30 years old, female, nothing and nothing, what should I do?

Updated on society 2024-07-27
31 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    1 30 years old for women, should be considered a lot of small, now should be their own marriage planning, such as what kind of person you want to find, what conditions, and your own match, in the provincial capital or back to the hometown county, etc., it is necessary to set a goal for yourself, otherwise like a headless fly, when is it a head.

    2 It's best to find a relatively stable job. Or do some technical work in recent years, which is also a learning process for yourself.

    3. Make a reasonable plan for your life, and never blindly make money, only when the situation of life is opened, life can be rushed. Even if you go back to the county seat, earn a little less, and have a relatively stable job, it is good for lesbians. If you are stable, your life will be settled, and your mood will be better, otherwise you will be entangled.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Let's do it first! Earning less is spending less. You didn't have enough good fortune in your last life.

    So it's harder to make money! Probably. Or the previous time.

    Earn more money. Spent again. This is too.

    Yourself sometimes. We must learn to cherish blessings. Accumulate more yin virtue.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    If it were me, I would go back to accompany my parents, because time waits for no one, don't let yourself regret it, you can take care of your parents in many ways after you go back, not just money, chat with them, wash your face and rub your shoulders, take them out for a walk, even if you don't buy anything, they will be very happy, because your sister is still young, she is even more unlikely to take on family responsibilities, you take the lead yourself, and at the same time talk to your sister about the family situation, she also has to learn to be sensible and grow, and then find a job at home, Slowly do the thing of thinking about raising wages again, as for the other half, consider the local one, and it is not recommended to marry far away.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Or find a job to do first, let yourself have a spiritual sustenance, in the slow work, you will find that you actually have a strong ability to work, let your life slowly enriched, happy.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    As long as you have a healthy body, you are wealth. A 30-year-old girl. You get a boyfriend.

    Married. After getting married, I will take care of the family. Take care of the children.

    That's fine. Live a peaceful and stable life. Wait until the child is older.

    You can go out to work again. When the child is young, he concentrates on taking care of the child at home. That's a big success.

    Current. Have a boyfriend. Get married and have children.

    Start enriching. Family life.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    After reading your description, I think you are really difficult, as for how to choose? You can listen to the opinions of your parents, if they are willing to let you go to the scene to guard them, I think you should also make such a choice, after all, parents are getting older and older, and they need their children more and more by their side, find a job in the county, no matter how much you earn, just find a stable job, at least guard your parents, so that everyone is quieter, you are also 30 years old, find someone you like and like you, there is someone to help you in the future, and life will get better and better.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    In this case, it is best for you to learn a craft, you can learn to eat, snack or cook, the cost is low and you can start your own business, and the benefits will definitely be much better than now.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If you haven't met the person you can marry at the age of 30, then put your mind on work. While the parents are not really old. It is advisable to hurry.

    Let's go to the big city! The salary in the big city will be higher, so you can save some money and you can afford to do something at home. Otherwise, you keep going like this.

    Not to mention how the family is, you can't even take care of yourself.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    30 years old, like you said, nothing. You are Wu Cheng, and you have nothing. Especially women.

    At the age of 30, I haven't even married off, so there's really a problem. That is to say, the problem I am facing now is that I have no money, no house, no income, no marriage, no boyfriend, nothing. Some are already old parents, and there is a sister who needs you to pay for it.

    People say that women don't worry about getting married. Especially after walking out of the small mountain village, the women don't quarrel. If you can't get married, it means that your own conditions are indeed a little too poor.

    If you want to change yourself, you have to work hard to improve yourself. It's a little late, but you should do it. Like your current job, in addition to sticking to your work and doing your essence well, you also have to study and work hard to improve yourself in your spare time.

