I ran away from my boyfriend, and now I m sad, what should I do

Updated on psychology 2024-07-21
24 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    You want to "give up" because you want to make it up to him. Beforehand, you didn't grasp the degree of willfulness. These two manifestations show that you have this kind of personality, and it will also show that similar things will happen in the future, and your willfulness is not wrong, but this is a matter of two people, and if the other person can't adapt to your personality, it won't go long (but not necessarily).

    In this matter, even if you reconcile, you are very passive.

    My experience: you are his lover, you are an equal relationship, just be sincere and humble. The more you plead with him, the more he looks down on you and feels that you really owe him (it's human psychology). It's better to see him again as if nothing happened, and make each other happier

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Maybe he's still mad at you!

    Since he loves you very much, he won't give up on you so easily. You also know that your willfulness is not good, so you should apologize to him, after all, it is your fault!

    When he is angry, maybe it will be fine.

    I hope you succeed.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    To be honest, the relationship that was redeemed again may not be as harmonious as it used to be.

    If you really want to redeem it, talk to him well, explain your own thoughts sincerely, tell him that it is definitely not reluctant, it is only when you leave him that you find out that you love him very much, it is that you want to spend your life with him, and so on.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    This kind of thing is generally not easy to solve

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Then impress him with sincerity.

    If he still loves you, he will definitely be reconciled.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If you repair a broken mirror, you can't fix it back to its original appearance. Let it go.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Let him know what you mean.

    See your sincerity.

    Do something for him.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Girls should be broad-minded, don't fight to the death because of a little thing. It's immature to get angry with your boyfriend.

    Feelings are two-way, sometimes you have to think about whether you have done something wrong, instead of being wronged and attacking your boyfriend, so that you will not get the ideal growth, but will gradually become a resentful woman, and the gains outweigh the losses.

    1. Ignore your boyfriend for now. If the other person is the cause of your anger, then ignore the other person first, so that the other person can know that he is wrong and it is easy to correct it, which is very crucial. Therefore, when your boyfriend makes himself angry, you must know how to ignore him until he admits his mistake.

    If you cherish this relationship very much, don't forgive him too easily, let him reflect on it himself, so that it can be conducive to mutual communication.

    2. Don't be too sad. If your boyfriend makes herself unhappy, of course she will be very disappointed in her heart, and it is normal for her to be sad. But you shouldn't be too sad, otherwise it's easy to let yourself have negative emotions, which is quite bad for yourself, you must know how to adjust your emotions and make yourself better.

    Many girls are prone to excessive sadness when they are angry, which is very bad for the body, and they must control their emotions reasonably.

    3. Distract yourself. It's also common for boys to make girls angry, and it's also common for some conflicts to occur if they don't understand each other very well. Therefore, when the other party makes you unhappy, you should shift your attention in time and don't keep thinking about it, otherwise you will make yourself very sad.

    You can play with your mobile phone, watch movies, listen to songs, etc., and use other ways to vent your anger, so that you can live a better life.

    4. Wait for the other party to take the initiative to admit their mistakes. When your boyfriend does something wrong and makes you very sad and sad, then don't forgive the other party easily, you should let the other party take the initiative to admit your mistakes, so that you can make your relationship with the other party better, which is very important. Don't forgive easily, unless the other party really knows that they are wrong, so that the future life will be better.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    <> this is a common problem. It is normal for men to pursue women. But among the two people who determine the relationship, it is important to understand and support each other. When he was angry, he lowered his body and posture and coaxed back. Usually do it, be moderate, other people and men coax you really think he is wrong.

    Be a smart person, never put your temper above the relationship between two people, and make him tired, which is enough for you.

    Don't be tsundere. The differences between two people cannot always be resolved by the compromise of one party alone.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Don't worry, if he really loves you, then he will definitely come back himself. Because a boyfriend who really loves you will never be really angry with you. If he is really angry and will never come to you again, it can only mean that he does not love you enough at all.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If it is caused by your own willfulness, then apologize, there is no right or wrong in love. If two people can come together, they must cherish it.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Coax back, look at your skills.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    As a man, it is very clear to tell you that you admit your mistakes first! Then explain to him why you're angry! As long as it's not for betrayal and distraction, he will forgive you!

    But I have to tell you, if you really love him, please be nice to him! I'm about to go the way of your boyfriend, but my shes cheated on me deeply! Betrayed me!

    Hope it helps!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I've been with my girlfriend for 10 years, and I'm going to show you how:

    1.Let go of your so-called pride - there is no difference between dignity and inferiority in love, okay?

    2.Pick up your courage -- think about the courage when he chased you or when you chased him, compared to the present.

    3.Pick up your ** and say to him I love you, I miss you, I was wrong - When he comes back, he will love you more and spoil you more, you know? This is called a means, and it is also a right that belongs to you women!

    4.Don't think about nothing, you can't solve the problem, you have to do it! And that's not a problem for you!

    6.Don't ask me questions – just do it!

    7.I wish you all happiness and completeness!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Tears exist to prove that grief is not an illusion.

    Pet and love are two different things, pet can do without communication, while love cannot.

    Hope for the best, do your best, and prepare for the worst.

    If ......If he has the heart to let go, you give up, at least, he thinks that he is not suitable for you, he can't be happier than you, and you can't afford to make money, tsundere is okay, but it's a three-dimensional world here, just pay attention, love must be honest, and there is no room for falsehood.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    The eldest lady has such a strong temper, she can tolerate you, it means that he is good, losing him is your loss, no one is sure about the future, do you dare to guarantee that your next boyfriend can also tolerate you like this? By the way, no man is obliged to accommodate you for the rest of your life.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Then you regret it now! I still want to give up! Give yourself the answer! If you regret it, bow your head and apologize, promise that you will change it in the future, and make some practical actions, if it is to give up, then you can do it.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    As long as we can still be together! ......What about lowering your head? Don't give up the happiness of this life because of a little face, give up on such a small thing, a person is not worth it....I hope you can be happy....

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I don't understand what kind of animal a woman is....Isn't it enough to be reasonable? Will there be so many more things? If you really love him, if you understand him, he will let go of your so-called pride, because without him getting used to you and spoiling you, you have nothing...

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    A cake is broken. It doesn't mean it's all bad. If you can't help it, let him come back.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Your boyfriend is really like me, I guess he must be a loving idealist.

    Let me tell you, it's not that you don't make much money because your boyfriend isn't capable enough, it's because you don't want to! He must have thought that love is the whole of life, the whole of it! It's important to be with you! Nothing else matters.

    If you identify with these or love him, find a way to keep him.

    The above is my guess, you can briefly communicate with him, if he is really an idealist of love, I am sure that he will be quite good to you.

    In addition, the idealist of love will also give up a certain relationship, once it is firm, it will be difficult to come back.

    It's not a long time, so find him.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It shows that he is desperate for you this time. It's not easy for a man to turn back in despair.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It's impossible not to know even a little bit of whereabouts! It's good to take the initiative to find him, what is there to worry about!

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    The bitter fruit of your own planting, you taste it yourself....

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