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Everyone's pursuit is different, you don't need to care about these things, she has a strong sense of dedication, you can stay at home, if two people live together, it means mutual understanding and tolerance, if you love your girlfriend, then her diligence should be your strength, not a bother, if you love your girlfriend, and she is working diligently for the family, then you should have broad shoulders ready at home.
If you love your girlfriend, then she must be stubborn and cute, when she is focused on her profession, she looks beautiful, you have to treat her well, what if my girlfriend is very ambitious, strong and hardworking, in fact, I should be happy, after all, I met a positive, hard-working young lady who can help me develop in a better direction, the best love is when two ordinary people continue to grow and progress, and eventually become excellent people with each other
If your girlfriend is very ambitious and always wants to be a leader, then she has been studying hard, then you will be influenced and infected by her, you will become more positive, and at the same time, you will be strict with yourself because your girlfriend can do the same, and you certainly can't be left behind. But,If you meet such a girlfriend, you must be able to manage her, otherwise you will be suppressed by the other party and end up becoming inappropriate
After all, one is too powerful, the other is too ordinary, and in the end you can only choose to part ways, not a family。This makes a lot of sense, first of all, we must learn to establish an effective way of communication, otherwise it will be more difficult to get along with the other person who has been guessing what the other person is thinking, as a couple, regardless of the other person's temperament, they should establish a way of communication that can accept each other and be willing to do so, and secondly, you must know that you want to be strong and not deviate from your original life and sincere heart.
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You should show your weak side in front of your girlfriend, so that your girlfriend will feel that you are more worthy of care.
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Look at the industry your girlfriend is engaged in, you can learn what you don't know and ask her, and pretending to be sick is very effective, but you can't use it all the time, love is mutual, as long as you care about each other more, the other party will also care about you.
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What should I do if my girlfriend is very ambitious, very strong, and very hardworking? In fact, I should feel happy, after all, I met a positive and hard-working young woman, which can help me develop in a better direction.
The best love is when two ordinary people continue to grow and progress, and eventually achieve each other and become excellent people. And if your girlfriend is very ambitious and always wants to be the best, so she has been working hard and studying hard, then you will also be influenced and infected by her, and you will become a more positive person, and at the same time you will be strict with yourself, because even your girlfriend can do this, and of course you can't lag behind.
However, when you meet such a girlfriend, you must be able to control it, otherwise you will be suppressed by the other party, and finally become inappropriate, after all, one is too strong, the other is too ordinary, and in the end you can only choose to part ways, not that the family does not enter the door, this is reasonable.
First of all, we must learn to establish an effective way of communication, otherwise it will be more difficult to get along with each other all the time guessing what the other party is thinking, as a couple, no matter what the other party's temperament and personality is, we should establish a way that can accept each other and is willing to communicate.
Secondly, you must know that you must be strong, and you can't deviate from the original life and the real heart, sometimes women who are too strong tend to care about material things and become money worshippers.
Therefore, as the boyfriend of the other party, you must learn to guide your girlfriend to develop towards positive energy, otherwise you will fall into a misunderstanding.
Third, establish alignment with each other's life and work goals, and be willing to make changes for each other's sake.
If you can achieve the above three points, then no matter how ambitious your girlfriend is, you can get along very well.
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What to do, you can steal the fun. The subject has this doubt, it must be because he feels that he is not good enough, he is under pressure, so he will be confused, shouldn't you make yourself better and more diligent now, do you still have time to confuse these things?!
Many of today's boys have a double-standard outlook on life, while disgusting their girlfriends or wives for being too ambitious, and when their wives resign and go home to take care of their children, they begin to dislike their wives for not having their own jobs and relying on themselves for everything. At the very least, you should know that if you have enough ability to support your family and give your wife the life she wants, then you can say to your girlfriend with arrogance, you just have to look beautiful at home and make money to support your family. However, if you receive a negligible salary every month, the life of the whole family is stretched thin every month, and when your girlfriend or wife is better and more motivated than you in her career, you will feel all kinds of uncomfortable, and feel that your girlfriend's behavior hurts your so-called face or self-esteem, then you can only ask you to get out, you have no ability, and you can't tolerate others being better than yourself, and being with you is destined to be a tragedy.
Girlfriend is very enterprising and hardworking, if you are not as good as her, you should work harder, as the so-called no girl wants to turn herself into a woman, just because that person does not give her enough security, she can only make herself stronger to protect herself. From now on, you go and put in more effort to prove to your girlfriend that you are a person worthy of her lifelong trust!
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Isn't that a good thing? I'm still asking to do this, don't give me a good thing, my girlfriend is relatively difficult to find, and I'm not happy to meet such a good one, what do you think, big brother.
In fact, I also roughly understand the situation you said, and the first thing to admit is that you are a great machismo, that is, the original kind of thinking, women just need to take care of their children at home, clean and clean the house, and they don't need to go out to make money or anything, these things are done by men. This is typical machismo, why do you feel uncomfortable, in fact, this is also the feeling of being put on most men, it should be the woman in the house, and the man in the outside, but now it's the other way around, and his thoughts are subverted all of a sudden, there must be a different feeling. And if a man is stronger than a woman, he may not feel anything, but some outsiders will make irresponsible remarks, making themselves very faceless, and at this time, they are more annoying if their girlfriends are too strong.
