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A lot of people are only children now, and a lot of only children grow up in single families, so man, what you mean by being single is not the crux of the problem.
You emphasize single parenting, which means that you care about her very much, you often try to think from her point of view, in a word, you love her, you often worry about her, and this point may not be able to be detected and responded to by you in time.
So you may feel a little lonely and helpless.
Forgive me for being blunt, if the love for each other is pure and simple, without any utilitarian component, then imagine that you are now full of silver hair, will you find the arguments and anger of your youth ridiculous or cute.
When two people live together, they need a similar attitude towards life and similar goals in life, and their attitude towards life determines each other's views on the world.
Life goals are the direction in which you are working together.
Two people together, need to be equal and independent, mutual respect, treat each other with all sincerity, and be equal to each other, personality is equal, but love is not necessarily equal, trust is also independent, either party, not dependent on the other party can also live independently and respect each other, including language, behavioral habits, beliefs, values, likes and dislikes, etc. Today I cooked a dish, and as a result, you ate it cleanly, and even licked the plate, and I would laugh stupidly with joy, and you would look at me and laugh stupidly, so we laughed stupidly together, and afterwards we both felt like a cute little fool - trivial life, happy is as simple as that.
In addition, love is a serious topic if it is not only romantic.
And marriage is more serious than love, that is the Holy Spirit's.
If you don't know each other well enough, don't get married.
There is no stable life, let alone let the child come into this world easily, otherwise the child may fall into the cycle of "single-parent family" again.
Finally, I wish you happiness!
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Most of today's children are only children, so they are pampered. Plus whether it is a single parent or not, it will be more sensitive.
Two people should be tolerant together.
At the same time, you have to reflect on yourself.
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In recent years, people's hearts have become more and more complicated, and we will generally say that she has some inferiority complex, but in reality.
Not exactly, but it's certain that she does have a flaw in her heart, as for how to get along... I think.
You shouldn't know that you don't ask, and if you ask, she won't necessarily say. You just have to be silent, and one day you get along.
When the relationship arrives, she will talk to you if she has grievances. You'll be the legendary good man if you don't.
I like it very much, and I suggest you forget it, it's good for both parties.
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Communicate more, single parents are generally more willful, and most of those who don't have fathers have a male personality, so it's good to be considerate.
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Maybe the New Year has her unbearable past! This may not have much to do with single parents, at most it may have something to do with single parents. It's good to pay attention in the future, you don't have to pay attention all the time, then the two of you are not comfortable!
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One word, pet. Girls from single-parent families may be more likely to lose faith in love, and they will be very insecure, so what you have to do is spoil her.
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You should surround her with love, and then be delicate, and must not betray her, because your betrayal can be a fatal blow to her.
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Be more concerned about her living situation, encourage her to do what she loves, respect her choices, and help her if necessary.
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Treat her like an ordinary person, don't treat her differently because she is a single-parent family, usually give her more care, just be patient.
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Give her a certain amount of patience, don't be too impatient, look at what she is lacking, and then prescribe the right medicine to help her change her shortcomings.
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You treat your girlfriend as you would like her, and now single-parent families are common, and she is not necessarily any different from other girls.
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A single girlfriend can't be killed, and several personal experiences have confirmed. To put it bluntly, a girl from a single-parent family is not really looking for a lover to fall in love, but to find a feeling of her own missing, once you do a little deviation from the concept she imagined, she will resolutely go, you want to discuss mutual understanding and mutual change, it is completely useless, it is so extreme, it is so selfish. I've had several single-parent girlfriends all of them, and at first I thought it was a coincidence, hehe, it's really definitely not.
Then there is the strange communication logic, the single girlfriend is extremely self-esteem and self-pity, everything is always negative and pessimistic to think, sometimes you can't think of some small things she can think extremely negatively, and then hold back the heart into a pimple, don't have a little quarrel during the relationship, because you may suddenly burst out of the trivial things to quarrel with you, you let her not want to quarrel, she can use a bunch of crooked reasoning to completely erect herself on the strange moral high ground, it is really very tiring. And when a single parent girl is not familiar with you, she can play a lot of plays, rest assured, she pretended to be very good when she first met, because girls from single-parent families are particularly afraid of not being recognized, so the two are not familiar with each other, and they can almost disguise themselves as perfect women.