    Don't give up on yourself in all aspects and set yourself a goal. When you become excellent one day, what you are missing, what you hope for, will naturally come.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If this is the case, you have to find a class to go to school, and you can't stand still, looking at the mountain and the mountain. It's the best thing to do.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Everyone is about the same, no extraordinary talent, ordinary, not much money to support the family, difficult to support yourself, you can make do, what can be done, no way, back to the hometown is basically to eat and live with your parents, and many people talk about it behind your back as gnawing the old leftover girl, etc., and the parents' urging to marry, and then just find someone who is not annoying to marry and then have children, it is also a complete life in some people's mouths, the main thing is your thoughts, think clearly in all aspects, don't regret it,

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Financial independence is the capital you can live on, and now you can support yourself. You look beyond the horizon and do something to improve your abilities, and strive to take your career to the next level and get a better income so that you can take care of your parents in the future. Don't look down on yourself too much, believe that you have great potential and ability, and be brave enough to move forward.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It doesn't matter if a woman is 30 years old, as long as there is an independent and stable economy, it is not a failure, and again, whether men and women are the most important or married, as long as a woman marries well, she will be very happy, this era has more choices as long as it is not too contrasting, now the transportation is developed, and the reasonable arrangement of time will be with the family, not necessarily go home, you can also let the family come to their own place for leisure.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Now you only have to find a boyfriend to marry, have children for him, and form a happy family, you can contribute to the family, and you can live happily at the same time.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Thirty years in Hedong and thirty years in Hexi, you can start learning a craft now, if your parents are old, then you should go back to your parents to find a job, and at the same time learn some crafts, and slowly your life will get better.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    30 years old. At the age of 30, you have nothing to achieve and nothing to have, if you are strong or do not know, then you should work hard, and at the age of 30, you are in the prime of your youth. We must break out of the world. But if you know, there's no way around it.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    You can try to change your life on the Internet, don't go to work, only in the Internet can you break through, work the Internet, there are many Internet people, basically all go online, getting traffic or communication is better than working, you have to find a way to get out.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    A 30-year-old woman can earn more than 5,000 yuan a month, and being able to have a stable job in her own company is a success, so she should use an appreciative eye to understand and observe the surrounding situation.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    First of all, you have to have a stable job, a stable economy, the income is not high, you have to rely on your own frugality, you must let your parents have something to support, if you can find your other half, both sides work together, will change your life,

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    At 30 years old, nothing has been accomplished, nothing has been left. You have to accept your heart. Do everything seriously.

    If you have the opportunity to turn yourself around, then you must seize this opportunity. Before the opportunity comes, then you have to be strong. Learn more.

    Don't give up on yourself just because you feel a little older.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    At this age, why don't you find someone to marry? Do you have to work hard to make a career out of yourself? Hurry up, no matter how late it is, you will become an elderly mother, it will be difficult to give birth to a child, get married and have children, just teach your husband and children at home, make time for your husband to work hard, and live a stable life!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    A 30-year-old woman, it is already time to talk about marriage, nothing is terrible, the key depends on yourself, don't be discouraged, find a suitable job according to your preferences, believe that you have a positive attitude to face life, everything will be fine!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I'm also 30, male, my income is also unstable, but it's about twice as high as you, 50w loan plus more than 10w loan, no car, house, wife and children. How to put it, everyone has their own life trajectory. Now I also find that in addition to my classmates who go to school, it is difficult to make friends when I go out of society, because this is a society of interests, and even if people in society become friends, they have interests.

    It is recommended that you can verify now, let yourself be worth money first, you can consider a blind date at your age, find a slightly better family background, you really like each other, and the other party really likes you (of course, it is difficult to meet the two conditions, but if you choose one of the two, it is recommended that you choose the other party who really likes you, so that the success rate is high).

    It's been a decade or two since your parents got their affair, so your main task now is to stress yourself out and make yourself worth a little more.

    As a lesson learned from people who have been away for many years, it is recommended that you still find a job in a place with a higher salary that is a little closer to your hometown, after all, when you become a family and have children, you have to think about taking care of your parents and children going to school in the future, which is very convenient.

