My boyfriend is too childish, what should I do if I always want you to coax me

Girl, you don't have a few years to wait for someone, you want to fall in love, not find a son, you want to wait for him to grow up and mature, and before you wait until then, it's already a thing. In the final analysis, it still depends on whether your own feelings are good or not, whether it is for the present or the future, what is the plan, don't waste a lot of time on love, take time out appropriately to make yourself excellent, don't work hard, even if you meet excellent people, you can't keep it, only you yourself have become excellent, the vision is different, and the people you choose are naturally different.

Don't they all say that love is two people getting better together, you can't be making progress and he is standing still, sooner or later you will leave him one day. You talk to him openly and honestly, and if he can realize and be willing to improve is the last thing, if it's something else, well, follow your heart.

How long have you been together, your attitude towards each other, in fact, some of his practices are not necessarily changed when he is not childish. Think about the things he's done that makes you feel wronged. Maybe it won't change in the future, if it's particularly wronged, forget it, the girl's youth is fleeting, and I really can't afford to wait for a few years.

My ex-boyfriend is like this, he is very childish, and the jokes he usually sees on the Internet are our daily life, and he is happy to ...... every dayAfter a long time, I feel it, no matter how interesting the joke is, it becomes insensitive, and I don't look forward to the days together so much at first, and I will be very tired after a little longer. Maybe it's because of my personality, but I know that he loves me very much, but it's really naïve. It's cute to be naïve from time to time, and it's sad to be naïve all the time.

Being with a boyfriend is not like raising a child, you have watched him grow up since childhood, you can accept the process of him from naivety to maturity, boyfriend and girlfriend are two strangers who have nothing to do with each other, because love comes together, they are similar in age and have similar interests, support each other and encourage each other, you can't completely rely on a certain person, you can't play the role of a sister.

My boyfriend too, exactly the same. Even when I asked for reconciliation after a breakup, he tugged at my sleeve and asked me if I was okay...There is no promise yet. Because it's really tiring.

He said he would change, try not to focus on the little things, not to be cold and violent, and deliberately angry with me. Let's look at his performance and how much I like him.

Men are like this sometimes, but you also have to be considerate of him, after all, men are not easy, you can communicate more with your boyfriend and tell him not to be so naïve, otherwise you will break up sooner or later.

Give a candy for your baby to eat.

Then forget it, if you change a boy, he will be a mom boy.

and give me a piece of food that I am willing to eat and deliver it to my house. If we quarrel face-to-face, he will hold me and hold you, no matter how I beat him and scold him, he won't let go of me.

It is impossible to avoid being annoyed by your boyfriend during a relationship, because girls have a more delicate heart, while boys are more nervous, so my boyfriend will make me angry inadvertently, every time he doesn't know what I'm angry at**, I will be more angry and quarrel with him, he is laughing on the side, just like feeling very helpless and hugging me, saying that I ** made you angry again, can't I change it? Then he began to take out a notebook and write down everything I said. It made me laugh and I forgave him, because he always memorized what I said so carefully that he would never make those mistakes in the future.

Sometimes when I'm angry that we have a cold war, and he can't put down his grip to coax me, he will order some of my favorite food on MeituanThen when the delivery man knocked on the door, I went to open the door, only to find that it was the takeaway he ordered, so I took the initiative to talk to him. Therefore, when a boy makes a girl angry, you must coax carefully, don't argue about a right or wrong quarrel, girl, you can coax her, and the more you don't coax her, the more angry she will be.

If you can't coax a girl, be sure to buy her food that she is willing to eat, so that she will be happy and forgive you. I remember another time when my boyfriend made me angry, hit me **, and kept making me laugh with a grimace, and I also wanted to hold back my laughter at that time, but a person you love very much made a grimace at you in front of the screen, and I believe that no one would not laugh, but afterwards I was also reflecting on my own mistakes, such as not being so petty, and the relationship is a joint management of both parties.

He would buy a gift and then come to me to apologize because he would only do this one thing.

Buy a bag or lipstick, straight men have a special aesthetic, but I eat this set, and I usually lose my anger when I see something.

If my boyfriend me off, he'll go buy me gifts, buy me what I want, and coax me with lipstick.

Reasoning with you shows that he must be someone who loves you, and always makes boys coax girls and they will be annoyed. What are the signs of impatience? That is to let go of all criteria for judging right and wrong, to set aside all moral or moral benchmarks, to give up all objective environmental factors that need to be taken into account, and to end the dispute between you in the simplest and most convenient way.

Whether he believes you are wise and have a mind or not, one thing is for sure, many people have been perfunctory when he coaxes you. It's like cheating on an exam, focusing only on grades and giving up the nourishment of knowledge. This kind of "coaxing" is sometimes worse than cheating.

After all, you don't need **, and you need to cheat. If he just blindly coaxes you, then he must just feel that he doesn't want to mess with you anymore, just coax you casually. If you are a person who likes to be vexatious, then your boyfriend is willing to reason with you and show that he is indeed a good boy.

Cherish the boy who tolerates you and reasoned with you. In fact, ask yourself, a lot of girls are in the second case. I communicated with a female friend about this before, and she said:

Most of the time when I'm angry is that I did something wrong, I know it, but I just want him to coax me and apologize. Those girls are angry and only know that the people who coax are not very sincere people, and the people who are willing to reason with you are sincere people. But those who speak clumsily but always show their love for you with their actions, are true love.

Many girls feel that if the other person does not know how to be romantic, he will not blame himself when he is sad, he must not love himself. But in reality, everyone thinks about it from another angle. If the boy apologizes for every mistake he makes and marries you, do you think that every time they compromise, they are sincere and sincere in the end, love is the giving of both parties, don't always think about letting him coax you, one day he will get bored too.

First of all: you said that he was small there, and this matter is very serious! The size is relative, they are all compared, you say he is "small", it means that you have seen a bigger one, he will think about how many big you have seen, and when you have seen ......

As for how to coax, you should do it according to his angry performance! And do it according to his hobby! Just do what you like!

hurt his self-esteem, I don't know if it's a fact or a joke, he must care a lot, then let him feel it back where he cares.

You're hurting his self-esteem.

The next time you do something, you just say it's really big, it's really big, and let him get back his self-esteem.

It's better not to say hee-hee in this one.