I had a crush on a girl since my third year of junior high school, and we didn t know how to become

Updated on society 2024-07-11
28 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    You have to understand if she has feelings for you too. If she also likes you, but for some reason she doesn't accept you, you have to move forward, don't give up, and one day she will be moved by you. But if people really don't like you and are just pure friendship with you, I advise you to give up early.

    Otherwise, if you continue like this, you will be stalked, and the other party will be disgusted at that time, and you won't even have to be friends.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Can you only love one in your life? You are too naïve, don't be obsessed, wishful thinking is too tired, it's better to let go early, you will find a wider sky. I hope you will still think the same way when you come back in 10 years.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I think it's better to give up first, I've had this experience too, but I report that when I'm good enough, she will like me, and I suggest you use it as motivation.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If you are really as you said, you are a very single-minded person, I suggest you find a place to talk to her alone, be sure to think about what you want to say in advance, and accept what kind of result you have after talking. Love and friendship are not the same.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Time is the best proof, wait for you to grow up, wait for her to wake up. If you are old enough to no longer be tired from schoolwork, if you love it, chase it. Maybe you'll just end up being friends, after all, you'll meet a lot of girls.

    How many years have passed, and you will find that what you love is nothing more than the youth of this moment.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Spending too much time together can sometimes be unlikely.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You hold on a little longer, confess to her again in a few days, and if it still doesn't work, then give up, after all, there are still a lot of good girls, don't miss the others for one.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Caring and loving is about putting it into action, and action has more impact than any words.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Let go of her and try to accept someone new, she doesn't love you, maybe she likes you a little, but will never be with you.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Time! Can change everything!

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Hello, my point of view as a girl is: since you like her, you are brave to confess to him, girls like to confess directly, instead of listening to others, in fact, maybe she also likes you, you can try several of my methods:1:

    Find a place where no one is and confess to her. 2: Tell her:

    I want to kiss you, and if she says no, you say: What did I just say, she said: I want to kiss you, you say:

    All right. If you like her, you will bravely confess to her.

    I wish you a successful confession o(o

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You can choose not to say anything about your crush, but now that everyone knows about it, I think you might as well take a stand, otherwise it will make people uneasy. Of course, it doesn't mean that if you make it clear, you must be together to affect your learning or something, you can say it first, put it aside and study with peace of mind, and then deal with this problem.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Relationships before work are all fun,,, because can you guarantee that you and her will be together until college?

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I don't think it's necessary to say, I don't think you're timid, you're rational, and it's really likely to affect your studies, and it's right not to confess.

    Because of the consequences of the confession, she promised you, you are very happy to fall in love every day, how can you have the heart to study? If I reject you, will you be sad, but will you still have the heart to study?

    It is recommended that you focus on your studies first, because how long do you think you can be together if you talk now? Have you ever thought about going to school and the pressure from your parents and teachers?

    If you like her, you can leave a QQ number for each other, talk occasionally, and then submit things to him after you finish the college entrance examination. Early love delays your studies, if you delay your studies because of love, the gains outweigh the losses, right?

    Because you must know that if you have one more point or one less point in the college entrance examination, your fate may be completely different.

    You can even agree to go to a school in the same city, so that you may be able to see each other more often in the future, and maybe the relationship will be a little more stable at that time than now.

    is not puppy love, is responsible for each other's lives.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If you like this girl, she is a kind and confident girl, then be brave enough to approach her and don't have too many worries.

    Human feelings are very wonderful things, which slowly sprout, take root, blossom and bear fruit in the process of communication, and are by no means the beginning of the mountain alliance and sea vow. When two people don't know each other enough, too much sweet talk or swear will not help the relationship to develop further. So, you don't have to worry about whether your feelings for her are love or appreciation, whether your relationship with her is friend or lover, and whether you should make some kind of commitment, because your relationship has not really begun.

    You just need to know that you like her from the bottom of your heart, and that's enough.

