What kind of mentality is the state of mind of a man in a relationship who apologizes bitterly after

<> a long life, it is not easy to find a suitable person, a good relationship, I think it can last forever, but there are too many variables in feelings.

Always when we think we are happy, the other party does something unexpected to you, betrayal is one of them, and this is the most hurtful.

Women are likely to be moved and reconciled, and even they will feel that he is really just a momentary mistake, and that he really loves me.

But I have encountered a few similar situations, but the truth is that he just didn't find a suitable person to replace you.

Xiaofei met her husband with someone else 3 years ago, and after being discovered, she begged bitterly, and even behaved more painfully than Xiaofei, blaming herself, saying that she didn't want to lose this home, Xiaofei thought about it for a few nights, couldn't sleep, and finally forgave him.

However, after a year, she found out again that only this time her husband was leaving, no matter how she pleaded, and she hoped that her husband would return in the face of the child, she could not care.

The husband said that he didn't agree, because he found a woman who was richer than Xiaofei, and he didn't want the child, and then Xiaofei lived alone with the child.

Because you can't keep someone whose heart isn't with you.

Love does not betray.

True love is not to do what you want to do in your heart, but to think about whether it will hurt your lover before doing it, and if it is even if you want to do it, you will restrain your desires.

Like is presumptuous, love is restraint, like only two people need to be happy together, but love needs to be cared for, always put each other's feelings in mind.

How can such feelings be betrayed, not even at the beginning, some people say that I just made a small mistake, next time I won't, you don't know, love is exclusive, how can the space of two people accommodate a third person.

When you choose to step out of your relationship and find someone else, love doesn't exist, and at that moment you only love yourself, not others.

Not leaving, just not meeting the right people.

Many times, he betrays his feelings, he wants to leave after you know it, he cries and begs you, he is wrong, it is still you who loves, and she is just a joke.

You softened your heart, thinking that he might really love me, but not next time, but then you found out that he made a mistake again, and cried bitterly again, and you also wondered, does he love me?

Actually, he doesn't love you that much, he just hasn't met the right person.

Look at the circumstances of those marriages or relationships who betray their partners and leave? Except for those who are determined to separate, most of them are because the new one has an overwhelming advantage over the original partner in some way.

For example, he found a new love with a good economy, or found a beautiful, young man who admired him, in short, what he desperately wanted in his previous relationship.

At this time, it doesn't matter how you don't mind, wronged, I'm afraid that he won't look at it.

If you don't leave, you may have a little worry, but most of them are still worried about your efforts and your goodness, for example, you don't want money, you take care of your family, and the other party is not as good as you.

Such a 3-man seesaw, he will be on your side, but it is only temporary, either there may be a next time, or the next substitution.

Such a man has a kind of luck mentality, and he thinks that he should apologize after making a mistake. Then begging the other party to forgive himself, and when the other party forgives himself, he may still make mistakes.

I think such a man should just think that you are a liar and don't want to lose you, a person who is easy to deceive, so he will apologize after betrayal, and after you forgive, he will still make mistakes again.

It's not a fluke that the fear is caused by the psychology after it is punctured. On the one hand, I feel that I won't find out, I don't think of the consequences, and on the other hand, I am afraid of losing too much when I am bumped into.

They hope to end this relationship as soon as possible, start a new relationship again, and hope that the other party can forgive them, so that their hearts will feel better.

In fact, it should be the mentality of wanting to redeem, and what you can't get is always in turmoil, wanting to get forgiveness.

After being betrayed by a man, in fact, no matter what attitude the other party uses to ask for forgiveness, he should not be forgiven.

If men always kneel down and beg for forgiveness after making mistakes, then such men, don't be with them, because they don't have self-esteem at all, and some of them are too crazy, especially extreme.

After the man betrayed, he knelt down and begged for forgiveness, without doing some practical actions, and if he didn't forgive him, he was still angry. Such an attitude is still forgotten.

I will, because men are more sassy, they look at others are always easy to bury, others are always fragrant, and men have hunting tendencies, they always feel that there are many women who like him, it is a sense of honor, although betrayal of feelings is not right, but if boys choose to betray, then why wouldn't girls, girls will do this because they are too sad. Liang was defeated.

Because there are many men who don't take their feelings seriously and regret, they will only have a playful mentality, and I will not forgive the man who betrayed me, because this kind of man is not worth cherishing, and this is not conducive to the development of Qingzhen's feelings, so when we fall in love, we must pay attention to this aspect of Bi Zhengjing.

When faced with a person who betrays me in my life, I will depend on the situation, because trusting a person tends to believe in all of him. If this betrayal is well-intentioned, or if there are some ulterior reasons, then go and find out more. If you judge that the person is not half-hearted about himself, then of course he can be forgiven.

If the opposite is the case, and the person is just disguising his usual behavior and has been brewing in his heart how to betray you, then this betrayal is not worthy of forgiveness.

The ancient Greek philosopher Heraclitus said, "It is impossible for a man to step into the same river twice" is justified. This means that people cannot make the same mistakes, and if a person betrays you out of malice, then you cannot forgive him, otherwise he will repeat the mistake again and again.

What's worse is that he sees your kindness as weak, even crushed, and will cause you more damage.

Sometimes, people who are too honest tend to be taken advantage of by others. Being too honest is stupid, and being too kind is considered weak. After all, in this era of fierce competition, many times honest people are tolerant and humble, he doesn't seem to have any opinions, and he doesn't know how to refuse, so he is at the mercy of others.

So, when necessary, you must be careful to show your personality and courage. There are often such things in life, when you kindly forgive the person who betrayed you, forgive him for the first time, he will cry with gratitude and be good to you; But the second time, he would only faintly say thank you; After many times, he will not hesitate to think that you should forgive him, otherwise he will think that you are too stingy.

This is the so-called grievance, such a person cannot forgive him in the first place, let alone give him a chance to hurt you again. You should wipe him out of your circle and stop talking to him.

There are people who are close to you, not because they respect you or see you as a friend, they just treat you as a step, step on your head if necessary, and betray you at any time.

Some people have softer hearts. When others beg him, he thinks about others and makes some unrealistic fantasies, even thinking that the other party will be lost, know that he is wrong, and never do it again. This psychology belongs to the likable character.

Over time, your kindness may not be exchanged for the sincerity of others, but it may be exchanged for the contempt of others. Your forgiveness may not be reciprocated, but it may hurt. Your kindness has hurt yourself in the end, but your tolerance has turned into indulgence.

So, once you don't think the other person deserves to be forgiven, then you can express your feelings directly.

Some people just like to bully people, and when you learn to retaliate, they will respect you and even fear you.

The more I experience, the more I believe this sentence, and there is nothing wrong with being ruthless. As the saying goes, no one shall offend me, I shall not offend anyone, and I shall not tolerate anyone who offends me.