What are the principles for dealing with contradictory events encountered in school life?

Big things are small, and small things are small.

The main contradictions among the students on campus are:

1) Contradictions within the dormitory.

Most of the internal conflicts in the dormitory are the main conflict in the life of students, and many dormitories will exist in the dormitory, whether it is a male or female dormitory. Because most universities randomly arrange students with the same major, sometimes four dormitories, sometimes six dormitories, and many times, they are strangers to each other, all because of the relationship between the school. Everyone's living habits are different, some people love to sleep and some people are self-disciplined and fitness, it is easy to have friction, which is inevitable.

2) Candidates for positions and scholarships among students.

Many times, it is easy to turn some good friends against each other when running for scholarships, and there is a high probability that they will have some friction because of some scholarship things.

Classmates may have misunderstandings, quarrels, and lack of understanding of each other.

You can wait for both parties to calm down before dealing with it.

There are many conflicts between students on campus, and we need to communicate with each other in a timely manner after there are conflicts.

What are the conflicts on campus? One fights over a book. The two ideas are not on the same page, and they quarrel.

Suggestions for dealing with conflicts between students are as follows:

First, it is necessary to conduct an in-depth and detailed investigation into the causes of the conflict.

To resolve contradictions and conflicts among students, teachers should first conduct in-depth and meticulous investigations in a timely manner, and should not use hearsay or catch shadows, still less should they look at people with old eyes and be suspicious and suspicious.

Second, it is necessary to be kind to the conflicts between students and embody the people-oriented educational thinking.

Conflict isn't all bad, in a sense, it's the cornerstone of success. If a student has a conflict due to a mistake, the class teacher will handle it properly and treat the conflict well, which should be said to be successful, because in the future, the student will deeply understand what should not be done and how to do it, which is successful for him and will not make similar mistakes again.

3. Cultivate a tolerant mentality and resolve contradictions and conflicts.

Advocating students to try to take the initiative to say some tolerant words to each other, sincere, friendly, and tolerant words will smooth the gap between students, so that starting from kindness, saying more tolerant words can often touch the deepest part of the other party's heart, so as to have an impact on the soul.

4. Equal treatment of students' conflicts and conflicts.

Treat the main body of the conflict equally, do not be partial, discriminatory, or indifferent, and must have a bowl of water evenly, and avoid those who are pleasing to the eye are taken care of, and those who violate discipline are sheltered.

5. Give full play to the leadership of the class teacher and creatively resolve conflicts.

First of all, separate the two sides of the conflict, let them calm down, and guide them to "take a breath" and turn the conflict into a jade silk. Think calmly about the whole process of the conflict, and mainly think about your own shortcomings. Then let the students report the situation, and the teacher does not decisively make a judgment about who is right and who is wrong.

Then let the students solve it on their own.

Finally, the teacher educates the conflicted students and evaluates the students.

The child lost a fight with a classmate and was scarred. Mother's way of dealing with reverse thinking is worth learning from.

Go, go, go, ball, go, beg, go.

Learn to empathize, treat it calmly, come up with the best way to solve the problem, and take a step back is not a retreat, but your good character.

Tolerance is the enemy of all contradictions, and his appearance will reduce them a lot, so to speak. In the face of contradictions, we need to be tolerant. ]

You say: I know that we are all friends, friends need to understand each other, we both have bad things, we forgive each other, we will never quarrel again, we will correct this bad place, even if we turn the page, no one will mention this matter in the future, we are still good classmates, okay? ]

Endure the calm for a while, take a step back and open the sky! ]