The girl I like doesn t accept my pursuit Is there any hope for giving up or continuing the pursuit?

Updated on psychology 2024-07-07
13 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Let's be friends first! Since everyone has said so! Make an attitude clear.

    If you have perseverance yourself, that's fine. Just be friends first. Don't cut off the connection. Sooner or later, there will be a chance. I mean, there's a chance. Not absolutely.

    You're continuing to chase her now. It's just going to scare her away. Then you really are.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    In other words, escape is not what you are afraid of but what you are waiting for, you will not be happy if you don't work hard to get the result, it is better to think about what to do even if it is not successful and enjoy the process, and you can also tell yourself that I once had.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    FriendsSince you have been in contact with each other for a long time, then you should understand that there is no spark of love between you at all ...

    Be friends, if you insist on chasing her, then in the end you can be familiar strangers ...

    Think about what it's not good to do now.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    From her self, I feel that maybe she has been hurt, so don't chase blindly, but see how much it is beneficial to you to chase her. For example, family, love, and friendship, she will give up those. If she is easy to give up love.

    You don't have to waste your time. I can only speak as references, not answers. The answer is only known to you.

    Off topic. I have seen that some people have given up on love because of family affection.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Let it go! Such a strong girl, if you chase her, you are tantamount to hurting yourself, in addition to being injured or injured, why don't you look for it in the unit, you are too limited.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I don't usually choose to pursue it because I focus on myself at this time.

    If I like a girl and she doesn't like me, or even has no feelings for me. I don't think it's necessary to continue pursuing girls at this time, because what I need to do is to improve myself, and at the same time, I believe that I can meet better people. You mean that others have no vision, but two people have no fate together, and at the same time it is not suitable, I think the twisted melon is not sweet.

    1. I will not choose to continue to pursue the other person.

    The truth is actually very simple, feelings cannot be wishful thinking. If only I like each other, but the other party doesn't like me, I think this kind of relationship is not fair, and there will be a lot of hidden emotional dangers. Even if I pursued someone through stalking, it was hard for me to guarantee that the relationship would really work for me.

    Instead of choosing someone who doesn't suit you, I feel like it's better to keep waiting. <>

    Second, I will choose to concentrate on improving myself.

    In a way, as long as a person becomes good enough, we can meet someone who is more suitable for us. When it comes to emotional matters, an excellent person will have more options. If I'm not good myself, I won't move the other person through so-called touching behavior, I will choose to make myself stronger, make myself deserving of better things and people, and I think this is the responsible attitude towards myself.

    3. I will also sincerely wish each other well.

    It's really hard to say about feelings, and I don't think there's a right or wrong relationship. Since two people are not suitable, I will choose to bless each other from the bottom of my heart, and at the same time, I will not force each other to do anything too much. I think everyone has their own choice, as long as we get better and better, we can meet better and better people, and at the same time, we can meet people who are suitable for us.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I won't continue to pursue, which will make me look very humble, and the other party has already shown that I don't like me, so I don't want to pursue it anymore.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    No, it won't. If she doesn't like me, no matter how much effort I put in, she won't like me, and it will only cause me to get hurt.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I won't continue to pursue it, because girls who don't like me have a bad first impression of me in many cases, and continuing to pursue it is likely to deepen this disgusting feeling, so it is better to pursue a better choice.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    For girls who don't like you, will they continue to pursue, in fact, I think if a person, you have been pursuing for a long time, and the other party has been refusing, then you should not continue to pursue him, because the more you continue to pursue, he will cause trouble to him, the more he will hate you, so from now on you try again in the opposite direction, from now on be cold to him, if he has not looked for you for a long time, then you choose to give up.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    No. What if she's made it clear that she doesn't like you, and you? It's also possible to chase her, so give up. There is no need to waste each other's time.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I have a girl who doesn't like me, I really like her, and I will continue to pursue her self-control, until the end, the only thing I won't regret myself. Because sometimes if you don't catch it in the end, you will regret it because you haven't worked hard.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I think I'm going to keep going, and I won't give up until I get to the point of despair.

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