To sum up, isn't it just about loving face, and a dignified seven-foot man is not as powerful as a weak woman, although it is not the original kind of society now, but the idea that women are not as good as men has been ingrained in the hearts of many people, how can it be changed all of a sudden at this time?
In fact, you can think of it this way, now is not the original kind of society that relies on physical strength, and now the best tool to support the family is earned by mental power, why can't girls be better than boys? Aren't they all people of this age? Men and women are equal.
Actually, I don't think I can accept this kind of thinking, but it's really the only thing that can give you a sense of balance.
Or do you mean that your girlfriend is too strong, this is not necessarily good, but also due to natural reasons, most men are stronger, and women are weaker than men in this regard. But since you have chosen to be together, should you tolerate some of the bad things she has brought you? Maybe you are more disgusted with this kind of character, but personality is not something that can be changed overnight, and it is the best solution to make some tolerance changes for her.
If you really can't bear it, then just tell your girlfriend frankly, dirty can only make the relationship between the two of you become worse and worse, if she can accept it, it would be better, if not, it would be separated, after all, the two people's personalities are not together, it will only produce some contradictions, it is better to separate early and save some unpleasant things will happen in the future, so that both people feel uncomfortable.
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<>? Isn't it good?
Why do you ask?
Do you think you have enough money for girls to spend?
Do you think you can make a girl spend a lot of money?
If the girl doesn't make money, can you really calmly spend the money on her without saying anything?
The girl earns her own money, spends her own money, and uses her own comfort, do you also have an opinion?
What's wrong with being too diligent, it's nothing more than taking care of your time a little less and spending more time on your career.
What's wrong with being very ambitious, it shows that she is positive and diligent.
What's wrong with her being strong, she keeps herself busy and lives every day to the fullest.
I like that kind of attitude to life.
You're still asking what to do, shouldn't you cherish having such a girlfriend?
I think you're worried that she's too ambitious to take care of her family.
But there's no such thing as the best of both worlds.
Dong Mingzhu is a strong woman, single-handedly promoting the Gree brand to the international market and laying a solid foundation.
I don't think there's anything wrong with that.
If it really doesn't work, you can work hard for your career first, and then have a child when your career is stable, how beautiful it is.
Then I want to complain about you again, your girlfriend is hardworking and ambitious, and you don't accompany her well, but here you ask what to do. I think you're the kind of person who lives an ordinary life.
My boyfriend also said that he likes to live a dull life, one step at a time, and I like all kinds of challenges in life.
I asked him that our values are different, and he said, you go outside to surf, I have been waiting for you at home, you are tired, I hope you have a harbor to rely on.
Everyone's pursuit is different, you don't have to care about these, she is ambitious, you can be a little homely, two people live together, that is, understand each other and tolerate each other.
If you love your girlfriend, her diligence should seem to you to be a virtue, not a distress.
If you love your girlfriend and she is working hard for the family, your broad shoulders should be ready at home.
If you love your girlfriend, her stubborn personality is cute, and she is beautiful when she concentrates on her career, so you have to treat her well.
Every strong girl is very fragile in her heart, the stronger she is, the more insecure she is, and she needs to work hard to express her value.
She is afraid that if she doesn't work, no one will remember her, and she is afraid that if she doesn't work hard, no one will be willing to work hard for him. Her insecurity is given by you, and if you don't give her enough security, she can only try to find security on her own.
There are many of them that were said well before marriage, I am responsible for making money to support the family, and you are responsible for being beautiful like a flower, and later, the husband does not dislike this and that. Make money to package Xiaosan and raise Xiaomi.
Girls should be self-reliant, so that even if those bad things happen, it will not be painful, and we can still live a colorful life when we leave.
If there is such a girl, let's marry. Ha ha!
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<>We have been pursuing "equality between men and women", but this is simply not something to achieve. For a woman, different people will have different opinions, if you go out to work and are too ambitious, you will be considered that you will not take care of your family; But if you only stay at home and be a housewife, you will be disgusted and have nothing to do. It's really hard to be a woman.
No matter what you do, no matter how you do it, you will always be picky and picky, and you will always be talked about.
Girlfriend is very ambitious, very strong, too diligent, if the three words girlfriend are removed, then it is undoubtedly an advantage, but why as someone else's girlfriend, these advantages will be questioned? What does a girl have to be in order to satisfy everyone? I don't know.
But I know that no matter what others think, first of all, I will be a self-reliant person, because only in this way can I be myself seriously and live as I want.
The reason why I want to be very strong is to want to give myself enough security, many things tell us that in addition to my parents, only I will never abandon myself, not excluding exceptions, but I am afraid to pin my hope on a small probability, I don't have that guts, I hope that in the future I can give myself everything I want, instead of relying on others, with bread to find love so that there will be no worries, some stumbling.
A man with enough wealth has basically won the approval of many people, while a woman is not, it is quite difficult to get recognition. In this case, we don't need to seek the slightest recognition from everyone, as long as we feel that the right path is the right one, we will stick to it. Especially in the face of life problems, the bread you give yourself is the most reliable, you must take your life in your own hands and be an independent woman.
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