In the relationship, deliberately concealing some facts, can you still trust him her ?

If it's a love with each other, if he or she rarely has this, it may really not have to be good for you to know, if it's often like this, I advise you not to play generous, no matter how good the surface is, it's all pretended!

Look at what he (she) is hiding, maybe some of the concealment is for the sake of the other party, maybe there is his own unspeakable secret, if you know that the other party is hiding from you, then you should try your best to help the other party, give him a little more care, instead of thinking about whether to trust the other party. But some concealment is an unforgivable betrayal, which should be treated differently.

First of all, it depends on the kind of thing he (she) is hiding, if it is for the sake of your relationship, you can believe it, but if it is to conceal that her other relationships that are still dating have not ended and started with you, or to conceal her true situation, then you don't need to believe it

When encountering these problems, I think it is not to consider whether you can still trust him or her, but to ask yourself whether you are already accepting him (her) deep down, whether you have quietly left him in your heart, if the answer is yes, then you should trust each other, respect each other, establish heart-to-heart communication, heart for heart, naturally one day you will understand the hidden truth behind his concealment. I believe that everyone is not hard-hearted, if you love him (her), please give him a chance, but also give yourself a chance to be happy!

As long as it's not a big deal, if there is a hardship, I will respect him, and if he doesn't want to say it, I'll wait until he wants to say it.

If you like it, none of this is a problem.

It depends on what he's hiding?

Love Zheng sells a person, you can slowly learn the secrets of her heart. Everyone has some secrets buried in their hearts, you don't have to want to know them all, give her some space, give you some space, and you won't feel tired. If she has someone else in her heart, there is no point in teasing her in an old age.

Xiaomao, happiness is fought for by yourself, be together well, and have no regrets. There is also the need to learn to look at people, if you are not meek, you must be good, and if you are not a barbarian, you must be bad. You will be happy. b。

Too much secrecy shows that there are some things she doesn't like to let you know, everyone has more or less secrets, and she won't reveal what she wants to say, but if you keep too much emotion, then you just have to pay more attention!

Such a person is so hypocritical! Don't accept it!

Deceive, everyone will deceive! It can also be said that we all live in a world of deception (why is there **, because in a sense we are all **)! Some people deceive for pure personal gain, then you may not forgive him (her) anymore, you can't imagine that he (she) will not have anyone to deceive you again, this kind of person is difficult to trust!

Some people may deceive you for your own good, so you can also forgive him (her) and laugh it off! Some people may deceive you for the sake of others, then you may be able to observe whether he (she) has any troubles, forgive yourself or not! Some people may cheat on you because they love you, then you just watch and do things!

A lot of deception is just a moment of confusion, if it is not too excessive, it is too inappropriate in that environment, it is not repeated deception, it is generally forgivable! In this case, I ask you to be clear, because maybe the person who deceived you is not comfortable in itself, maybe it is just a misunderstanding, otherwise it is easy to regret it. Although the feeling of being deceived is really uncomfortable, don't think too much about it!

Just be more precautionary in the future, and don't trust others too easily! Finally, I wish you a speedy release of your troubles and a happy life

Trust is mutual! If you believe Him and He deceives you, he will not be trusted by you!

It's a matter of whether it's worth trusting. It is up to you to convince yourself ... Nothing helps...

Long-lasting love is in your heart, just as many people often ask if there is true love in this world, in fact, true love is in your heart, as long as you sincerely pay, persistent pursuit, brave sacrifice, true love will happen in you, and eternal love is your love.

We know that love is a kind of selfless giving and sacrifice, and the reward of love is the eternal happiness and happiness of the other person, if you love each other, then you will be happy because the other person is happy, and you will be happy because the other person is happy. Whether it is in love before marriage or in the ordinary life after marriage, as long as you really love each other, as long as you work hard for your happy life, then eternal love is by your side, not that you have eternal love, but that you have created eternal love.

Believe in yourself As long as there is love, happiness will definitely exist

Everyone will disguise their shortcomings when they get along in the early stage, whether it is a man or a womanBut this camouflage is not intentional, it is a normal protective psychology of our people.

So after getting along slowly, there will be a lot of shortcomings that will come to the surface, so after a period of dating, how to judge whether he is worth dating, look at his shortcomings, and whether you can accept them.

In fact, I think that when choosing a person, his inner character is very important, and two people must achieve a complementarity in character, so that the love can last for a long time

That is to say, when two introverted people, after they get along together, they are not accurate enough in dealing with some problems, that is to say, when the other party is doing something, he is not satisfied, he will not take the initiative to say it, because of the personality, he will put this matter in his heart and digest himself, and slowly cracks will appear, so the final outcome is a breakup caused by the Cold War.

As two extroverted people, most of them are very impatient, they can't do things vigorously, they think about each other's position, and they will use fierce quarrels to solve things when they encounter them, although this method is better than the Cold War, but it is not a good way to get along, so the complementarity of personality is the most important.

After dating for a period of time, we have to consider whether his personality is compatible with himself, whether he can tolerate your shortcomings, whether you can tolerate everything about him, only by achieving these two balances, your love can continue to get alongNot only do you have to ask others, but you also have to change yourself to suit them.

