Separation of the two places, should you plan more for yourself?

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Love him? Don't love him? Thank you.

Guts? Cowardly? Thank you.

Breakup Break up break up.

I think you can find a better one, why should you wronged yourself?

As a woman, everyone dreams of having a perfect and grand wedding, only once in a lifetime, he can't provide you with this, do you think that after getting married, you will be really happy if you are exposed to those firewood, rice, oil and salt, and use these to comfort your feelings? After getting married, it's too late for you to suffer, so it's better to be early in the morning. Look for it after you break up, don't step on two boats, that's not good, it's easy to have disagreements, problems, and if it affects your own reputation, it's not good.

It's better to be together, and it's okay if you don't agree.

If you do the following, you will not have a problem with your relationship.

First, we have three chapters of the law.

You can write the things that each party wants to bind the other party in the form of a memo, and leave one in each person's memo, and the other party will put their names on it, so that he and you are involved in this matter, and everyone will have a thought in their hearts and will respect each other's efforts to do this thing. It's also a little sweet to take it out once in a while.

Second: set the time.

For example, if you have time after six o'clock at night during the day, you can make a voice call after six o'clock, seven o'clock-nine o'clock or eight o'clock-ten o'clock, or make a ** call, or play some small games with microphones. Finally, it is stipulated that everyone should say good night together when they sleep with each other, and if they do not sleep, they must say good night when they sleep.

Third: trust.

Trust is the basis of feelings, we must trust each other and respect each other, don't be suspicious of each other casually, which will make the relationship more and more chaotic, what to confess and confide in each other. You can't force him or her to do something because he or she doesn't trust him/her. It's only going to get worse.

Fourth: Covenant.

Agree on a time every month for everyone to meet, and you can set this event for a certain time on a regular basis. Or make an appointment to go together at a time every month.

Hope the above is helpful to you.

1. Keep in close contact.

Although husbands and wives are separated from each other, they should not lack contact because of the distance, and should maintain close contact and greet each other every day. In this way, the other party can feel that although they are not together, their hearts of love for each other have not changed, and they can make each other feel warm at any time. You can't snub each other because of work or other reasons, which will make both parties cold over time, and sometimes make each other feel dispensable.

So no matter how busy you are, you have to send a message or ** inform.

2. Be able to empathize.

Always consider the problem from the perspective of the other party, the hardships and helplessness of the other party working outside to make money, taking care of the housework at home, taking care of the elderly, children, or working hard and struggling to be together. Be more considerate, less bickering. Always ask for warmth, and pay more attention to each other's body and life.

3. Trust each other.

This is a very important point in the separation of two places, because we are not by the other party's side and will have some doubts in our hearts, but we should trust each other and not forget the original intention of separation. Only sufficient trust and love can sustain this time apart.

4. Create a small surprise once in a while.

Although the two are not together, they should also give each other some surprises, such as holiday gifts and birthday gifts. Now that the network and logistics are so developed, these things are not difficult. These will also be the spices of the relationship between the two parties.

5. Get together as much as possible.

There are many times when the two parties are separated, there are only disadvantages and no benefits, so if it is possible, there is an opportunity to minimize the time of separation or to visit each other as long as the holidays, this is also beneficial, as the old saying goes, "a small farewell is better than a newlywed". Therefore, in order to end the time of separation between the two parties as soon as possible, it is necessary to work hard.

This age is not suitable for long-term separation, otherwise the relationship will become weaker and weaker, and I am afraid that someone will take advantage of the situation, and it is still okay to occasionally separate from each other, and you can persuade him to find a job in the nearest place.

I think it should be supported, men have ideas, pursuits, should be supported, not bound, this can be at the same level as men, if he wants to go, you can't be tethered!

Separation is when the spouses live separately in two places. Common evidence that can prove the separation of husband and wife: the lease contract of the house where one party lives outside the home; The written agreement on separation of husband and wife signed by both parties must be in writing, and the oral agreement must be recognized by the other party; Letters, e-mails, etc., exchanged between the two parties can prove the fact that the two parties are not in harmony and separate; Witnesses are also acceptable, such as friends or relatives who both parties know.

Legal basis: Article 1079 of the Civil Code, which came into effect in 2021.

Where one of the spouses requests a divorce, the relevant organizations may conduct mediation or directly file a divorce lawsuit with the people's court. People's courts hearing divorce cases shall conduct mediation; If the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails, the divorce shall be granted. In the following cases:

1. If mediation fails, a divorce shall be granted

1) bigamy or cohabitation with another person;

2) Committing domestic violence or abusing or abandoning family members;

3) Having bad habits such as gambling and drug addiction that they have repeatedly taught and not changing;

4) Separated for two years due to emotional discord;

5) Other circumstances that lead to the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife.

Where one party is declared missing and the other party initiates divorce proceedings, the divorce shall be granted. Where, after a people's court has ruled that divorce is not permitted, the parties have been separated for one year, and one party initiates divorce proceedings again, the divorce shall be granted.

Don't forget, there are still some people in this world, their love is separated by thousands of mountains and rivers, and they are willing to bear the suffering that others do not understand, because they know that they have the happiness they want thousands of miles away, and they can't accompany each other to guess and go shopping, so they have to save the gifts again and again, a box full of them, they can't do anything when the other party is sad, maybe they can only hold ** in their hands and try to listen to each other's breathing and voice.

They want to be romantic, maybe they can only draw the shape of love with their hands in **, when they need warmth, maybe they can only look at the text messages of the past, hug themselves tightly at night, they can't taste the taste of each other's cooking, but as long as they see him, her smiling face will follow with a silly filial piety smile.

They make each other angry, they can't get through, maybe they can only look at the sky, hate themselves, hate themselves, hate themselves, they can also cry, but they can make trouble, they can be coquettish unscrupulously.

But when I am most afraid of crying and coquettishness, the ** signal is suddenly cut off.

But this damn love!

There are still so many people who are moths to the flames!

We hold on to love and can be very loyal.

Will often call** or text.