Are there many people who have been in love for a long time and finally get married?

Why do people get married? It's for love. We live to make ourselves happy and to make those around us happy.

We got married to make this love complete and full. Legend has it that women are the lost ribs of men, men and women fight from birth, only half of life, we have been looking for our lover, looking for our own other half. In the vast sea of people, only when we find our other half can we have a complete life, and we can make life abundant and happy.

So we keep searching, bravely fall in love, wrong, hurt, and then despair, lost, because we have not found our true love, because true love is hard to find. In this life, you may meet several lovers, or you may have only one. You may be with your lover forever until the day you die of old age; It may also be that happiness is like a flash in the pan, happiness or sorrow, both love and marriage.

In fact, many people misunderstand the true meaning of marriage, especially some young ignorant teenagers Marriage should be the ultimate witness of true love, it is sacred and solemn, some people may mistakenly think that marriage is a shackle that can tie two people together, or some people think that there is a home Although marriage is essentially just a formality, it must have a very profound meaning No matter what, it should come naturally, regardless of the reason. Let everything that should happen happen, and follow the trend, without force or deliberateness. I like this sentence very much:

Let's get married, it's idle anyway, it's really boring to fight, so as not to be lonely.

There are many people who have been married for a long time, accounting for more than half! Happiness is rare! You are forced to have no choice but to go on a blind date, everyone is. However, more than half of the divorces are divorced over time!

Love is rare, and happiness is also rare. Because of love, so together. If not, then there is no happiness at all. This is the original thought of your heart, and it is also the eternal expectation and truth in people's hearts. Of course, this is also true.

An American marriage counselor once made statistics: "After the prince and princess were happily married for 3 years, 25 couples said that they were still happy; 25% of couples believe that they are barely able to survive with the guidance of marriage specialists and psychologists; Some of the 50 people think that they are helpless and reluctant to endure, some people say that life is worse than death, and some people say that they hope to free their husband and wife as soon as possible. ”

This statistic seems to show that every love dinner has the possibility of turning into chicken ribs. After being married for a long time, the novelty is lost. The beauty she hugged 7 years ago, after thousands of days and nights of grinding her ears and temples, the beauty has become dregs; Ruyi Langjun, who married many years ago, has become a thorn in the side full of bad habits after 7 years of exploitation; used to be a romantic hand-holding pair before and under the moon, but now they have become ...... quarrels for trivial things

As a result, emotional "exhaustion" or boredom makes the marriage enter the "seven-year itch", and if it is not possible to choose an effective way to get rid of it, the balance of marriage will be weightless and tilted.

It is not superfluous for husband and wife to express their love directly.

There is such a couple, who are very busy with work every day, and there are few opportunities for communication. But when they get off work in the evenings or on weekends, they always talk about love. When they enjoy TV shows together, whenever they see the love plot of men and women in TV dramas, they will always tell their previous happy experiences, they have been married for a few years, but their feelings are like being newly married.

It is not superfluous for husband and wife to express their love directly, and it can stir up waves in our ordinary married life. But in real life, there are many couples who ignore this, and as a result, their married life is as dull as water.

When he returns late for some reason, and his wife brings a bowl of hot noodles to him, the husband should at least say in time: It's so fragrant! When the husband has cleaned up the house, the wife should say in time:

Thank you, husband, for your hard work.

Looking at many couples who have an apathetic relationship, what they have in common is that their language is too pale and impersonal to each other, so that they are emotionally cold and even on the verge of family breakup. Therefore, it is not superfluous for husband and wife to express their love directly.

This is not necessarily, some people have been married together for a few years, and it may just become dull, but the relationship is still very good.

Is the relationship good after marriage? It completely depends on the way the two people get along, and at the same time it depends on whether the two people are really suitable for being together?

Some people are quite compatible together, so even if they get married for a few years and life becomes dull, they will not become emotionally bad.

After being married for a long time, of course, the relationship will still be very good. My children are so old, and my wife is still the same as my first love.

Of course, it is not excluded that the relationship is not good, and the probability is not small.

If I have been married for ten years, I will still feel very good, because marriage is the long-term accumulation of love and time, and if it is long, it will also make the relationship slowly sublimated, and the two parties will be more inseparable from each other.

Generally, it is better if there is no separation.

Of course, a marriage that lasts for a long time will be longer, and they will run in and tolerate each other, and they will also understand each other's personalities, and they will get along more comfortably and harmoniously. My husband and I met on a blind date, there is no emotional foundation between each other, it belongs to the long-term love, and now we have a pair of children, we rarely quarrel with each other, and the family is happy. In fact, a really smart woman doesn't believe in love at first sight, so superficial and boring love is only pursued by simple people.

Third, marriage is different from love, love is full of wind and snow, but marriage is firewood, rice, oil and salt. Love can not talk about firewood, rice, oil and salt, two people talk about some things all day long, and they will not fight for life, such love seems sweet, but it lacks material as a foreshadowing. Marriage is different, when you get married, you have to have children, support your family, and take on the responsibilities of the whole family.

If your significant other only lags you back, or makes noise all day long, how can you reap happiness and a happy life!

I think it should be that the marriage that lasts a long time will last longer, but if two people are willing to understand and respect each other after love at first sight, it will actually last a long time.

I think that this kind of marriage is relatively good, and it is very long-lasting, only after a long time, two people have such feelings, in order to bring the most sincere love.

I think the long-lasting relationship will last longer, because the two people decided to get married when they got to know each other well enough, not the so-called impulsive marriage.

I think it's a long-term relationship, after all, it still takes time for two people to run in together to find a better other party.

Marriages that fall in love over time will last longer, because the strengths and weaknesses of the other party are already known in advance, and most marriages that fall in love at first sight do not know each other well enough.

Love at first sight