Who are you destined to suffer for the rest of your life if you marry them?

Marry those who are selfish, do not know how to consider things from the position of others, and always live only for themselves, they are destined to suffer for a lifetime, and they should be cautious when they get married.

People who don't do their jobs, people who don't have responsibilities, and so on. People who do not do their jobs will lead to no normal income after marriage**, life will be relatively poor, and people who do not take responsibility are unwilling to be responsible, and they will shirk everything.

and people who are selfish and take money too seriously, people who value feelings too much, and people who have a strong sense of gain and loss. In this life, because you can't afford to let go, you will live in pain.

Those who have violent tendencies will be unhappy for both men and women, and they will be unhappy even if they are cold and violent. If this man or woman is not self-motivated, you will also suffer with it, life is difficult, and there is no future to speak of. In the end, it is to marry the kind of person who obviously uses you, and the kind that will throw you away after using it will also suffer.

Nothing is destined in life, as long as you are willing to work hard, then the outcome of anything can be changed.

So who do you like? Then you have to work hard, and even if you don't get it in the end, then you won't have regrets.

Yes, most of the people you marry are in your circle, and it can be said that who you marry is predestined.

Marriage is a social relationship, so there are many factors involved in this issue, such as: social factors, family factors, cultural literacy, family economic status, etc. Chinese have a saying about marriage customs, from ancient times to the present, from the words of matchmakers to the marriage of free marriage, the vast majority of people around us have followed this law.

Therefore, it should be said that the general direction of marriage is 80% determined when you are born, and the remaining 20% depends on your acquired creation.

With the development of traffic information and social civilization, who a person marries really has a lot to do with his social scope. Look at the people around us, whether most of them are married to people within their social range, either your colleagues, or your classmates, or the children of your mother's classmates, or a relative of your family introduced you. Introduced by colleagues and classmates.

It's rare to be someone who suddenly appears in your life.

Moreover, most of these classmates, colleagues, and others are the ones who are introduced. These factors include physical appearance, material or property, status or fame, knowledge or learning, social demeanor or character, and character. All of these factors are equal.

Even if it is not equal, the factors will reach an equilibrium as a whole. For example, the man has no money, and the woman is very rich, but the man is much higher than the woman in terms of learning, so that there will be an evenly matched effect, so that the man and woman are more inclined to a complementary marriage and love.

As the saying goes, what kind of person you are will meet what kind of person. Moreover, everyone who looks at the right eye has several similarities with themselves, has common interests and hobbies, and has similar basic values, life beliefs, behavior patterns and world views. This is human nature, because people always like people who have something in common with them.

Even in the Internet era, where online dating is prevalent, the final marriage cannot escape the constraints of the "door-to-door" factor.

I have always believed that human fate is destined, and everything depends on fate. People may be able to change some small things around them, but the general course and the path of your life are already predestined. This question is not part of the scientific discussion, so it is only for everyone to express their own opinions.

I have nothing to do and say that "maybe today is the right one for you, but tomorrow it will be another one for you", in my opinion, this is the route that God has destined for you. Some of the more extreme people may say, "For example, I carried out an event that was supposed to be going on well, but I suddenly changed it for no reason." For example, if I find someone to marry, and one day I file for divorce without warning" then this can be explained by my point of view.

That's what God decided to let you do. I can give another example, for example, a girl is now optimistic about a boy, thinks that he is very good, and will be happy to live with him for the rest of her life, and it turns out that he is indeed a very good person, and at the moment he is a good man who can be relied on for a lifetime. But the atmosphere of this society and the change of people's concepts, one day this man fell in love with another woman outside and wanted to divorce his wife.

How can this incident be explained? It can only be said that this is human life.

Everything in the space you live in has been determined when the universe is formed, and all accidents are inevitable, because you only have one chance to choose anything under the same circumstances.

Although it depends on fate, I have heard such a sentence, if you don't buy roses on Valentine's Day, someone will buy roses for you, so do you think it is possible to rely only on fate? Waiting for the rabbit? Not everyone is so lucky.

There is no such statement.

Things around us are changing every day, every second.

Maybe today it is he who suits you, but tomorrow it is another that suits you.

Perhaps, everything is the arrangement of fate, although the world is always changing, but it has not changed Everything can only move forward according to the laws that should be done So, we met the destined person at the destined time So, we are destined to come together

Yes, too! It should be a person who is destined to get married all his life, so there will be such an answer.

There is a story about a boy who liked a girl so much that he tried to be with her, but the girl ended up marrying another person. So the disappointed boy went to ask God. God told him that in your previous life you found an abandoned corpse, and when you passed by you felt that he was pitiful and covered her with a coat.

And now this girl's husband is the one who buried the body after you.

What causes you cultivated in your previous life, what you will get in your next life. The so-called life turns at will. See if you look at "Jade Calendar Treasure Bank" and "The Four Trainings of Lifan".

No, I don't think so!

The fortune teller said that my mother would get married twice, that's right, I married my dad for the first time without a marriage certificate, and then I quarreled and divorced, and then remarried, isn't it ...... to get married twiceOr the same person.

I have been accumulating virtue and doing good deeds since I was a child, and I have never hurt a mouse, but God has never favored me, and I have never touched a girl's hand during the New Year's 26.

I feel that my husband should be my relative in my previous life, maybe my younger brother, anyway, I was very superstitious after I got married.

Before my brother (Zhou Yi gossip lover) before I got married, I told my parents that the object I married was not tall, relatively fat, a science and engineering man, and later in the capital, my husband was indeed a short and fat man, 166 tall and 75 kilograms, properly drip science and engineering men.

It's fate, fate is wonderful, one moment you were still fantasizing about the relationship, it had nothing to do with the two, but in the next second you became a husband and wife!