If he has feelings for himself, he can continue, and if he doesn't feel at all, then give up as soon as possible.

In any case, after dating a relationship, it depends on what the other party thinks.

Ask yourself in your own heart, do you like him, and are you not satisfied with his conditions?

It depends on whether the two of you have a common language and whether you care about you.

See if you're having a good time and if you're in a good mood during this time?

Look at the character, the most important thing in the relationship is to see whether a person's character is good or not.

Telling a lie, you need to use countless lies to round, whether you can confess depends on how big the lie you tell, if it's just some innocuous lies that won't cause any harm to her heart, for example, you are very rich, but you pretend to be a poor boy to fall in love with her, of course you can confess, but, even if you may lose her, you'd better confess, unless you don't plan to go down with it for a long time, otherwise the paper can't contain the fire after all, no lie can be told for a lifetime, as long as your lies are well-intentioned, Your relationship is good enough, even if you confess, you shouldn't lose her so easily.

should be confessed, the relationship should be mutual respect and trust, can not deceive, no matter whether the other party can accept it or not, should be honest and frank.

A lie needs to be covered up with multiple lies, and the long pain is better than the short pain, how to achieve the best effect, grasp it yourself.

Lies will inevitably follow, but when the time is short, take the initiative to confess, it will help you, don't be afraid of the big gap, you should face the reality must be faced, paper can't contain the fire, as long as you are honest, if she loves you! can understand your good intentions, break up so that it will not be, it will be angry with you temporarily, just coax well, if she insists on breaking up, you don't have to be embarrassed for her, it is your own fault, you can also see her as a person, whether she really loves you or cares about your family conditions.

According to your description, you really love each other, then true love must be treated sincerely, that is to say, there can be no lies, people often say, you can hide it for a while, you can't hide it for a lifetime, there will always be a time when things will come to light. Since you are already together, you must love each other with sincerity, confess your actual situation, strive for the other party's understanding, and only make up a white lie when you pursue it. As long as you love each other with your heart and work hard, your actual situation will be improved, I think as long as you are sincere, the other party will see it in your eyes and remember it in your heart, even if you have made mistakes before, it is also to get yourself, your sincerity will move her, and you will forgive you.

Don't have any worries, be brave to face the reality, attitude determines everything, and action determines the future. Think for yourself, young man.

It's better to confess, if you don't confess and continue to hide it, and in the end she finds out, then your relationship may come to an end.

Paper can't contain fire, tell him slowly about things like this, and I believe he will be reasonable and understand you.

If you are angry, you may be angry, because you are hiding it from her, and being angry is only a momentary anger. Take a good look at her, maybe this relationship can be saved.

Can you still lie to her for the rest of your life if you hide it for a while? First of all, you yourself fail to see the essence of the problem. True love cannot be exchanged for deception and lies, so quickly face the reality, confess everything and admit your mistakes, and hope to get the other party's forgiveness, and try to change the status quo and work the lies you wrote at the beginning to have a certain effect.

Again, you have to give the other person time to reconsider, and you can't rush it. We can't even go to danger and coercion.

Since you really like people, it's better to make your real situation clear as soon as possible.

Tell you, accept the reality.

That's how real society is now.

A rich man, disguised as a poor man, goes to fall in love with a girl.

After confessing, the girl said it doesn't matter, I love your people, not your money.

A poor man pretends to be rich and goes to fall in love with a girl.

After confessing, the girl was angry. Hisense swore by it. I don't care that you don't have money, but that you're not honest enough.

So don't lie in the first place, otherwise you can only accept the final result yourself.

I think you are acting irresponsibly to the other person and yourself. If you really want to be with him, then be sure to confess to him. Because you can't be deceived by him for life.

If you keep cheating on her like this, the consequences may be more serious, and she will hate you even more.

Such! There's always a time when the water comes out! If you really love, tell the truth sooner.

What was the purpose of her deliberate concealment? If you want to hide this kind of thing, you can't contain the fire.

You give her a chance and listen to her.

If the character is not good, there is no need to go on.

This depends on what you think, if you really love her, don't care about this, she is afraid that you can't accept it and hide it.

Maybe she has a hard time, after all, people are not stupid, who hasn't lied, see how the real character is, and then talk about it It depends on the personal feeling, and it feels like there is something else that doesn't exist, but you still have to pay more attention

After talking, I said that it was still sincere.

I don't know what else you don't know.

You think clearly.

He doesn't deserve your trust at all, obviously he has your girlfriend and he still goes out with you and other girls behind your back, and he doesn't tell you, which shows that he likes to have an affair with other girls, even if you forgive him this time, there will be a next time, next time, you can't forgive him every time.

You shouldn't trust it, if he is frank, why will he hide it from you? If he really loves you, why would he go out and play with others? I wouldn't believe it anyway.

If you still love him, choose to forgive, as for the knots in your heart, take time to digest If you don't cross the bottom line, you'll be happy.

He has a good personality, I think he should be too fraternal?

When I see anyone in trouble, I will intervene. And I don't like to say no. That's why I agreed. In short, you have to talk to him well, and if you go on like this, you will definitely split your legs. It's not that he's sorry for you, it's that they've chased him away.

Hanging out with a male friend and hiding the truth from him.