    It's not easy to type, if you agree, I hope you can mine, thank you.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    With your current situation, I think your first consideration should be that you need to find your Prince Charming, so that two people can live together in a prosperous and lively life, and you will have someone to rely on and discuss. Earning money is not the most important thing for you at the moment, the important thing is to find your significant other as soon as possible.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If you have a job and a stable income, how can you achieve nothing? It's just that the family conditions are average, you are already 30 years old, you have not yet started a family, you are not small, you have to consider your lifelong events, I hope you can find the person you like to take on this responsibility with you.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    What should I do if a 30-year-old woman has nothing to do and has nothing? At this time, you can't be depressed, you must cheer up and do something, even if you go to work to earn some wages and support your family, it is your success, you must have a motivated heart and an optimistic attitude.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Find someone who loves you to marry, and everything will be there. First reflect on why you have achieved nothing, have nothing, find the result, you will understand the improvement, tomorrow is a sunny day, don't be discouraged, start cheering up again from the age of 30, a happy tomorrow belongs to you.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Then work hard, start with the work in hand, and slowly look for opportunities to seek development.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Personally, I suggest that you go home, because you are no longer suitable to go to a big city to work hard.

    According to the situation you described, you are not suitable to go to the big city to start a business, you can choose to go back to your own small county town to start a business, or find a stable job.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    A 30-year-old should do a few important things in life in order to "turn the tide of danger".

    The first is to solve your own lifelong events. 30 If nothing is accomplished, it means that there is no object yet, and the most important thing at this time is to quickly find a suitable object and then work together. The so-called "outside must first settle inside" (although it is not very appropriate here, but it is very vivid), only by solving their own internal contradictions, can they work hard outside wholeheartedly, and complete their lifelong events are enough.

    The second is to make a life plan for your future. "If you don't prepare, you will be wasted", 30 If you don't achieve anything, you should reflect on what you have done before, and then calmly and carefully plan your future, set yourself a feasible and achievable specific goal, and then go all out to implement it and stick to the end. In this way, it is possible to succeed, not to waste your precious time, to make a difference in the most precious period of your life, and to realize the ideal in your heart.

    So, you might as well make a life plan for yourself, it's really important.

    The third is to be a mature person. Once you are not mature enough, it means that many things you do in life, in the workplace, and in society have no meaning in life, and what you do is a failure, and you are doomed to achieve nothing. Therefore, you must make a radical change now, to make yourself have a correct mentality, to do things steadily, to think mature and thoughtful, to make yourself mature, to become a person who can take responsibility, an individual with an independent personality, and then you will make a breakthrough in dealing with people, which is the sign of your true maturity.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Summary. First of all, we need to adjust our mentality and face the difficulties very positively, not all 30-year-olds have already started a family. There are many celebrities in history who are not accomplished at a young age, and many are late bloomers.

    Set a good goal, of course, you can't set a goal blindly, where your ability can reach, whether it is learning, or to prepare for the future big plan, force yourself to complete. Life has always been a marathon, those who sprint at the beginning are not necessarily the final champions, continue to accumulate themselves, and believe that there will be a day when it will run.

    People who are almost 30 years old still have nothing to do, what should I do?

    First of all, we need to adjust our mentality and face the difficulties very positively, not all 30-year-olds have already started a family. There are many celebrities in history who are not accomplished at a young age, and many are late bloomers.

    Set a good goal, of course, you can't set a goal blindly, where your ability can reach, whether it is learning, or to prepare for the future big plan, force yourself to complete. Life has always been a marathon, those who sprint at the beginning are not necessarily the final champions, continue to accumulate themselves, and believe that there will be a day when it will run.

    I have no education, no background, poor family conditions, I don't know how to change, I really want to meet a noble person to help, and I have a lot of work, it depends on whether you are willing to go. Settle down, find a job to accumulate experience first, and discover what you want to do and what you want to do in the process of working. Difficulties are not without difficulty, but there must be an optimistic attitude.

    Don't talk about family background, everyone is an ordinary person, and the most important thing is to rely on yourself. Because our parents will leave us one day and grow up quickly.

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