I can t find the object, so why can t I find the object?

Haha......You!! In fact, girls like you don't care too much about your weight, and your weight is normal, don't care what others think, you think it's you chasing your girlfriend, not someone else. I don't think you need to be inferior, if the girl you chase values your family background too much, then I tell you that you don't need to chase that girl, she is not the one who loves you, but loves your money.

It's also your own burden to catch up. But now girls, I really don't dare to compliment, but there are still good ones, if you like someone, like it from the bottom of your heart, you must not hesitate, the opportunity is rare.

I think you're the kind of person you're more introverted, right? Sometimes you need to let yourself go a little bit, be bold, a man, just dare to love and hate, and do things clearly.

Men, you have to be confident, is it guilty to be fat? Many people with disabilities are full of hope for life, and some of them can become world champions...

Do you want to get married? If you want, try to have a girlfriend first and open your fear knot. Don't always use worldly things as a reference, try to ask yourself what kind of woman you want to spend your life with, what your plans are, and how to achieve them.

I have a college classmate who is as fat as you, and I haven't been able to find a partner, and then I made up my mind to lose more than 20 kilograms in half a year, and there is still no object, but people are much more lively and cheerful, and I think the object is about to have.

Let me talk about it, because I live in a small county town and live an ordinary life of two points and one line. Personally, I don't think it's difficult to find a partner in a small county, but the reason why you find it difficult is because your circle is too narrow. Too few people were contacted.

A small county town is relatively a "society of acquaintances", and a big city is relatively a "society of strangers", which has more opportunities? Which is easier to do? Finding is one thing, but the key is to find the right person, otherwise it is better not to find, and finding the wrong person may be a "disaster" for yourself.

Don't just look for it just because you can't find it; Don't settle for just because you can't find it; Don't just because you can't find it, it's almost enough. In this way, in fact, it is not that he is high-minded, arrogant, too picky, and has no self-knowledge, etc., because he casually "compromises", and such feelings and marriages are more likely to have problems. Marriage is the union of two sexes, the union of two families, and the union of two people's upbringing.

It's easy to judge between men and women, but what about each other's families? How was the other person's upbringing? Without an in-depth investigation, it is difficult to find the problem.

Unless you say that your luck is particularly good, you will be able to find a suitable person, no problem with personality, character, character, no problem with three views, no problem with thinking mode and behavior, no problem with living habits, life details, etc. It's good to be able to care for each other, respect each other, be faithful to each other, and grow together after being together. Or even if there is a little problem, but within the range of what you can bear and bear, it is not a big problem, and it is normal to have a little stumbling around, and you can get by making do with it.

But the question is, what is the probability that you can get a relatively perfect and satisfactory compromise like this? Before deciding to hold hands, it is important to have a more detailed and comprehensive examination of a person, to examine what kind of person he is, rather than to examine his external things at the beginning, or only consider his external things, such as his appearance, wealth, status, and so on. You know, you're going to marry someone, not to these external things.

These external things, these plug-ins can become a plus point, an additional point, but it is definitely not a basic score, so don't put the cart before the horse, otherwise you may pay a relatively large price. This price may be one's own youth, one's own youth, or one's own health, one's own property, or even one's own life. Sometimes holding hands is simple, but the key is that after holding hands, you must fulfill the promises you have made, bear that responsibility, have that responsibility, fulfill your obligations, respect each other, care for each other, be faithful to each other, and cannot do without each other in marriage and love.