I'm just sucking the scumbag physique, I feel like I've lost confidence in love, I'm looking for someone to forget the peach blossoms, saying that I'm not far away, but now I meet my boyfriend, we are very compatible in all aspects, I feel that the two of us are born for each other, and now we are getting engaged, and I'm looking forward to going through the second half of my life with him.

Since you have believed in fate, then you should know that no matter which marriage it is, it is arranged by God.

I don't think there is really any fate in this world, are they all two people who are in love with each other? Know how to care for each other, so that both people can feel the warmth of each other.

I don't know if it's not, fate is destined to divorce me once, I just want to find someone to live a safe and stable life, the people around me persuade me, saying that I am destined to have a divorce, I have also thought about it, I don't want to find myself anymore to take my daughter to live is good,

The fortune teller said that I could meet the right person at the age of 25, and I could really get married and settle down at the age of 26, and I met the person I married at the age of 25, and agreed to get married at the age of 26.

I asked for a sign in the temple before, and the master who unsigned the sign told me that in the future, my other half will be a round-faced, unassertive man, and he will be an upside-down life. At the time, it didn't match my criteria for choosing a mate, so I didn't pay much attention to it. Later, I met my husband, and after I got married, I found out that I was basically the same as the master, which should be considered fate.

Although sometimes I don't want to admit that it's fate, but many things are verifying, from a metaphysical point of view, who a person marries is predestined, as for what method, whether it can be seen is a matter of personal level.

My husband and I had a relative in 2009, and when I heard that the man was younger than me, I didn't agree and didn't meet. In May 2012, another relative said that the matchmaker said that I didn't want to look for it at that time, so I refused, and the relative said that people rushed back from other places, so you should give me a face to meet ......At that time, it was also to cope with the next meeting, and later got married, and my husband and I were still quite fateful, and we were together three years later.

Maybe, I've known him for 9 years, together for 2 years, I didn't agree when I chased me in college, and I went around and around or together, when I first started with my boyfriend, his family was not optimistic, I didn't agree with us being together, and we talked for more than 2 years, and his family urged us to get married early, but I hesitated to get married.

15 years of work in the place of a aunt said that I have a good personality, introduced her son to me, symbolically go to the park, visit the park that there is a temple, there are many fortune tellers on the side of the road, as early as 20 years old my mother pulled me to the town a blind man calculated that I got married, that day with the man to go bored to find a fortune teller, in fact, I just want to hear what they praise me! Then the fortune teller said I would get married this year, but the man wouldn't. After that, I ended up with the man, and a few months later I married my current husband, who was exactly 26 and 27

Marriage is predestined, you can't run. Some people's marriages, when they see each other, they don't feel it, and later they get married and have children, and they love each other for a hundred years, said the fortune teller. It was a figure eight marriage. Some people hit it off at first sight. That's the continuation of the frontier.

My mother likes the grassland, so I gave my name an original word, I went to work in the field not long after I met a person surnamed Cao, I didn't care, but he chased me, I think I quickly quit my job and go home to change to an easier job, I want to find a local person to marry, but on the day I left I found that he really liked me, I didn't want to miss it, so I agreed to be with him. Only later did I find out that our name is combined to be grassland. We got married last year and are now pregnant with a baby and are living happily.

I guess it was meant to be, and my mom wanted me to find that grass.

It's not that you're going to marry someone, it's that you're going to marry someone. Because your conditions, habits, and hobbies will lead you to like a certain person, and this kind of person can just accept you.

And my husband, I really believe this, I'm more anxious, more domineering, we just met in high school, I lost my temper... My object is too.,Temper is more anxious.,More stubborn.,Still a soldier.,But it's changed too much for me.,I'm about to change a person.,It's been ten years now.,I just got married last year.,Still in love.。

How do I feel, the person who marries you in marriage is not necessarily the one you love, it may be suitable! You love, but it's not suitable for marriage!

Doesn't it mean that there is a kind of love called letting go?

In fact, if your beloved can be happy, you should also be happy, and in order to let your lover not worry about yourself, you must also work hard to be happy Now that you have known for a long time, you know the seriousness of the matter, if you have to complain about it, you deserve it.

Everyone has the right to be happy, and being so sad all the time will only cause your friends and relatives around you to be miserable, and it will not do you any good.

At least in China, if it is possible to emigrate to a foreign country, several countries have allowed it, and hopefully you will find true love.

Landlord, ask the person you love is of the same sex or the opposite sex as you???

Actually, you don't have to live in pain. How can it be meaningless to live, is he the only one you love in this world? There are still many people who love you.

Isn't it someone you love? So bless him. And you should also live a happy life.

You don't want to live happily for yourself, then for all the people who love you.

No way, China is not humane enough, not open enough

No, your lover is something you have always wanted, so you can't call your lover, so you have to try to find your lover and give him happiness.

There is a kind of love called love at first sight, and there is another kind of love called long-term love. Find a kind and good girl and try to get into her heart.

Ha ha. I'm only 16, and I'm thinking about not getting married in the future. My dream is to get married at the age of 40.

The imbalance between men and women is normal, hehe.

Fate is destined, and seven points depend on hard work. No matter what kind of love belongs to long-distance running, if the gap between each other is too far in the process, you can't even flirt and scold, and you can't hear the shouting, and the love will be slowly thrown away.

This distance includes many aspects, such as family background, hobbies, personality, experience, ......Wait, don't say that family background is not a problem, this is true in the vast majority of people. The circle is different, it is fresh at the beginning, and it is divided when it is fresh.

No matter how long you have been in love, you need to adjust the products and understand the needs of the other party, otherwise it is easy to be broken up by the "three" that appears in the "experience".

Alas, after all, love belongs to two different individuals, operating together, and maintaining each other is a great way.