A little confused, he was always confused, confused

Judging by your description, your last relationship is over, right? You now have a crush on "him" and have a bit of a secret feeling, which is a normal phenomenon, and the relationship between a man and a woman has to go through this stage. I guess your confusion is not about the relationship itself, but about how to grasp the relationship, right?

Here are some suggestions for you::

One is about the degree. From friends in general to romance, dating alone is a sign, and until then, just stay in the way you are. Girls are generally reserved, and even if you have this feeling, you won't express it easily, and the other party seems to have it but doesn't say it, and you will feel bottomless in your heart.

It doesn't matter, you don't shy away from having a good impression of him, but the expression must be subtle.

The second is how to make him take the initiative. The best way to get the man to take the initiative is to make him feel that you are good enough. Playing ball together, eating together, or even playing with a group of other people, these are all opportunities to show you, and when people talk about something, your speech can help him judge what kind of person you are.

The most lethal thing for girls to boys is: loyalty and filial piety. Loyalty here refers to the loyalty of husband and wife, filial piety refers to filial piety to the old man (filial piety to the old man in his own family), in addition, when appropriate, it is empathetic to be able to consider the problem from the perspective of others.

If you show these aspects, if the other party really has a good impression of you, he will definitely take the initiative to date you, and no man will miss such a good girl.

Oh, you like him!

It's normal for a person to like another person after a long time of getting along, hee-hee, you're a girl, right, look at the male characters used above, he can also play ball, yes, so you still have common interests and hobbies, hee-hee.

Work hard, if you like it, chase it Don't be embarrassed in times like this Girls take the initiative a lot As long as they look good, they have to grasp it because if they miss the opportunity, they won't have it again.

But one thing to mention, is that you can't mix friendship with love, or if you're just worshipping him, then it's better not to break your friendship.

If it does, then you won't even have a chance to be friends.

Fate still depends on time to prove, when you are quiet, think about it seriously, and there are many good things.

Boredom and role positioning.

I don't think it's accurate to say that there is a period of boredom at work. First of all, boredom at work is related to psychological expectations. When a person's dream is put into reality too much contrast, or not at all what is imagined, it is easy to have a sense of fatigue, with the concept of psychology, this is caused by "role blur", and the role positioning is not accurate.

Secondly, the ability to adapt to the profession is not strong, and it will also be tired, especially those stressful and challenging occupations, and the psychological pressure caused to people is huge. When achieving career goals is always very difficult, or even impossible, people get bored, even in the work they love. It's like if a person is always jumping to get something, then he will easily get tired.

Another situation is that the work is too easy. In other words, it is easy to get bored when the demands of the work are far less than the ability to perform, because people in such situations can do it with ease, and they will see the work as a simple and boring repetition.

So, even if you do the job you like, don't fantasize too much about it, and don't get hurt when you do it.

Hey, tell me about my experience.

At that time, I was also admitted to a major I didn't like and wanted to repeat Zheng Shou, but the school was still unsatisfactory, and my family firmly opposed me to tutoring for another year. Later, I didn't feel bored studying anything in college, so I wanted to drop out. The family talked about it and persuaded it, but I didn't have much interest in college anymore.

I didn't study well either, and I hung up a lot of subjects.

It wasn't until my junior year that I knew that I couldn't graduate from the department, and I thought I was really sorry for my family, and then I started to study hard. In fact, if you really get into it, a lot of things will still fascinate you, even if you didn't like it before. So by the time I graduated, I was all gone.

Now I have been promoted to a professional position, but because of my poor foundation, I feel that it is still very difficult to develop, and I regret it a lot.

1. Indulgence in sophomore year.

Many things are not as difficult as you think, don't make excuses for yourself, devote yourself wholeheartedly, and you will find unexpected gains. College tuition is so expensive, it's a pity to waste it, but it's a pity that that time is not wasted.

Maybe you think I'm just trying to persuade you, but your own destiny is really only in your own hands, and if you can't wake up, others won't be able to help you.

Don't ruin the past, or think about what you plan to do in the future... You should now clear up your confusion, make a study plan, work hard, and learn more useful things besides studying, which is the premise that you don't want to study. , it is best for you to be interested in Zen yourself and useful in the future

A person who is already serious about pickpocketing, and his efforts are not enough, then he needs to find out if he is heading in the right direction, and it is impossible for you to make the chick fly. So now you should find your strengths and weaknesses, recognize yourself, what you can do, and what you like or judge to do. The profession is dead and the person is alive, you don't necessarily have to do computer work in the future, develop other advantages, remember that the major is only the foundation, and the advantage is the only magic weapon that determines your success, and what you have to do now is how to maintain the advantage, develop the advantage, and create the advantage 1