    From your statement, it can be seen that you are a very caring and responsible boy, but your heart is not strong enough. Since you don't want to miss her, get the courage to go to her. Don't worry about how many times you've been in contact before, and don't worry about how long you've not been in touch.

    All causes have a beginning, even though it may not seem so easy at times.

    I wish you the love of your life soon!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If you are not in a city, contact her by mobile phone first, laugh and chat with her more, see if she is single now, see what her attitude towards you is, and then ask her out to meet and draw a chance to confess.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Forehead! In fact, you should all think about the beginning of things As the saying goes, you need to tie the bell to the bell. Let's turn this around first!

    If you choose to escape, or hide when you see her, then I think you are too weak! You'd better choose to laugh A good friend of mine is like this to laugh at a thousand sorrows! Hehe, in fact, she uses a smile to escape, but this method of escape is not like that!

    The best state of being a person in the world is neither humble nor arrogant. Caring too much about other people's eyes and evaluations can only make you unable to do things, hesitate, lose yourself, lose your personality, and lose your self-worth. Sticking to what you choose and believing in what you insist on is the right path for you.

    It doesn't matter what others think of you, what matters is that you are who you are and do what you think is right.

    Advice!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    You're like this, if she's not willing to reconcile with you or tell you why, are you going to keep going? You have to think about it, it's just your pain. You like a bowl very much, but one day there is a hole in the bottom of the bowl, will you still use it?

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If you want to be friends with him again, you should ask her out and have a good talk; The most important thing is to be inclusive.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    The third year of junior high school is still a bit early, how can I get high school and then determine the relationship.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I have to say, I also came from that stage, I have to admit that the love on campus is very pure, no selfish thoughts, my boyfriend and I are high school classmates, at that time I knew that he liked me for three years, but at that time I didn't like him, and after I separated from college, I knew that he had occupied a very important position in my heart, and then slowly fell in love, I also had my first love, but there was no good result, not that I don't approve of your feelings, I don't agree with your sincerity, I just think you're still a little smaller, a lot of things should go according to the regular process, which stage should do the things of that stage, the fruit is picked prematurely, after tasting, what is left is still bitter, personal experience: what has no result is the taste of first love, you can't get it, your heart is sour, when you think about it, your heart is sweet, if you really confess now, you have to know that there are still many things you have to go through, and you may not be able to handle it well, so, as a sister, tell you, concentrate on preparing for the exam, Your ability is the greatest charm, come on!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Junior high school love, although early love is very common now, but I don't approve of it, academics are important, you are still young, and you don't understand feelings yet, I advise you to study hard...

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Hurry up and confess, don't let yourself regret it.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Study hard and forget about this feeling, which will become more and more at this age.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Confess directly, send food every day,

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I've had a crush before, and now I don't even have any feelings for that girl. Hehe, listen to your parents, as for her you like, you just need to bless her silently! For her sake, and even more for you.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Kids, you haven't figured out what liking is yet, and having a crush on girls doesn't mean liking. Besides, you are still young, and if you are really together, it will definitely have an impact on your studies. Even if you don't care, what about the girl's?

    She said that if you think it's early, even if you succeed in confessing, it won't be long-term. My advice is to keep being friends and wait until everyone is mature before thinking about it.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    As a person who has come over, after many years, you will find that the people who are willing to stay by your side will still be there; Many people, the people we once loved and even loved so much, have drifted away and are no longer in touch or ......There will be a little sadness, and in the end, I will feel that staying by my side is the most precious. time will tell

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Then do you still like your girlfriend Ask yourself and you will know In fact, when you ask this question, you have already changed your mind about your girlfriend So why are you reluctant? Isn't it used to it It's been a long time I've gotten used to having her by my side But this is actually unfair to you and her But you have to think about whether you can catch up with the girl you have a crush on Actually, the happy opportunity is okay Think of a way to make all three of you happy.