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Now the third week is not over yet, don't be so anxious, don't want to blend in too deliberately, you will only be too much, you can go with the flow, first adjust your mentality, you can slowly build a good relationship with the surroundings, or occasionally communicate with the people around you, if you are not at the same table, you can also chat with the front, this is also a rare and valuable opportunity, soon your class should change seats. When I was in high school, from a rural area to a key high school, most of my classmates were from the urban area, and I felt deeply inferior, but in fact, when the mentality was correct, everything was nothing. Don't think too much about what you don't have, take the initiative to play with everyone, the dormitory classmates are easier to communicate with, and don't think too much about the occasional joke.
Then there is your study, you must first rest well, secondly, don't be in a daze in class, if you find yourself distracted, it's best not to let yourself wander, you have to follow the teacher's train of thought, if you don't understand, you must ask your classmates or teachers in time, this is an eternal theorem. If you can't memorize the text, you can just read it paragraph by paragraph, and you can think about it when you take a shower.
Overcoming your discomfort, studying hard, and not having too much free time is the best way.
If you are really uncomfortable, you can also go to the playground after the evening self-study to vent. On the weekend, I beat my junior high school classmates and cry, there is nothing to be ashamed of.
The most important thing is to enrich yourself.
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We also lived in the dormitory at the beginning, and some of the students lived in mixed dormitories with other classes, but they also played very well, it doesn't matter, everyone is a classmate, what are you afraid of, after all, in a dormitory, you have to get along for a long time, or if you can't do it, you can leave the dormitory.
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Comrades, fighting alone will only lead to death in the end, and if you want to win, you must find a way to penetrate into the enemy and mingle with them.
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Try to blend in with them as much as possible when they speak, and slowly it will get better.
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Try to transfer to the dormitory of your own class, in fact, when you shine yourself, people will notice you, for example, if your grades are very good, everyone will know about you, if the dormitory relationship is good. If you have the conditions, have a meal with your classmates in the dormitory, communicate with everyone, find a classmate with a common language in the dormitory, have more contact, there is no need for no one to like you, there are people who are willing to make friends with you The friendship in high school is also very precious, as the saying goes, people don't offend me, I don't offend people, and you can grasp it yourself.
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Calm down, there's nothing wrong with being alone, loneliness makes you stronger .
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Make more friends, interact with friends often, and take the initiative to talk.
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Sign up for an online course, it will definitely help you.
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I also feel very old-fashioned, I'm in my third year of high school, what about you.
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I'll tell you something! Hope it helps!
When you first come to school, everyone must be very unfamiliar with you, but everyone lives in school together, their homes are in other places, everyone is the same age, talk to them when they are fine, you have to communicate with them, do you know each other only through communication, you can say anything, they are all human, there are no monsters, don't be afraid, you can't open it yourself, for example, you feel that there is nothing to say, you can find a "neighbor" to ask if you miss home? What should I do if I feel homesick!
If you don't understand the teacher's lesson, you can take your time, and learning is not in a hurry! There's no need to rush! Be a little free! A person who does not study well in school has to live if he studies well or not! Taking your time and being in a hurry won't solve the problem!
Hope it helps!
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I always felt that going to school in a bad high school was a painful experience.
I had such an experience, but I persevered and insisted on sticking to my beliefs, studying hard, becoming a leader here, and getting into university with excellent grades.
Remember to stick to what you believe in, choose the best class in this school, and become the leader here. This kind of school will generally focus on what you are learning in school, but no matter which one you are, I hope you don't be afraid of people's opinions and just study hard.
Don't let a bad high school judge your life, even in a very bad high school, it doesn't mean that your future is hopeless, and there are more and more examples of poor high school admission to good universities.
The first point is to listen carefully in class. It may be a bit difficult at first, but as soon as you follow the teacher slowly, it's actually very simple. The reason why you can't listen to class is because you don't understand, and then you don't want to listen if you don't understand, which leads to a vicious circle.
This is the most important thing, no matter what method you take, you must do it, if you don't listen to the class, how can you learn? Self-taught? If you can succeed in self-study, you won't fail the exam.
The second point is to do your homework by yourself. Homework is the process of consolidating memory, after all, you can't remember it after listening to it in class, but when you use it when you do homework, you will deepen some impressions. This is also a step-by-step process, and you will find that you will not do it at all in the early stage, and if you give up at this time, you will be finished.
Ask your classmates or teachers, here is the first recommendation to ask the teacher, and try to find the same sex who is good at learning. When it comes to the later stage of the homework, you basically don't have to worry, it's fast to do and the accuracy rate is high, so be a big guy with peace of mind.
The third point, the teacher asks to memorize the things honestly, especially the liberal arts, this point will take a lot of time, but there is no hurry, after all, it is a long-term thing, you can wait for the previous one to do almost before starting, after all, people's energy is limited. When you're comfortable with your science homework, you'll have plenty of time to endorse it.
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