will happen.

At this time, you need to actively communicate with the other party, and explain what is going on, so that you can reduce suspicion. Increase my trust with him and make our love affair more stable. So it made me understand that there is always forgiveness in a relationship.

We have to take a relationship seriously, in fact, even if there is distrust, let him have to let him correct it, and open his heart to heart. After all, it is two people who will live in the future. Although after all, I found out but still chose to forgive, trust is not only one party, but also an agreement between you and him.

For a relationship, if there is not even the most basic trust, then there is nothing to talk about. In the course of the relationship, as far as I am concerned, my partner will not let me have any doubtsBecause he will tell me before he does anything, and he won't do anything out of the ordinary. If you had doubts about him in the process of falling in love, you would not be married now.

1. What kind of object is worthy of your suspicion?

Falling in love itself is a matter for two people, if you want to doubt each other about anything. Every time the subject does something, you think about why he is doing it, and what is the purpose of doing it? Then you won't feel tired?

The first thing you wake up every day is to think, why didn't he message me? Why did he post such a circle of friends? What is he doing now?

This kind of life is completely revolving around each other, and there is no meaning. And the reason why he deserves to be so suspicious is becauseHe didn't give it to youAbsolute sense of security

2. Is your object worthy of your suspicion?

If your object is good enough, then you may wonder if he will be snatched away by others, whether he will not like you anymore, in fact, to put it bluntly, just because you feel that you care about him too much. Once he has a lot of friends of the opposite sex around him, you will wonder if he doesn't like me anymore, so that he is revolving around each other all the time, and his life has no meaning. In fact, after many things have happened, if you think about it the other way, he is not worthy of your suspicion, but just his own cranky thoughts and psychological troubles

3. What should I do if I am really suspicious?

If, in the process of falling in love, you are really suspicious of your partner and have done something unfriendly to you, there is no need to hide it. Feelings are originally a matter of two people, you can sit together and communicate face-to-face, and say what you suspect about each other. Maybe this will have a better outcome than sulking yourself.

In short, being honest with each other is the best solution for two people.

I wouldn't doubt my object, because the two of us would keep in touch at all times, and he went to ** and I both knew that there were no secrets between us.

In fact, everyone is sensitive in love, because the other party is easy to bring some problems to themselves, so they will become a lot of doubts, so they will naturally doubt each other, whether they don't love themselves and so on.

Two people in love should be equal, and unbalanced love will not last long. Long-term love requires the efforts of two people, and good love is also worth caring for by two people. Even if you are in love, you should have your own value and dignity, and you should not lose yourself for the sake of the other party.

This kind of love is not worth paying, so you should avoid the behavior of letting yourself fall off the price and have a good love.

Doubting your partner in a relationship may indicate that some of his attitudes make you feel uneasy. However, this is also a normal phenomenon and needs to be changed by getting along.

When two people are together, there will be no trust in the full sense, doubt exists, but even if you doubt each other, don't let the other party know, you have to fully trust each other and give each other free space. If you don't love him, you won't either.

In a relationship, my partner doesn't make me suspicious, because I think two people have to trust each other when they are together.

When the locals wouldn't let me check his phone, I did say that I suspected that she was hiding something from me, and that it was a possibility that he was in love with someone else.

My object will make me suspicious because I don't think his character is very good.

In love, don't doubt that the other party should maintain and cultivate your relationship wholeheartedly, so that you will love for a long time and love sweetly.

In a relationship, my partner may make me suspicious, and sometimes he often uses his mobile phone to chat and still doesn't show me. He also didn't let me flip through his phone at will, his behavior was mainly something that made me very suspicious. If it's okay, why should I be afraid to look at my phone?

I'm very skeptical.

I have never doubted my object, because I trust my object very much, and the two of us also trust each other, so we are very happy and happy in our daily life, and there is no such time to doubt each other.

It may be that the other party makes you feel insecure, maybe your boyfriend is not good enough in some aspects, whether it is because he often has frequent contact with the girls around you and makes you feel uncomfortable, or he often loses contact with you and does not explain to you, or often snubs you, we will lack trust and doubt such boys.

