What do you think of those gossips? How do you think your reputation is trampled on?

Let's be honest. I think.. If there are only one or two, or a small number of people, who are gossiping about you and slandering your personality, then they have a psychological problem. Don't bother. Those who are clear are self-purifying.

But. If most of the people are talking about you. If everyone is squeezing you, then you should check your behavior. 、

There is such a person in our class, and a few people gossip about her, but she doesn't pay attention to it. And everyone knows who's right and who's wrong. For gossips. They all adopt a contemptuous attitude.

But some people have an indecent style and a very narrow heart, and everyone talks about her, that is, she is wrong. It's not someone else's fault.

Addendum: If someone else framed you, why should you bother with it? If you are still a student, you don't have to worry about this, I have a sister who knows me and told me that when she was in middle school, several girls framed her, slandered her, and used tricks, and she carried them all over, and devoted herself to her own art and study.

After graduating, they parted ways, and everything started again, and now my sister thinks back that the people who framed her at that time were very naïve, and she thinks it's funny when she thinks of their tricks. In fact, it is also thirty years in Hedong, thirty years in Hexi, I don't know how they are doing with the people who framed her, but my sister is very happy, now the popularity is unusually good, no one goes through those old accounts anymore, in the end, my sister ignores those who framed her, even if they are still making tricks, even if they are not tired, others are tired of seeing it, and there are new rumors, who will pay attention to those past things.

Also, upstairs said to fight back, do you think it's realistic? Is it realistic for one person to play against so many people? If she fights back, those people may not be able to create what kind of rumors, you must know that people's words are terrifying!

Ask how old you are, junior high school or high school. Actually, there is no need to care so much! Right! You may feel bad, but think about it, you're going to have to leave campus sooner or later. When you have status and seniority in society. Is it important to look back at those ethereal things?

Actions speak louder than words! Be yourself and let your actions shut their mouths! Chat with your best friends and keep yourself happy! Don't let the conspiracy of those rumor-mongers succeed, remember that impulse is the devil, and don't let those gossips overwhelm your reason!

Gossip is not to be heeded.

But if you hurt your reputation, you should fight back, you don't threaten them to treat you as a sick cat, and now people are bullying good and afraid of evil, so in order to avoid yourself being hurt, you should take action when you should act.

Sue him, yin him two ways.

People are soft and deceived by birds.

Those who are clear are self-purifying, and do not pay attention to what those people say.

Ignore him, and if it's too much, stand up bravely!

1. First of all, show your attitude towards this matter, in the face of rumors, you must firmly believe that rumors stop at the wise, you don't need to care too much, of course, you also need to reflect on whether you have problems according to rumors.

2. Secondly, it is better to explain that the car is better than the leader does not mean anything, everyone's pursuit and values are different, maybe the leader is not interested in the car itself, so the travel can be, and I have a little pursuit of the car, so there will be differences, but my car is obtained through their own efforts, which is enough to promote the evaluation of the Taidanjun.

3. Next, you can reflect on yourself, there are rumors among colleagues, which means that everyone does not know enough about me, and maybe I am not very low-key, so I should communicate more with my colleagues in the future, participate in more collective activities, and lower my posture.

In a word, I am me, not you.

Say that you don't care at all, that's fake, we are not saints, and saints may not do it, after all, it is gossip, if you care too much, maybe what others say is right, but you don't want to accept it, in short, just live your own, don't care too much! My life, my way!

It's not the turn of others to interfere in your own life. No matter what others say, I am the truest version of myself.

Don't care about others, only know yourself.

Go your own way and let others say go.

Finish with facts. Or indifference.

Have your own way for others to say

It is rare for you to have this kind of self-motivated mentality, there are many people who have a good learning environment and do not learn, other people's gossip should be the motivation for your hard work, and when you succeed, they will shut up.

To see or not to see lies in oneself, to care or not to care about oneself, gossip only boring people will disagree with other people's opinions, what is right will listen to opinions, humbly seek advice, sarcasm and ridicule will be directly ignored, after all, there are too many self-righteous people in today's society My world, in my opinion, there is no difference in the perception of others. Because I don't think I'm superior to others It's normal to have low self-esteem, but how to face yourself is very important, and if you want to be recognized, you have to work harder, do you think those gossips have any meaning after success? Instead of having time to care about other people's opinions, it is better to seize the time to do what you should do Everyone will say, whether you can do it or not depends on yourself!

Thank you for the trouble to adopt!

1. Believe in your own judgment and decision-making ability; Second, affirm the value of one's own existence.

Some people always have doubts about their own judgment ability, have difficulty making decisions, or are always shaken after making decisions, because they do not believe in their own decisions and cannot not make decisions, so they are naturally easily influenced by others. The cultivation of one's ability to make judgments and decisions takes time to accumulate and the courage to take risks. If you don't take the risk of believing yourself the first time, you will never have the opportunity to believe in yourself, and you have to take such a risk many times.

On the other hand, you can also learn some methods of judgment and decision-making, such as SWOT analysis commonly used in business, and master some judgment and analysis skills to give yourself more confidence.

There are also some people who have deeper problems, that is, they have doubts about their own value at all, so they constantly need to obtain affirmation of their own value from the evaluation of others about themselves, and naturally listen to the reaction of others. In general, it will be faster to find a psychological counselor to solve the problem. If you are interested, you can also write a list privately to list who you have been valuable to, such as letting your mother experience mother's love and the opportunity to raise children, how many tens of thousands of dollars you make every year for your boss, and the ...... of helping hands you have given to your friends when they are in troubleYou can do all kinds of things, big and small, and gradually accumulate a sense of value, because the value you created in the past will not change much no matter what others say.

