It s very contradictory, how to go on, how to solve the contradictions in life?

You can tell him tactfully.

Say that you want to have no secrets with him, know everything, and you yourself are a very possessive person.

It's not a way for you to hold it in your heart.

You're still suspicious.

It's better for you to tell him.

It seems that you have failed to deal with emotional problems with a peaceful heart, just imagine how fulfilling it is to grab a handful of sand in your hand, but once you hold on hard, the sand ball loses its original fulfillment and beauty, the tighter you focus on things, the easier it is for you to lose, he will only think that you have a lot of heart, very hindering, because you have occupied his extra freedom, aren't you selfish.

No matter how much you love each other, you must have your own personal space, you must know that distance produces beauty, and if you are too tired, you will only feel bored.

Your love is too heavy, don't burden the person you love too much.

You will also be very tired, and you will have to divide your energy a little bit towards other things.

Try it and see if it's a little better.

May you be happy.

Maybe you're asking too much I'm also a man, but I'm very supportive of you, even though I'm a man, but I don't believe in things between men and women, men can be so reliable, of course, women are unreliable, but it's still men who are the majority, don't get me wrong! I like girls, maybe men are really beasts! ~!

It is easy to be controlled by the body and cannot control your body well!You know it, huh!

For the contradictions in life, I believe everyone has encountered them, but I should still deal with the contradictions reasonablyIn this way, the feelings between each other will not be affected in any way, and it is also conducive to promoting the feelings between two people, and I hope everyone can pay attention to it.

1. Learn to empathize. When we have conflicts with others, we need to learn to empathize and let ourselves think from the other person's point of view, so that we can put ourselves in the shoes of others and shorten the distance. Because the vast majority of people are selfish and like to think only about themselves, we need to look at things outside of our own thinking, so that we can better solve the contradictions between two people, rather than imposing our own ideas on others.

2. Have an inclusive mindset. For each of us, in fact, there will be times when we make mistakes, as long as we can tolerate the size of the matter, and can have a tolerant attitude to deal with it, then any contradiction can be resolved. Because in the past, my temper was not particularly good, but I was particularly able to tolerate it, as long as something did not touch my bottom line and sell weakness, then I would choose to forgive, so my popularity has always been very good.

In addition, when we solve conflicts, we also need to have a rational mentality, because not all people can deal with things rationally, but there needs to be a transition process, so the reputation of reason is also the key to solving the problem. At the same time, after we have a contradiction, we should also solve the problem in a timely manner, instead of choosing the Cold War, otherwise after a long time, the misunderstanding between each other will expand and even reach the point of being out of control, and then it will be too late even if we want to redeem it.