A single daughter doesn't care about your good, only remembers your bad, no matter how good you are to her, it's just air, and it's over if it's a little unsatisfactory to her. The more you let her do a little thing, the more she will be able to count you into a sinner through the ages, and I will think about it after countless breakups, I haven't treated others badly, the only thing that is bad to others is that I didn't scold her when I broke up. Hehehe.
Share with everyone, I hope that healthy and positive boys will not repeat my tragic experience, I really must think twice when I meet a single parent, I wish everyone happiness.
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If you're a good person, of course you can.
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In this case, because he lacked father's and mother's love since he was a child, and then seriously lacked a sense of trust, it is difficult for him to trust others, even if others are good to him, he always has a defensive psychology against others. You have to be patient and tolerant of this, care for her, and let him gradually develop a sense of trust in you, but it takes time, not a month or two or a year or two to do it.
Running away from home when he is angry: This problem may be a habit developed since childhood, because he ran away from home to let others pay attention to him and care about her, which shows that he is seriously lacking love, and another reason is that he is a very fragile person, when the problem arises, he has no way to face it, so he has to escape, and the best way for him to escape may be "Running Away from Home".
In a word: your girlfriend is seriously lacking in love, very unconfident, fragile inside, and always hostile and defensive towards others.
You have to give him more care and love, as well as tolerance, so that he can feel warmth and feel your kindness to her. Yes.
I forgot to tell you that you had better not get into a conflict with him, such as "Quarrel", which will make him more insecure and trusting of you.
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Find a good time to talk to her, express your heart, give her a few days to think about it, and if she doesn't say it, then I advise you not to have sex with her.
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Good or bad, you can only experience it after a long time together, and due to the changes in society now, it is difficult to determine whether a person is good or bad. Some people's personalities will be revealed for years after marriage.
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Be kind to her, you will get her sincerity, bless you!
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In fact, I think it will be a little embarrassing to encounter this situation, what should you do at this time, I don't think there is any way, since your dad and your girlfriend's mom are in love, then you can only accept the reality, because the relationship between two people is not allowed to be interfered with by a third party. If you stop it, your dad will only say that you are nosy, isn't that a scolding?
But I think if your dad doesn't know that you're dating the daughter of her partner, I think you'll be very anxious, and you'll be helpless and don't know what to do, so I think you'll have to confess to your dad at this timeThis is the best solution, because paper can't contain fire, and the truth will eventually be discovered. You can only accept the facts, and at this time you should calmly communicate with your dad and explain to him that you are dating the daughter of his partner. If your dad doesn't agree, then you should talk to him well, tell him that the relationship can't be stopped, you and your girlfriend love each other very much, if you just tear the two of you apart, isn't it a cruel decision?
Why do you want to break up two people who love each other in a good way, and there is nothing unspeakable. If your dad agrees and supports you, I think that's the best outcome, so that you can start a new family again, and you're no longer a single parent, but both have parents, and that's a happy thing.
As for the fact that you are good at meeting your own father and your girlfriend's mother, I think you should let go a little bit, think about the benefits and not always think about the bad sideIf you think about it, you have regained some maternal love, and you still have your own love, which is actually a very good thing. Open your mind a little and accept the fact generously, not only can your father regain his own belonging, so that he can rely on him when he is old, but you can also have a complete family, have your own life, and then develop into your own small family, which is actually very beautiful. Try to accept this fact.
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It's unethical for you to get along like this, so it's better to separate.
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In that case, I don't think it's okay, then you can kiss each other.
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The two of them have their own way, and they don't have children in the future.
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The two of you are not related by blood, so I don't think it's a big deal.
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It's normal, just let it be, and it won't affect your relationship.
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You're not related by blood, so it doesn't matter.
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