A little confused, can anyone help me think about it, give me one? Alas...

Well, is it necessary to be so careful? You treat her as a friend, treat her well, and she'll know.

I always believe in the saying: if she doesn't know that you are good to her, it is because you are not good enough for her.

I think you're making a fuss!! I'll just talk about iced tea!! She didn't give you her iced tea at first, it may be a habit of hers (she doesn't want others to drink the drinks she has drunk, or she doesn't want others to eat the things she has eaten), which may be due to her personality (because I also have such a personality, I don't like others to drink what I have drunk, I would rather pay for it myself to buy new drinks for others, and I really don't want others to drink what I have drunk, personality problems)!!

You said that she gave other classmates her iced tea in the afternoon, which shows that she felt guilty for not giving you her iced tea at noon today, so when other classmates asked her for tea again, she readily accepted it (she just didn't want to hurt her relationship with other classmates because of tea)!!

The above is a personal opinion, not necessarily all right, only for reference!

You can't tell her mentality from the story you said, but you can think on the bright side, she pays more attention to her image in front of unfamiliar people, so she didn't like others to drink her own iced tea and gave it to others. It is precisely because I have no sense of distance from you that I treat you with a real face.

You can be friends, but not just ordinary friends, you can't expect too much from her, you can't position her as a bosom friend, otherwise you will be very disappointed and sad.

I didn't understand it、、、 though. This girl is still okay.

Keep dating, there's nothing to lose.

The human brain contains a huge amount of energy that everyone can tap into. Scientific research has found that the subconscious mind is like an invisible giant that is ready to take your command and do anything for you. Because it has the characteristic of not knowing the truth and falsehood, it believes everything its owner tells it.

Therefore, as long as you command your brain with short sentences and repeatedly give positive and confident commands to your subconscious, you can slowly trigger a confident state of mind.

People are the product of their own thoughts, and if you have complete confidence that you will succeed, without the slightest doubt, to this extent, it will prompt us to take action and identify all the obstacles in front of you, and this power can help you through all kinds of difficult times in your life, so that you can finally succeed.

There is no mystery about the power of faith. The process of faith is like this, when you believe that you can do it, you will naturally figure out how to do it, and if you reach the level of conviction, you will move forward courageously, and you will never give up until you reach the goal.

It is necessary to make full use of the characteristics of the brain's subconscious mind that does not recognize the true and false, and constantly instill completely positive, positive and confident information into it, once this information is fully confirmed by the subconscious, you will naturally be full of confidence, which is the great discovery and great contribution of modern brain science research.

As modern people, we should make good use of these characteristics of the brain to make our lives better, happier, and happier.

What an extraneous event!

Two suggestions for reference:

1. Tell your mother the truth about your troubles and experiences, and believe that if she hears that this is the case with her most beloved daughter, she will be more anxious than anyone else. So first of all, dispel your mother's concerns;

Second, rumors can't be sealed by sealing, and you can ignore your cousin's place. Even if she talks about it, you tell her that she casually finds a reason to borrow money, and you don't need to explain anything else, sometimes the more you describe it, the darker it gets.

If your partner talks about it, you can ask him, "If you believe me, I'll tell you no." If you don't believe me, everything I say is in vain".

If I were you, first of all, you could mention it as a joke to your partner, and then ask him if he was stupid before. You can also tell your parents what the family is afraid of. Then if your cousin has told your parents before, your parents will say it, hehe, and then when you go shopping or do something with your cousin, by the way, mention it as a joke and explain the matter.

Hehe, don't think too much, in fact, it may not be so serious What can I say to my family in the future, there is no need to lie Otherwise, there will still be something in the psychology after a long time.

Hope it helps!

If you really love your boyfriend and tell him, I don't think he will be like that, after all, to love you is to believe in you

Then find a time to sit down with your cousin and explain this matter clearly, in fact, it's not a big deal, it's just that your own heart is tangled, so it can be seen that the landlord is a person who loves to drill the horns.

You don't need to tell your sister, just tell your parents the truth, and your parents will believe you!! When the time comes, no matter how much your sister talks nonsense, no one will believe it, now that medicine is very developed, you can check whether you have done ** or not, if your boyfriend really loves you, you will believe you unconditionally. I support you to tell the truth sooner, so that your sister will not talk nonsense again.