Every time I like people, people don t like me 10

Oh Many people in this world pay more attention to appearance, in fact, there is nothing wrong with wanting to find self-confidence through **! But the quickest way to find confidence is to discover your strengths! Teach you a good way to expand your strengths when you get along with the opposite sex, and maybe your true destiny will appear!

If you are not a person who cares about the appearance of others, I believe that you will have a relationship with each other and the same heart, I sincerely bless you!

I suggest that you try to develop as much as possible in the two aspects of eloquence and cuteness, because these two aspects are also very pleasing in the minds of girls!

People who really love you won't care about your appearance, in fact, I think it's easier for Cinderella to find true love, and if it's a princess, it's easy to get hurt, because there is no Prince Charming in today's society. People are always slowly experiencing some things, and then slowly growing up, one day you will find your true love, don't worry.

If he looks at your appearance, you'll regret it if you like it! If there is a better him in the future, she will not change her mind!

So it's your true love that hasn't come yet! Love is about tolerating each other!

If you want to **, it's also for health, not for others!

Those are not the people who really love you, if they are the people who really love you, how can they care about those, people are absolutely not perfect1

Believe in yourself as the best, and you must give yourself confidence!

Don't be so discouraged.

Support you!

If it's a relationship with the goal of marriage, then you don't have to worry about it at all.

A spiritual partner can become the other half of your marriage, just wait.

1.The heart is wide, so the body is fat, the heart is good, you will find a good girl, just like the chubby you.

2.Men have to be capable, and ability is more important than anything else.

3.If it really affects the image, it should be appropriately reduced, and it should be considered for the sake of health

You don't need to make any changes.

People who pay attention to your appearance must not be worth associating.

Seeing what is within you is what you really have to wait for.

Be patient.

Don't fret. It's not your fault that you're getting fat.

If you mix well or have a lot of money, women will come

Just let it be. The green vegetables and radishes are a little bit good.

To like a person is to look at the mind.

And not look at appearances.

Subject, I understand your feelings very well. I think you've had the courage to ask this question, because if you have such a question, there must be people around you who wonder if you've lived so well, what else is there to complain about.

But in fact, you have your own problems, and you think that what others say about you does not match what you say about yourself. What seems good to others is not good in your opinion. ?

Cowardly, timid, he doesn't dare to lose his temper, and he can only suppress the clan when he is angry to the extreme. These are your characteristics, your weaknesses, but these can also be your strengths. For example, if you are timid, it just shows that you are cautious and trustworthy.

Don't dare to lose your temper, so that you will not lose friends easily, one more friend and one more way. Subject, in fact, everyone has advantages and disadvantages, we can't avoid it, we can't become perfect. But this is a real part of us, we can't escape it, so we can try to accept the bad parts, you are not satisfied with some parts of yourself, but think about who will be 100% satisfied with their body, appearance?

If you think about it, there are many people with disabilities who have to suffer much more (both mentally and physically) than you, but there are many successful examples, such as Nick, who was born without limbs, who accepted his imperfections and even inspired others in his own way of facing them. ?...... I made you like itBecause you have a good temper, you are tolerant, you are easy-going, you do not easily deny other people's ideas, and you understand the rules of getting along with others better than others.

That's your advantage, someone else doesn't have but only you have. The strengths naturally correspond to your weaknesses, i.e., those that you perceive to be the shortcomings. This is true for everyone.

Why does everyone like me and I don't like myself? This is a sign of low self-esteem.

And everyone likes you, you have the advantage of being popular. Your dislike of yourself is the reason for your inner being. What I want to tell you is:

Every girl deserves to be treated sincerely, deserves to be cherished, you have to cherish yourself, inferiority is to look down on yourself, in fact you are much better than you think, you deserve to be treated well. Best wishes!?

Hello, your question reminds me of a sentence: everyone likes themselves, except for myself. In your heart, you think that you dare not quarrel with you, and you have been suppressing yourself.

The front teeth are not safe. This is what you say about yourself. Other people's evaluation of you is that you have good grades, are beautiful, have a gentle personality, and are popular.

When we list the two, we find that there is a huge difference between your evaluation and that of others. Why this difference? You can recall.

You are at home, how your family evaluates you, how do they get along, and from what they get along, do you think you can have conflicts with others? Can you get angry? (This is not an imputation.)

is helping you analyze the reasons). I'm in a similar situation. My family is strict with me and criticizes me a lot.

I was often scolded at home, but at school, my grades were good, my popularity was good, and everyone liked me. I don't like myself either. The evaluation at home is too low, the evaluation at school is too high, and I have never known how my true self is.

I am not objective in my assessment of myself. Do you do the same? How do you like yourself?

When you live as your true self, there will still be some people who like you, and some people who don't like you, but the people who like you have one more important person, you will like yourself, you will like yourself. Every time I see this sentence, it gives me strength and courage, and I hope it will also give you strength. You can like yourself.

