Is it true that a man who is not very good will have some girls chasing him?

Everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses. And everyone's requirements, opinions, and evaluations of others are also different, maybe what you think is a disadvantage, but it is precisely the advantage of others. If you think you are a bad person, you are a good person in the eyes of others, and if you look at things from different angles, you will evaluate things differently.

So, if you think it's a bad man, there will be a man who women think is very reliable, and I think there will be girls chasing him.

Everyone looks at the problem from a different angle, maybe the man is not good in the eyes of this girl, but he still has advantages in the eyes of that girl. Every man will have his own unique charm, and if he meets a girl who appreciates him, he will like it.

No, you said that there is a girl chasing that sure the man must have a little possibility of being chased:

1.Very handsome 2 is not very handsome, but there is a kind of cool.

3. Not handsome, not cool, but thoughtful and individual.

No, then he might say sweetly.

No, then he is the rich second generation.

Yes, yes, it depends on your luck, but how to develop in a good direction, so that the chance of being chased will increase.

Not necessarily. But there must be something (there are girls who have a crush on you, and further a crush).

Some people are outwardly oriented (i.e., focused on appearance), but some are focused on the inside of a person.

First, personality issues.

In fact, many people who say that they don't want to fall in love also have a desire for love in their hearts, but because of their own personality problems, such as low self-esteem, excessive introversion, sensitivity, etc., they dare not touch love, so they simply don't fall in love.

Second, love.

This is also a reason for not falling in love, some people have loved someone very deeply, but in the end they have been hurt, or they have not been together for some reason, but their hearts have always been in that relationship and can't come out, so they will not accept new feelings. Noisy.

Third, love is not tired.

This is also a reason, I feel that falling in love is really a troublesome thing, all kinds of emotional problems to deal with, think about it, the head is big, it is better to get along with a group of friends and buddies, so I don't fall in love first, just like that, day after day, I become the person who doesn't fall in love.

Fourth, I've been single for a long time and I'm used to it.

It's also very helpless to think about it, many very good men and women don't fall in love, not really don't want to, it's not rejection, it's just that they don't have time, and another one, I've been single for a long time, and I'm a little afraid of love, and even a little strange, so I was scared to talk about falling in love.

This is a complicated question, and there could be many reasons for this. Here are some possible explanations:

1.Personal choice: Some people may not want to be in a relationship or get married, preferring an independent lifestyle or pursuing career success. This is a personal choice that requires respect and understanding.

2.Social difficulties: Some people may have difficulty forming intimate relationships because of social or psychological barriers. These disorders can stem from a variety of factors, including childhood experiences, personality traits, and trauma.

3.Environmental factors: Some people may live in an environment that is not conducive to a relationship, such as busy work, narrow social circles, monotonous life, etc. These factors can affect people's social abilities and opportunities.

4.Having too high standards: Some people may have too high standards for themselves and each other, making it difficult to find the right partner. This can be due to factors such as high expectations, perfectionism, pickiness, etc.

It's important to note that everyone's situation is unique, and there is no one-size-fits-all approach. If you or someone close to you is facing this problem, it is recommended that you seek professional counselling and support to better understand and deal with this problem.

Not necessarily, men nowadays don't chase girls, what you see is just a partial phenomenon.

I think there are three reasons why I don't want to associate with the opposite sex as an older youth

Clause. 1. Older young people themselves lack a good economic foundation and are not sufficiently prepared for love and marriage.

Although there are some men with excellent jobs or successful careers in the leftover male group, there are very few men who are really strong and single after all. In the reality that most people are ordinary people, the economic foundation of most leftover men is also very weak, which has become an important reason why leftover men do not take the initiative to pursue women.

Clause. Second, older young people themselves are prejudiced against women and cannot make women tempted by love.

Very few leftover men have never been in a relationship, and most of them will have a few relationships that have not ended well. But it is precisely these failed love experiences that make some leftover men prejudiced against women. The prejudice of leftover men against women will, to a certain extent, make him think that his ideas and practices are correct and flawless.

Clause. 3. Older young people feel inferior and are afraid of being ridiculed after failing to pursue women.

If a man is still unable to face and accept his current single dilemma after the age of 30, then he will appear more and more inferior. Neither willing to take the initiative to deal with women, nor willing to have more desire to express themselves in public.

With the rapid development of social economy, many girls are now very realistic. The boy has no money, no house, no car, and no confidence to chase the girl, if he catches it. There's also a lot of pressure. So it's easy not to chase girls.

Because I can't catch up. Today's girls are very assertive, they make their own decisions, and there are too many things that they don't want to endure. The pressure on boys is getting bigger and bigger, and girls can do what they can do, and girls generally don't take boys seriously, and boys also have low self-esteem.

Boys chasing girls are getting more and more tired, more and more difficult, and in the end, there may not be a good result, so I give up in my heart.

It's not that all men don't chase. It's just that most don't chase. solid, because the living conditions of people nowadays are relatively good, and there is no shortage of food and clothing. Girls don't take a fancy to you easily. Let's get married.

Because chasing girls costs money, and it's not easy to chase, it may be inappropriate to chase it. Also, if you get married and have no money, you may suffer for the rest of your life.

The problem you mentioned should be impossible, and it is impossible to happen, is it now 100% women chasing men, just think about it, it's impossible.

I think the so-called saying that boys don't chase girls now, I think it's also very one-sided, after all, there are many good-looking little girls or excellent little girls, and they still need someone to chase them.

Your conclusion comes from **, why don't you chase girls when there are many men and women in love.

