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Original text: Yang Zhu's brother said cloth, and came out in plain clothes. The rain is raining, and the clothes are reversed.
The dog didn't know it, and barked at it. Yang Bu was angry and would pounce on him. Yang Zhu said:
The son is not fluttering, and the son is still the same. How can it be no wonder that the one who makes your dog white and black comes? ”
Translation: Yang Zhu's younger brother is called Yang Bu, and he went out wearing a white dress. In the heavy rain, Yang Bu took off his white clothes and changed into black clothes and went home.
His dog didn't recognize it as Yang Bu, so he stepped forward and barked at him. Yang Bu was very angry and was about to beat the dog. At this time, Yang Zhu said:
You don't hit the dog, and if it were you, you'd do the same. How can you not be surprised if your dog left white and came back black? ”
Implications: 1When a friend misunderstands you, don't be hot-headed and angry. Instead, you should put yourself in the shoes of others, learn to empathize, and understand others. Whenever you encounter right and wrong, you must first seek yourself, and don't be busy blaming others!
2.It is not right to look at the surface of things with a short-sighted eye and not see the essence of things. Things are ever-changing, and if we want to understand things correctly, we must not look at things with an immutable eye, let alone be confused by the superficial phenomena of the moment, but must grasp the essence of things.
3.When encountering unfriendly behavior from others, you should put yourself in their shoes and ask yourself, and you should not blindly blame others.
4.If you have changed, you can't blame others for looking the other way you see you. When others look at themselves differently, they must first find the reason from themselves, otherwise they will be like Yang Bu: his clothes have changed, but the dog is blamed for not knowing him. It is the meaning of not doing unto others as you would have them do unto you.
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Fable: Yang Bu beats the dog.
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This parable illustrates that if you have changed, you cannot blame others for looking the other way you look at you. When others look at themselves differently, they must first find the reason from themselves, don't be like Yang Bu who has changed his clothes, but blame the dog for not knowing him.
Implications: 1When a friend misunderstands you, don't get angry and angry; Instead, we should put ourselves in other people's shoes and learn to empathize. 2.
If you look at the surface of things with a short-sighted eye and do not see the essence of things, you will suffer in the end. If you have changed, you can't blame others for looking the other way you see you. When others look at themselves differently, they must first find the reason from themselves.
3.Nothing can be subjectively judged, it must change according to the situation. Got it?
This parable criticizes many people in the real society, who only look at the phenomenon and do not look at the essence, and the result is often wrong.
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Yang Bu beat the dog explained that once you encounter something, you should first see if you have made a mistake, and don't blame others immediately.
Yang Zhu's younger brother is called Yang Bu, he went out in a white dress, but when it rained heavily, Yang Bu took off his white clothes and changed into black clothes to go home. His dog didn't recognize that it was Yang Bu, so he stepped forward and barked at him, Yang Bu was very angry and was about to beat the dog. At this time, Yang Zhu said:
You don't want to hit the dog, if it were you, you would do the same, and if your dog left white and came back black, how could you not be surprised by this? ”
Yang Bu thought calmly for a while, and felt that his brother Yang Zhu was very reasonable, the dog stopped barking, and the family returned to the happiness of the old ant.
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Yang quietly served Zhu's younger brother named Yang Bu, he went out in a white dress, and when he encountered the heavy rain in Xiangtuan, he took off his white clothes and changed into black clothes and went home. His dog didn't know that Yang Bu had returned, so he went up and yelled at him. Yang Bu was very angry and wanted to hit it.
Yang Zhu said: "Don't beat the dog, you will be like this in such a situation." How can you not be surprised if your dog went out white and came back black?
Original text: Yang Bu beat the dog Yang Zhu's brother said cloth, and he came out in plain clothes. When it rains, the clothes are undressed, and the clothes are tied (zi black clothes) and reversed.
The dog didn't know it, and barked at it. Yang Bu was angry and would pounce on him. Yang Zhu said:
The son is not fluttering, and the son is still the same. The one who makes your dog go white, and the black comes, how can the son be no wonder? ”
Implication: 1. When friends misunderstand themselves, don't be angry, but put yourself in the shoes of others to think, and learn to empathize.
2. Seeing the surface of things with a shallow eye and not seeing the essence of things, the last person who suffers is himself, if he changes, he can't blame others for looking at himself differently. When others look at themselves differently, they must first find the reason in themselves.
3. Nothing can be subjectively judged, and it must change according to the situation.
This fable explains: If you have changed, you can't blame others for looking at yourself differently, others looking at you differently, you must first find the reason from yourself, don't be like Yang Bu who has changed his clothes, but blame the dog for not knowing him.
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The truth of the story of Yang Bu beating the dog.
When a friend misunderstands you, don't get angry and angry; Instead, we should put ourselves in other people's shoes and think from other people's perspectives, learn to empathize, and not make subjective assumptions about everything, and change according to changes in the situation.
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You must learn to empathize with your heart, otherwise you may make irreparable mistakes.
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When we have an argument with a friend, we need to learn to put ourselves in their shoes.
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Tell us not to get angry about everything, but to understand and solve it slowly. Annoying, impulsiveness is the devil.
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Think differently about what you do.
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Don't beat people, be diligent and plump.
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Well, we should compare hearts to hearts.
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Don't be annoyed, calm down and solve it slowly, this is the real friendship.
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When a friend misunderstands him/her, don't be hot-headed and angry, but think from the perspective of others and learn to empathize.
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