I'm just angry because the subject always has some correspondence with girls.,Always don't worry about girls who have too frequent contact with him and doubt him.,Sometimes if he's ** on the phone, I'll wonder if he's calling someone**,When I go out to dinner, I wonder if there's another girl.。

The person who is in it is because you love your lover too much, and you may always doubt him because you are afraid of losing the other party, and it is also because the other party is too good to attract others.

On the other hand, there is your own reason, that is, you lack self-confidence in yourself, in your subconscious, you feel that you are not good enough, you are not sure enough about yourself, so you are prone to gains and losses, afraid that what you have will be lost at any time, and the same is true for love, so you are always suspicious.

Again, let me analyze whether your lover has made you suspicious in some way, or that your suspicions are all facts.

If he always sends ** messages behind your back, doesn't let you look at his phone, and always doesn't meet you and goes out and doesn't pick you up**, then your suspicion is not just suspicion, it is likely that you have been greened.

In fact, no matter what the case is, you have to know that suspicion will give rise to dark ghosts, if your lover is obviously innocent, but you are always suspicious and suspicious of the other party, then it will definitely make the other person feel bored. If your guess is right and the other person feels it, I don't think your relationship will last long.

Therefore, it is necessary to understand more and communicate more between the two people, and only in this way can you build trust between you. will not easily suspect the other party.

I'm also a person with a partner, in fact, I'm usually very suspicious of my boyfriend. Because he doesn't tell me the truth sometimes, his credibility with me is really low.

Because he was very ambiguous with a girl before, chatting or usually acting in a girl, I didn't believe him since that time.

And he often doesn't tell the truth to her sister in front of me, and although I know that some of them are white lies, I also think that she may lie to me like this a lot.

So much so that every time I asked her something, I had to ask several times, or confirm it several times like a friend around me, so that I could trust him.

I also know that this kind of behavior is particularly bad, and the most important thing between lovers is trust, but some of the things he did before really made me not trust him.

If you often suspect the other party, it may be because you care too much about him, so you always suffer from gains and losses. is afraid that the other party will leave him that day, but it is actually a manifestation of his lack of confidence in himself.

Maybe the distrust between lovers will make the other party particularly angry. In fact, if you think about it again, if you look at the tone of his speech like this, or some of the actions when talking to her, you can see that he really is not telling the truth.

If there really is time, such distrust will often be suspicious of the other party. Then I think it's really necessary to communicate and talk about what is in your heart.

Holding everything in your heart will not solve the problem. Maybe your thoughts are just your own unilateral thoughts and hers, and they don't coincide. After all, there are differences between men and women. So there should be a moderate amount of communication as well.

This sentence is the same when used in love, the most important thing in love is mutual trust.

If you suspect him, and he does behave badly, or if he has a character problem, or if you have a serious disagreement with each other, and you refuse to accommodate each other, then you should reorient your relationship and whether to continue.

If you suspect that he is purely chasing after the wind and making trouble, then I still advise you to adjust your mentality. In the long run, there will be no problem in your relationship, but there will be a rift because of your unwarranted suspicion.

Why is this so, I think, you are relatively idle, focus all your time and energy on your boyfriend, and have no independent self. Go ahead and your life revolves around only your boyfriend, and the situation is terrible.

It is recommended that you use your free time to enrich yourself, improve your abilities, or cultivate your interests, or go shopping with your girlfriends.

Remember, no matter how good the relationship is, you can't lose yourself in the relationship.

I think it may have something to do with your personality, because some people are suspicious, so you should learn to restrain yourself. After all, the most important thing in love is trust, you don't believe him, and you doubt him every day, which is really bad. It will make your boyfriend feel that you don't understand him very much, and make him misunderstand that you are selfish, that you just don't want his friends, only think of yourself.

It's also possible that your boyfriend doesn't give you a sense of security, doesn't always be honest with you, or lies to you. It's really going to make you very insecure and not solid at all, and then he often chats with a lot of other girls, without thinking about your feelings. And he himself thinks it's not a big deal, it's not something that makes you uncomfortable.

If that's the case, you can talk to him, let him know your confusion, and then understand that what he did wrong, and eventually he will correct it. He is no longer so affectionate or not cheating on you, then you have nothing to doubt, life will become a little better, in fact, the main thing is that he does not give you enough security, so that you feel so distrustful of your feelings.