Change the self-evaluation is too low, and I think the subject is still the student. Surround yourself with positive people, they will praise you more, affirm you more, recognize you more, this is a change from the outside world. When others praise you, try to admit generously that you are so good and so good, you will get better and better, you will be more confident, don't be embarrassed, or think you are bad.

If the subject changes with the help of an authority person, you can also go to an authority person you trust (your favorite family member), and they can also change your evaluation of yourself. Best wishes!?

Why do so many people dislike you?

First, because you always tell the truth, if your good friend has shortcomings, and when people ask you, you tell them about their shortcomings, then your friends don't like you.

Second, because you are not hypocritical enough, we all know that people nowadays like to listen to good words and beautiful words, if you rely on your own conscience, you are telling the truth, and do not flatter others, others will not like you.

Third, because your mouth is not sweet enough, whether it is your friends or relatives, if your mouth is not coated with honey, what dear mother-in-law, dear mother, dear husband, say so-and-so is amazing! Those who don't say sweet things are not welcome.

Fourth, because you are too upright, if you sometimes have something to say, but you don't do things enough, you still can't get the likes of others.

Fifth, because you don't know how to pat yourself, life in the workplace is very stressful, especially when you want to be promoted, if you don't maintain a friendly relationship with the leader and don't pat the leader's sycophant, the leader will of course not like you, and your promotion opportunities will be disappointed.

Sixth, because you are too kind, everyone knows that people who are too kind are easy to be bullied, and after being bullied, others will think that you are easy to bully, and they will naturally not like you.

I think in real life, we really can't do it, everyone likes themselves, I think 60% of people in life like you, you are already very good. Why do you need 100% people to like you?

The most important thing is that we like ourselves.

I don't like myself, so why do I have to force others to like me? I'm really hilarious.

As for my stunted growth, it really has a lot to do with my family education. I don't have good parents who are decent.

was also disliked by his father at birth. Everything he makes is a selfish act.

Because he had to raise children, he kept working as coolies. But he didn't raise a child, but because of his mother's offense, he finally ruined the child. Because the mother's mouth destroys the child.

I always say I want to be strong, but I just say it, I never take action.

I hated my lap legs, but when I told my mother about these requests, she gave me the idea that I didn't care, I didn't pay attention. Never helped me, gave me calcium supplements. And I am also lonely, and I believe that a squatting person's "eating calcium tablets can't give birth to children."

Why should I believe a word of nonsense from someone who doesn't understand anything?

At the time, I was really calcium deficient because of myself, but I didn't have the knowledge, I just cared about.

Now I understand that my leg is due to a lack of calcium.

There are all kinds of problems, arrogant, sloppy, love to speak foul language, love to take advantage, extremely annoying (always sticking to you to get this and that), forget to forget the West and other socially recognized bad problems, this kind of people around me a lot, I basically love to take advantage of the dormitory next door, last time I also lost my new basketball, borrowed things and have to come to the door to ask for low, who doesn't hate this kind of person. So if you're like that, you can try to change it and show it to them, or take the initiative to tell them (but this kind of person who is willing to admit his shortcomings and promise to correct it is very rare), and if you are really willing to do it, you will find that the effect is very good, and from my personal point of view, I will be shocked, because this kind of person can teach me a lot, how can I not like it? But so far I haven't encountered it, people with this kind of problem don't even know themselves, they always live in their own world, and they never empathize.

Unintentionally or deliberately realistic pride or high spirits, even if it is just because of shyness, you have to contact others, in the new collective, you have to lower your identity first, and at the same time deliberately win over the people around you, you can generally get a few friends.

Look for the problem within yourself.

Whether others like us or not is not entirely up to our own factors. There could be the following reasons:

1.Self-deprecation: low self-esteem and a constant lack of confidence and self-confidence in one's performance and abilities. This can affect our performance and interactions, making others feel that we are unattractive.

Solve the Fang Yan Cong case: To stop self-deprecation, you can seek professional psychological help if needed, such as counselors, psychos**, etc., to help improve self-confidence and self-esteem.

2.Social anxiety: Sometimes people have social difficulties because they are too nervous. Excessive fear of what others will say can also lead to an inability to actively participate in social activities.

Solution: Try to actively participate in social activities, relax your mind, and challenge yourself to do things that you don't often do.

3.Lack of charisma: Sometimes, it's not our problem that people don't like us, it's because we lack that charm and attractiveness, and we lack charisma.

Solution: Try to develop your own interests or follow current trends, and at the same time actively discover your strengths and strengths, and show your unique personality.

4.Being too demanding: Sometimes people are too demanding, making it difficult for others to accept and get along with them.

Solution: You need to understand yourself, think about whether your goals are really realistic, provide some help to others, actively pay attention to the needs of others, and your relationships will improve.

In conclusion, the above are just some of the factors that may affect interpersonal relationships, and the approach to solving problems varies from person to person, and you need to reflect on yourself and make changes accordingly to improve interpersonal relationships.

There is no need to make everyone like themselves, one or two friends around you are enough to talk to, and the others can be general friends. You can communicate with others more, don't be too introverted, and it's also important to communicate with others.