How to deal with people well, so as not to commit other people s taboos, especially school

I have similar thoughts whenever I'm going to get ready to move into a new environment.

I think a lot about it, and I wonder if people don't like me. ......Worse than you.

Not too much thought is worried about being isolated. Actually, I find that sometimes I have this.

This kind of psychology is not necessary, no matter how much preparation I have done before.

Yes, the effect is not very obvious. If you don't understand each other's words at first, then don't speak.

It's too much, and you don't have to be in a league with anyone. After a long time, slowly contact each other.

Gradually, relationships will be built!

And after all, you live in a collective, try not to be too far away from everyone. Play with your classmates.

I don't think it's a big problem to be less than that, but to talk about group cooperation, you.

You have to nurture yourself. Because, teamwork is the most important thing, both in.

Now school life is still going to society in the future, and teamwork is very important.

You know yourself best, don't you? Open your heart and your character will change.

It's hard to make changes at first, though, but it's okay later! It's my own view.

Fa, let's communicate with everyone more and summarize your own!

Think about it for three seconds before you say it, whether it will hurt people, and you can't be aggressive when you speak.

It depends on what is said in what situation.

If you can't provoke it, you can hide, don't make trouble for yourself, out of sight and out of mind, people who don't like it just look at her less, in addition, improve your own mind, to accept more people, more phenomena are the development of the good side.

If you really hate her, you can ignore her existence, there are many Chinese, the forest is big, there will be any birds, but everyone lives in society, sometimes you may need those you hate to help you, really, there is no truth to speak in this world.

School life is very simple.

Be sincere with friends, teachers, and classmates.

Friendship is important, but it is even more important to choose friends correctly, at least like-minded and respect each other.

After all, it's a friend, if your friend has that hobby, let her go, be yourself, and be your true self.

Put your mind at ease, she can find whatever she wants, and the landlord will do it well.

Be genuine. Others will see it. Again sincere to you.

It depends on what kind of people you're going to get along with. Those who love to learn can have a learning experience; Those who love sports can actively participate, and the summary points are: take the initiative to communicate, do what they like, live in harmony, and treat everyone around them with their hearts.

Anyone should treat each other sincerely, a lot of sincerity in exchange for the trust of others, treat each other with sincerity, many times to learn to be cautious in words and deeds, do not approach someone intentionally or unintentionally for some reason, people's feelings are very keen, what purpose do you approach him, he will feel, but he will not do anything to you, but will avoid contact with you, sometimes many people on the surface are just made, in fact, many people who are difficult to approach on the outside have a kind and soft heart, I have a principle in doing things, that is, as long as I think it is worthy, I will treat it wholeheartedly, and if it is worthwhile, I have to ask my own heart

First of all, improve yourself, let yourself be kind, loving, and compassionate, excellent people have an attractive aura! Get along with others to be sincere, but remember that those who are close to Zhu are red and those who are close to ink are black!

Try to learn to get along with all kinds of people first, because you may meet all kinds of people, in Ze. See what kind of people say what to raise. Although it is said that friends should be genuinely helpful, they must also be vigilant.

Be a good student in everyone's eyes.

Say what you want to say and do what you want to do.

1. Call the police. 2. Notify the parents of both students.

3. Until the police arrive, it is allowed to temporarily take certain measures to supervise the child.

4. Absolutely avoid private punishment and no private mediation.

There is no right to dispose of it, so it can only be handed over to the public security and wait for the public security to take care of it.

It depends on how much he hurts others, and if it's serious, control him! Asking his parents to negotiate compensation with the public security department and the victim would not constitute a crime.

Trilogy:

Step 1: You should meet by chance, it doesn't matter if you don't know each other, it should be okay to mix up with each other (at least 5 times, and you have all looked at each other).

Step 2: Find a suitable opportunity for you to smile when you see her, and then say hello, so coincidentally we met again. Then just leave, don't talk much.

Part 3: When we meet again, you can have a long chat.

