What do you need to prepare for the first anniversary of the burning

The year after the death of a loved one is their anniversary.

This festival is particularly important, so children are required to go, and pay attention to the following aspects of the anniversary festival: prepare sacrifices, do not accompany the infirm, do not advance or postpone it, etc.

What is the importance of the anniversary festival?

Mourning for the deceased is a traditional custom that has been passed down for thousands of years, and the most important of these memorial days is the first seventh.

Seven. Seven, 100 days and anniversaries. The anniversary is also the last and most solemn sacrifice day, and the children must go, and after they go, they must pay attention to the relevant details, first of all, they must prepare sacrifices, such as fruits, incense candles, paper money, etc.; Secondly, pay attention to the people who go together, if there are people who are weak, do not let them go, such as pregnant women, children, the elderly, the infirm, etc.; Finally, it is important to note that the date of the sacrifice should be accurate and not be advanced or postponed.

On the first anniversary, I went to the grave to take something.

It is more important to celebrate the first anniversary of the deceased, so before taking the sacrifice, we must prepare relevant sacrificial items, such as incense; incense candles; Fruits, generally five kinds of fruits are prepared, and the meaning should be auspicious enough; Pastry.

Generally, people will choose steamed buns and osmanthus cakes.

and other pastries are placed; Paper money, on the anniversary of burning, people are going to burn paper money for the deceased.

paper houses and other items, which is also the most important part of the whole sacrificial relief.

Do you want to postpone the anniversary by a day?

The date of the anniversary of the burning should be accurate, and there may be rumors in some areas that the daughter has been passed earlier or can be postponed, but this is not the case. According to the Yin House Feng Shui, there are rules for any day of sacrifice, and the anniversary day is a good day for sacrifice, if you miss it, then don't postpone it, you can find another day to sacrifice, but the sacrifice at that time is not an anniversary sacrifice, so it is usually best to prepare accordingly in advance, and cannot postpone the anniversary.

Anniversary festivals can burn paper, silver ingots, gold ingots, etc., on offerings, steamed buns are essential, you can buy some fruits and other offerings. Paying tribute to the deceased should respect religion, ethnicity, and local customs. At the end of the memorial service, relatives will be entertained.

There is no restriction on the type and quantity of burned paper, and yellow "burning paper" is generally used, and gold ingots and silver ingots can also be burned. The location is generally to burn paper at the cemetery or the ashes depository. Time, in the Northeast, is to burn paper in the morning.

After burning the paper, you can't turn back when you leave. Burning paper to commemorate the deceased, as long as it can express the love and longing of relatives for the deceased, internalize it in the heart, and externalize it in action, this has achieved the core purpose of traditional Chinese customs.

Through the memorial service to the deceased, it can increase the contact between relatives, strengthen feelings, promote family harmony and unity, and promote social harmony. Through the commemoration activities, we can also educate the younger generation, respect, love and respect the elderly, form a good family atmosphere, "the old and the old", and promote the progress and development of the social atmosphere.

Topaz. Jade belongs to yin, which can communicate with the underworld, and topaz is warm, which can be used to express the thoughts of the deceased and ward off evil spirits.

The significance of the 100-day burning, the burning anniversary, and the 3rd anniversary of the burning: After a person dies to the underworld, there are a total of ten royal officials (the prosecutor of the underworld) and four judges, whose duties are: to interrogate the deceased, to interrogate the deceased with what he did before his death, good and good, evil and evil, and clan beams, a total of ten royal officials, in charge of the ten halls, first of all, the first seven halls:

The first hall Qin Guangming King, the second hall Zhao Zaoyun Chu Jiang Ming King, the third hall Song Emperor Ming King, the fourth palace Wuguan Ming King, the fifth hall Yama Emperor Jun, the sixth hall Bian Cheng Ming King, the seventh hall Taishan Ming King, children burn seven, I hope that the parents can be safe and comfortable in the underworld, and the king will be smooth. Do seven worship the king of Ming, check his lifetime|Forty-nine days later, the deeds of "Shanyi" were transferred to the Yin Cao Court for four trials, and every ten days were ten days, and they were brought to trial once: the first trial, (the first ten, the fifty-ninth day) Judge Cui; Second Instance, (Lent, Day 69) Judge Lee; Third Trial, (Lent, Day 79) Judge Han; Fourth trial, (Lent, 89 days) Judge Yang; After another ten years, it is 99 days to burn 100 days (called short 100 days, long anniversary), and then worship, the eighth hall of the Ping Zheng Ming King, the first anniversary of the burning, the ninth temple of the city Ming Wang, the third anniversary of the burning of the Ming Dynasty, the wheel of the queen, decide how to reincarnate, into the next life.

On the third anniversary of the burning, the daughter had to buy paper money, paper clothes, ingots and food, etc.

Among them, paper money is a must-have, which can be burned with some paper clothes and ingots; Paper clothes can be bought new or brought directly from home; Ingots can be burned with some large paper money, or they can be folded into gold ingots; You can buy some cooked food, such as meat, eggs, fruits, etc., and you can also pair it with some other foods, such as tofu, steamed buns, etc. In addition, it can also be paired with some incense candles and paper money, as well as some wine, etc., to worship ancestors.

In short, the third anniversary of burning is a traditional custom, and respecting ancestors and inheriting culture is an important spiritual connotation. When preparing items, it is necessary to pay attention to the proper combination, maintain a respectful and reverent attitude, so as to achieve the complete effect of worship.

Precautions:

1. When burning paper money, you need to pay attention to the order and direction, generally starting from the cemetery of the ancestors, then spreading around, and finally returning to the cemetery of the ancestors. At the same time, it is important to maintain a respectful and reverent attitude, and not to litter or pollute the environment.

2. If the deceased still likes to drink some wine, you can also buy some wine that he or she likes to drink before her death, bring it to the grave, pour it into the wine glass and then sprinkle it in front of the deceased's grave, pour a total of 3 cups, sprinkle 3 times, and use wine to commemorate the deceased's birthday.

3. You can also commemorate the birthday of the deceased in the air, in this case, on the day of the deceased's birthday, build a funeral platform for the deceased in a different place, and also put on the relevant birthday gifts, so as to commemorate and commemorate the deceased's birthday in the soul.