How painful are people with low self esteem? How terrible is a person with extreme low self esteem?

I have an inferiority complex in my heart and can't speak, and I always feel that others look at me with colored eyes.

A person with excessive low self-esteem is really terrible, there is such a saying that all thoughts are ruined, sometimes he will kill people and set fires, and he will be depressed. Therefore, when we meet such people, we should be more enthusiastic. Actively induce, so as not to let him fall deeper and deeper, unable to self-control, to help him become self-confident, this is the responsibility of a family, but also the responsibility of society.

In fact, inferiority complex is still very common, and in the process of growing up, family influence and social influence will more or less plant the seeds of inferiority complex for yourself. Low self-esteem will also go in two directions, either self-reliance and self-improvement, make up for clumsiness by hard work, consciously overcome the inferiority complex, and slowly adjust; Either self-doubt, or even doubt the surrounding environment, and finally doubt life, and can't extricate yourself.

My personal experience is that a person's inferiority complex is often formed before adulthood, family intervention is very important, parents should create a harmonious and relaxed family atmosphere, do not force grades, respect the child's intentions, treat the child equally, and cultivate the child's sound personality, which is too important.

Many criminals actually have a strong inferiority complex, ** the reason for this is that the family is not harmonious, and the lack of education of parents in childhood accounts for a large proportion. Therefore, the family is the first class of life, every parent not only has to raise children but also to raise children, lead by example, do not demand children in grades, but ask them to be an upright, caring, have an attitude to overcome difficulties, and have a sense of responsibility.

I know that this world is unfair, everyone has flaws and shortcomings, if you are obsessed with your own shortcomings every day, then you must not be confident, and it is terrible not to be confident, people who are not confident will not succeed in anything, and there is a high probability that they will spend their lives in mediocrity, even if they are famous, they will naturally become the appendages of others in their personality.

So there is no way, you have to be confident, to dig out the advantages of yourself, if not, don't complain, it's a big deal to learn, after all, self-confidence also depends on strength to support.

But before improving yourself, you must at least correct your mentality, bravely face those strangers in this society, and tell yourself: Everyone is a human being for the first time, who is much more noble than whom?

A person with extreme low self-esteem is terrible, they dare not try anything, and when there is a little setback, they think that something is against them, and they think that they will never succeed.

A person with extremely low self-esteem is full of negative emotions in his heart, he will isolate himself, his heart will also be full of depression for a long time, and he will rarely see a smile on his face due to long-term unhappiness.

A person with extreme low self-esteem is very terrible, in the eyes of this person, he is a good-for-nothing walking corpse, he has no advantages compared to others, he does not have a little self-love for himself, and even seriously feels that his life is meaningless.

A person with extreme low self-esteem is already terrible, he is like a person full of negative energy, they don't have much hope for life, and they don't have a plan for their life.

To be honest, I don't like people who have extremely low self-esteem, because such people often let themselves fall into endless failures because they don't see their shining points.

A person with extremely low self-esteem likes to compare the advantages of others with his own shortcomings, and completely ignores the value of his own existence.

A person with extreme low self-esteem is not terrible, as long as he finds the reason for his low self-esteem, he can become more and more positive, and he will slowly become confident.

Low self-esteem is not necessarily a bad word, as long as he recognizes what makes him feel inferior, then he may change, become stronger, and slowly become less inferior.

A person with extreme low self-esteem is unable to complete many things independently with confidence, and the more he always fails, the more self-denial, and at this time he needs others to help him get out of the shadows.

There is a saying before that arrogant people are saved, but people with low self-esteem are not saved, when a person is only jealous and sad, then we can only be basically like this in this life, and nothing will change.