Got it?

If you have the opportunity, you should create the opportunity if you don't have the opportunity.

Falling in love depends on fate and improvisation.

There are many ways to pick up a conversation, and you can just ask questions according to the environment.

Officially, uh, depending on how old you are, high school was absolutely forbidden, at least that's what your teachers and parents would say, and it's your school's rules.

In fact, as long as it does not affect learning, there is also the principle and the law that cannot be violated for the first time.

It's mostly measured by your inner moral standards. Good luck.

I'm a high school student who had the exact same experience as you in junior high school, but now that I'm much better, here are a few suggestions I hope you can consider as appropriate.

First of all, I don't know the reason why you quarrel with the girls in your class, whether it's the other party's fault or yours, if it's not a particularly serious situation, you just take a step back and reconcile with others, don't feel that this is very wronged yourself, if you quarrel with the girls in the whole class, and you have been in a state of cold war, as a result, it will only make others misunderstand you more deeply, and the more they regard you as a public enemy, in this way, you will be more uncomfortable. Girls are very afraid of loneliness, if you don't have friends because of this, it's you who suffers.

Don't be discouraged if others don't want to deal with you anymore. Try to reach out to others. Don't feel useless, first of all, do your best to help everyone, and second, actively serve the class and let everyone see your change.

I know, to put it that way, it's probably not very clear. To be specific, start with the individual, that is, start with those who don't hate you very much, have more contact with them, and if it is a group, try to join them. You may be ostracized at first, but don't give up, because I've also experienced it, eating with them at noon, finding more topics to talk to them about, and over time, they will already see you as a member.

Girls are like this, step by step.

Second, don't shed tears easily. It's sad, but after listening to what I've said above, I think you should have a little bit of an idea, don't you? Don't shed tears easily, have backbone.

Don't feel sad because you're too lonely, you have to know that there are still a lot of people behind you who are supporting you, and you're not alone!!

Third, please believe that no one will specifically target you, because people are selfish and will not be bored enough to waste time against you all day long, and the only one who really targets you is yourself. You're just too sensitive, and I've had the experience of others showing disdain for you as being aimed at you, and if someone does something similar, you can ignore them, and you have to understand from your heart how ignorant and ridiculous their actions are!!

Fourth, have faith in yourself. Don't care too much about other people's opinions, people live for themselves. The people around you are just a piece of scenery on the road of your life, they will not always be with you, even if they say something to you, what can they do, and they will go their own way in the future, who will think of the past? ?

Work hard to live for yourself, if you really can't do it, transfer most of your energy to studying, so that you don't care about these details Finally, I still encourage you to work hard to open your heart and socialize with your partners, as long as you have sincerity, you are not afraid of the day when there is no harvest!!

Everyone has their own side and you want to fit in with them. But you're afraid that people will hate you.

I've had such thoughts, I've been worried, others hate me, and even disgust me.

So I try to keep a low profile, but not always. You have to blend in slowly, you don't need to be very flattering, you just need to keep your temper down and be kind to others. Blended in, when there is someone who can speak with confidence, he is occasionally a little temperamental and capricious.

They don't feel like that. Don't put on a face of impatience with them, it will only alienate you.

Maybe everyone has one side of the other that annoys us. But what you have to think about is that she's good.

It is very important to control emotions, but it is not about not venting, it depends on who the other person is.

Sometimes there's always something going on, but so what? Whose temper is the best character? Take your time, and when they need help, you can help (and don't say yes to it). If you still have questions, you can ask them again and I will do my best to help you ......

Be more communicative, be bold and be optimistic.

In the beginning, I had to get to know everyone well, and then I focused on developing my friends, not making enemies, avoiding judging others, and finally, there was nothing to do, and I graduated from a school similar to a girls' school.

In the case of more meat and less wolves, you don't have to worry about this problem.

Since there are few men, you have to show more of the men's side, and girls should take the initiative to help when they are in difficulty, such as physical work that cannot be done.