What is such love? Am I doing my best?

Updated on psychology 2024-07-01
9 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    I don't think you're feeling healthy!!

    First of all, you said that he was a country girl, but you pitied her and gave him all your love, which feels like a kind of situation, your conditions are so poor, I still like you, you should agree.

    You don't put yourself on the same scale as her.

    Second, not all love is how much you pay, how much you can return, that is, the so-called fate plays a role in it, we often say that when you can fall in love, both men and women have feelings at the same time, you can't force it, of course, here, the woman also has problems, she didn't firm her position, she didn't feel for you, but in the middle of it she agreed, repeatedly, wasting time, it can also be said to be a sign of immaturity.

    Let's just say that your life is not yet fully mature.

    It doesn't matter to you what happens to them in the end.

    All you can do is to appreciate yourself, even if you can't change your appearance, but you can go inside, read more books, don't keep thinking about how to talk, how to fall in love, or, you are also accumulating your own costs, and one day, you no longer rely on your appearance but on the inside, not by appearance but by grace, I believe there will always be a girl who will be moved for you!

    Good luck.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Everyone's pursuit is different, and you can't judge others with your own eyes. Those who like handsome guys are not satisfied because they are visually satisfied. Many people only understand what they do after being deceived.

    Moreover, different people have different positions, and if you are a handsome guy, you will not think so.

    Since she doesn't love you, at least that's what she says to you, then let it go and find a girl who suits you, at least, who can judge a person's good or bad beyond appearances?

    If she can't be the kind of girlfriend you can be satisfied with, no matter how much she loves, she still lets go and is more sober.

    Also, not all girls are the same. Girls also like to say that men don't have a good thing

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I feel the same as you, obviously helping others is always beaten upside down, and in the end they ignore me. Forget it, let's get rich first, and when we have money, everything will come.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    People are capricious.

    It's the same for both men and women.

    Tell her she doesn't believe it.

    You have to wait to get hurt. Know and cherish

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Many people want to know what kind of love is good love, but because different people have different manifestations of love, it is difficult to say which specific form of love is good love. However, good love always gives people the same feeling. Good love will make people happy, good love makes people grow, and good love gives each other the warmth and strength to break through the predicament.

    First of all, good love always makes people happy, which is a very obvious criterion. Many people fall in love and talk to death, exhaust themselves, and be depressed all day long, which is not as good as being single. And good love always brings happiness to each other, happiness is a rare thing, and true love will want each other to be happy.

    If you really love someone, how can you let her be distressed, worried and scared about it? True love is always more rational than minutiae. Rather than making people angry at every turn, mutual tolerance and understanding create happiness.

    Secondly, good love always makes people positive. Some love is depraved and cannot encourage each other, but the negative emotions of the two are superimposed on each other, causing the two people to be even more depressed. Really good love will make people positive, you love someone, always hope that her development has a bright future, but also hope to work together with each other, really consider the needs of reality for each other, will encourage each other to live actively, in order to become better.

    In the end, good love always makes people feel warm and empowered. When are we most scared? It is when we are trapped in a predicament and it is difficult to escape, we may be helpless and afraid in the face of difficulties, but the people who really love you will always be by your side when you are sad and help you get out of these entanglements and difficulties.

    The icing on the cake is often there, it is more difficult to send charcoal in the snow, and a really good love is good in being able to send charcoal in the snow, and become the opponent's armor when the other party is vulnerable, giving the other party enough security and the strength to grow upward.

    Bringing people to be positive and making people feel like a spring breeze, this is the best love.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I think the best love should be to influence each other, because the other party becomes excellent, and because of this love, they can improve their abilities, and this kind of love is good love. The reason why I say this is because love should make people become better and better, not because of love, people become more and more indecisive and lose themselves, and this kind of love is not worthy of praise.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Love that two people operate together, love each other, understand each other, and respect each other is a good love; Because it takes the joint efforts of two people in the relationship to make the relationship better.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Two people live in peace with each other, do not choose cold violence when quarreling, solve things calmly, and love each other all the time, this kind of love can be regarded as a better love.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I think that love that tolerates each other, helps each other and understands each other, even if it is a good love, because this kind of love will make people feel very happy, and at the same time, they will have a certain sense of security, so they will feel very happy.

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