Why are you nervous when you meet a girl you like?

That's because you expect too much from her.

It shows that you really like her, so you will be nervous and incoherent when you see her. But it doesn't matter, even if you feel that talking is redundant, you still have to say, after all, you are a boy, you should take the initiative. Find out more about what she likes, and talk to her about topics that interest her too.

It should be almost good after confessing to him, friends are like this, and after confessing to the girl you like, you won't be as nervous as before when you talk to that girl, and you can say a complete sentence, so come on, I wish you a successful confession.

If you touch a girl like this, you won't be able to save it, start all over again. If it's just this girl, congratulations, you've fallen in love with someone. The rest is up to you to fight for 、、、

If you confess to him, you can talk like a normal person, otherwise you will never dare to face him.

It's normal, in fact, as long as you have more contact with her, it will get better slowly.

Hello, some people do begin to mentally exhaust as soon as they come into contact with women, I think this is a manifestation of poor psychological quality, lack of a kind of "let the wind and waves blow, I walk leisurely" that kind of light finger Huai Ding's mentality, so that in front of the opposite sex is very nervous, cramped, I don't know what to do.

First of all, it is a manifestation of a lack of self-confidence. In contact with the opposite sex, I am always afraid that the other party will look down on me, and I am afraid that I am inferior to others in terms of ability, education, communication ability and work ability. So I was always in a state of self-shame.

Others haven't said anything yet, and they panicked in their hearts, and this mentality is very humble. The more you do this, the easier it is to make the other party look down on you.

Secondly, there are too many ideas. Sometimes the more we think about it, the more disturbed our hearts become, and the more chaotic we become. Especially when we are just beginning in our relationship, we haven't gotten to know each other in depth yet, and we want to think about the future.

Do you wonder if the other party will really accept me? Will my parents approve of me? They tease me if they are satisfied with me and so on.

The more I think about it, the more pressure I feel in my heart, and it will bring some damage to my spirit.

Third, care about each other very much. Because I am very satisfied with the other person, I will have a feeling of fear and fear of losing the other person. Of course, if you don't feel anything for the other person, you won't be afraid.

Because I have a deeper affection for each other and a deeper investment, I am afraid of losing. So he racked his brains and tried his best to maintain this relationship, which would inevitably consume people's energy and fall into a situation of spiritual internal friction.

I think in contact with the opposite sex, or in the process of falling in love, you should still calm down, don't worry too much, what should be yours is yours, not yours, even if you work hard, you may not get it, and it is the best choice to treat this matter with a natural mentality.

Wishing you good spirits.

That's because you expect too much from her.