Now, girls, it's not easy to chase, it's better to make money, have fun, games, why bother, feelings, let yourself, hurt,

No, it's just that some boys don't take the initiative to chase girls, and when they meet a girl they like, boys will still take the initiative to pursue it. Boys who generally don't chase girls may not chase for many other reasons.

Today's girls are particularly difficult to chase, and they don't match this fund at all! The cost is extremely huge, this requires the consumption of eating, drinking and having fun in the early stage, considering the later marriage, you also need to ask for the garage gift money and so on! That's a lot!

Isn't it fragrant to keep it for yourself? Is it bad to have money on yourself? Another point is that men tend to be feminine, and beautiful women don't like it, so there is no way.

Why don't men chase girls anymore? Because the current boy's economic conditions don't allow it, she thinks. If you find a girl, you have to spend money on a girlfriend.

Right now. The living conditions are not very good, and the jobs are very difficult to find, so to speak. Now it has a lot to do with boys not looking for girlfriends.

At least a large bride price, a house, a car. Too tired.

It can't be said that it is all, it should be the majority. Think about it, now there are some women who rely on their beauty to be high, and you can be high, right, after all, you have the capital and can be arrogant, but why do you want to be ambiguous, accept this man's gift and not give a clear message, and accept that man's gift without giving a clear message, do you think men are stupid? Can't you see it?

In addition to licking the dog.

Because the current society is too unpredictable, the economic base determines the superstructure, the economy is on the one hand, on the other hand, science and technology are developed, omnipotent. First of all, if you chase girls, you have to have your own capital, house, car, food, clothing, housing and transportation, all need money. Without money, you can hardly do anything.

You can do anything with money, so is it so important for girls?

Why don't boys chase girls anymore? Because today's girls are unfathomable and difficult to pursue, their conditions are very high, and boys generally can't reach them, and boys can only first decide to create conditions in the pursuit of marriage.

There are also cases where men chase girls, maybe you haven't encountered it, and generally men will not chase girls just for one side.

Why do boys nowadays generally don't like to chase girls anymore? The reason is very realistic.

Because today's girls are too demanding, they must have a car, a house, a bride price, and a deposit.

Why are boys reluctant to chase girls now? When you hear this question, you should also feel incredible, and you can't think of it, now the ratio of men and women is unbalanced, and a woman has many men chasing after her

First, only children are more self-conscious. Most of the post-90s generation are only children, and they have become accustomed to "going alone". In particular, most of the only children have received unreserved love from their parents and are very self-conscious.

The interesting comment is that in 90 years, when I was in college, it was obvious that the male classmates who were only children were not as mature as the male classmates who were not only children. For many boys who are only children, they have been pampered by their parents since childhood and have always been the center of the family. Chasing girls is to put girls first, and of course it will be very unaccustomed.

Second, girls are getting harder and harder to chase. In fact, many girls also have to reflect on themselves, why don't boys chase after them? Nowadays, heroine idol dramas are flooding, and many heroines have bad personalities and average abilities, so they will be guarded by rich and handsome princes.

Many girls like to "daydream", putting their boyfriends or boys who pursue them into the plot of TV dramas, they are very "made", but they have a lot of requirements for their boyfriends! It's not that many boys don't chase girls, but they are too tired to chase and don't want to chase anymore. Many girls, especially leftover girls with good conditions, should still reflect on themselves.

Originally, chasing girls shouldn't be a very painstaking and money-burning thing, and managing this love is worth investing a certain amount of energy and money.

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In terms of the whole big environment, the social atmosphere in the past was more feudal, and now it is more open-minded, and boys chasing girls are nothing more than two situations, the first really likes it, and the second wants to solve physiological needs (this accounts for a large proportion). Now that society is open, it is easy to solve physiological needs, and boys also feel that chasing girls is too tiring, and they are too lazy to chase if they don't really like it.

Male refers to a male human, as opposed to a female human, that is, female. The term male is used to denote biological gender divisions, and is formally only used to refer to humans, but is sometimes used to refer to other living beings.

2. From a girl's point of view.

The imbalance between men and women in China has largely contributed to the manifestation of inequality in society. Girls have more choices in this era, which also leads to many girls feeling better and better, and even unattainable. There are many surveys on the Internet, and the topic is, why does a girl with a salary of 3,000 yuan look down on a boy with a salary of 10,000 yuan?

It's incomprehensible, but that's what it is.

In addition, there are too many poisonous chicken soups in contemporary times, and girls are very faithful, and in the end they make themselves rude and willful, which is unreasonable. For example, "You are responsible for making money to support your family, and I am responsible for being beautiful like a flower." "Now a common phenomenon is that most girls are blindly looking for a partner with a strong family background, just so that they can do nothing at home, and their personality is also arrogant.

Do everything you can to ride on the man's head, hand in the salary card, serve her well, and if it doesn't go well, she loses her temper, and she will never make a mistake. Never give, don't know gratitude, don't know satisfaction, others always do what they should do, and others will always owe her as long as they find her. So someone said:

Contemporary boys can realize that they are poor, but girls never realize that they are ugly. "Such a common phenomenon, boys touch one like this, and another one is still like this. No wonder boys don't chase girls anymore, they're really scared.

is because I feel that I can't catch up with the other party, the other party's mate selection standards are too high, and I can't meet the other party's requirements, basically these reasons.

Now love is not to say that as long as you take 99 steps, the other party also needs to work hard while you work hard, and every relationship needs to understand each other, when people are pursuing feelings, what they want more is that both parties like each other, and they don't like to pursue others unilaterally.