In addition, some people sometimes worry that the gossip is due to other objective reasons, such as the gossip reaching the ears of the boss may lead to the failure to be promoted, and the career and money will be greatly affected. At this time, it is not so much about worrying about gossip as it is about worrying about the career and money, so as long as the gossip is another problem in the work to solve-just like the project is not going well, to find a solution, colleague gossip and customers do not like to deal with the same, are a situation that may occur in the work, just consider how to solve the problem, do not need to add too many personal feelings in it.

It doesn't matter, everyone's choice represents the path you decide to take, the ridicule of others is that they don't understand, after all, which successful person has not been ridiculed and hurt, since you choose your own path, you can't turn back, just stride on, live happier than them, after all, sadness and remorse can't change reality, the reality is the indifference of others, live a little happier, such friends around me are not still hacked and live the lottery is enviable, not every girl has a man.

As long as you can afford yourself, why bother with those gossips and be yourself.

Because the people around you don't know the real situation, they only see the surface of things, and they are suspicious of you. Don't care about it, the clear will clear themselves, and the rumors will stop at the wise. After a long time, there will always be a day when the truth will be revealed.

Hello landlord.

This is called human words are terrible, and it is normal to doubt you. Because there are too many rumors, people lose their ability to distinguish.

But it's good no matter what, the clear person will clear himself, and I believe that time will return your innocence.

Ignore him, trust your friends without explanation, and those who don't trust you don't need to explain, I wish you all the best.

Have a good time, find a spiritual pillar or hobbies, be happy every day, others say you, you just listen to the opposite, this day is happy or unhappy, why bother to worry about yourself, sometimes it's not good to think too much. Be confident in yourself! Do more things that make you happy, no one is perfect, some people like you and some people hate you, don't care too much.

There is a firm goal in my heart, a clear dream, and the determination to fight for it.

You will find that all the gossip around you is actually a floating cloud.

Although people are terrible, the single certificate is not afraid of shadows. If you are jealous, you will talk about you, if you are better than others, others will be jealous of you, if you are better than others, others will admire you, since this is the case, then you will continue to work hard to make yourself more outstanding, then others will admire you. I won't be talking about you.

The heart of harming others is indispensable, and the heart of preventing others is indispensable", our speech and behavior, and behavioral norms are often in plain sight, so we should still self-restraint. If there is something missing, there may be rumors, the so-called "people are terrible" refers to such rumors, if the rumors are said a hundred times, it may also become the truth, so there are people who say that they are terrible. Of course, you don't have to worry too much about it.

Hope it helps)

Find someone you like. There is a person you like, and the words of others can no longer be heard.

Be yourself, listen to what others say, but don't take it to heart.

Be yourself and let others say go. Be happy to face each day.

Those who purify themselves do their best and ignore them.

If you don't take it to heart, it's all fart.

I don't want to ignore them, I don't want to ignore them, you see which of those who talk about others will end well.

Pretend not to hear and do your own thing.

If they don't get a response to so many gossips, they will find it boring if they go on, and naturally they won't continue. On the contrary, if you react violently or cringe, they will become even worse, so be calm, you can't regret what you have done, but those are over, and if you like such a boy, you should be dazzled for a while, and your eyes will be brighter in the future.

Invite them to a meal, so that they will definitely restrain themselves in the future.

Girls still have to learn to be reserved, and the important turning point in your life in high school is still to focus on academics.

It's already happening, and it's time to face it. After this incident, you should have also seen that you are just wishful thinking, or use your energy to study, and when you are admitted to a key university, when you look back at your previous events, you will feel that you are really adding to the joke.

There's nothing wrong with liking someone, it's not worth your wait for such a boy, it's not worth your pay, try to forget about those gossips, you can't handle it well, it means that you can't beat yourself. If you want to eliminate rumors, you must be strong and shameful only after you succeed.

Don't worry too much.

Because you can't control other people's mouths.

If they're laughing at you, tell them.

I still dare to write love letters.

I'm sorry, I don't know if you're such a straightforward character.

There is no impermeable wall in the world, even if he doesn't tell others, I tell you an experience, as long as there are two people who know the secret, it is not a secret, it is very likely to spread ten or ten, and it will be easy to spread when the time comes. Besides, if a person really cares about making you ugly, he just wants to say, can you control him, their mouth? Okay, even if what I said is a little irresponsible, but you know no, this is your own life, I admit that I have also suffered, gossip is sometimes really scary, but don't take it too seriously, what others say is someone else's business, they can say whatever they want, you can't control other people's mouths, but you can control your own mood, don't let irrelevant people spoil your mood, become depressed and entangled, this is really not worth it.

I hope you will calm down and think about it.

Little girl, why bother because of others, people, what they are most afraid of is not other people's gossip and negation, but their own denial of themselves, their own lack of confidence in themselves. Which girl doesn't have a spring, not to mention that men are like this, women are always their capital to show off, and his behavior doesn't just let you see what kind of person he is.

This is not to splash cold water on you, it can't be solved, you can see that he is the kind of boy who likes to show you off. As long as he keeps showing off, people will keep knowing. No way, it's already happened.