Why are you nervous in front of someone you like?

There are a few reasons why you are nervous about meeting someone you like:1. Subjective reasons (i.e., our own causes), once people are likely to hurt their own face or be physically harmed, they will consciously be nervous and afraid, avoid or protect themselves. So when you meet someone you like, you are often affected by feelings, and you are afraid of making a fool of yourself in front of the person you like and leaving a bad impression, which is also caused by our assumptions.

If you approach a girl, you will be nervous and anxious, which is called proximity anxiety, and this is due to the fear of rejection.

2. Objective reasons (not caused by yourself), due to personality reasons, some people may be introverted since childhood, do not like to interact with people, and will naturally be nervous in front of the people they like.

Some people may be because of their work, either 996 or 7, so there are few opportunities to socialize with people for a long time, so they are nervous when they meet someone they like.

That's because you expect too much from her.

We will be nervous when we see someone we like, which is very obvious in the relationship of crush, because crush is very humble and beautiful at the same time, we are afraid that this feeling will be discovered, and at the same time we are afraid that the other party will not know what we like him. It is necessary to do something to control this situation in yourself, after all, it can affect our own emotions and thus our pleasure in life.

The first love was discovered.

I think when I'm a little older, I won't be afraid of my feelings being discovered, and I won't be too nervous when I meet someone I like, because it seems that when I grow up, I will also screen the people I like, and those who can't be together, we won't be attracted to them, and those who still have the opportunity to be together, we will also be brave to confess. However, in the emotional world of students, sometimes we don't have to say it, or even can't say it, because we have more difficult tasks to complete. So once you are attracted to a certain person, you will immediately hide such feelings, but you often can't hide them, and if you like a person, you will put his every move in your eyes, and suddenly seeing him will make our hearts excited, because we are afraid that our feelings will be discovered!

Increase your self-confidence.

I don't know why many people are nervous in front of the person they like, but I am sure that liking is humble, not only will we feel that we are not as good as the other person, but we will also feel that the other person is the most shining person around us. In fact, this is a very normal performance, because our liking has added a lot of filters to that person, so no one's aura can compare to his. If we feel that we are relatively poor, we are more likely to feel nervous, but if we are good ourselves, we may not feel that others are bad.

Improving the scope of our own knowledge and broadening our horizons may translate into motivation for a person's liking and also into our self-confidence, rather than humility and cowardice.

Crushes take root at a certain moment, and from that moment on, we become cautious and nervous, afraid that the person will be taken away by someone else, and at the same time have a feeling that we can't put into words.

It's a joy to be able to meet someone you like, but it's always very nervous to see someone you like. Why are you so nervous when you meet someone you like? How can you avoid this tension?

First, you will be nervous when you see someone you like, because you are afraid that your words and deeds will destroy your perfect image in the other person's heart and distance yourself from each other.

In front of the person we like, we will always show the best side of ourselves, and hope that the other party can keep the best appearance for ourselves. Therefore, many people will be very nervous when they see the person they like, because they are afraid that their words and deeds will destroy their perfect image in the other person's heart and distance themselves from each other. Therefore, in front of the person you like, you will always behave cautiously and cramped, just want to make a better impression on each other, shorten the distance between each other, and promote the possibility of the next development.

The second is to relieve tension and strive to show the most authentic version of yourself, and the person who truly loves you will only accept everything about yourself.

In fact, I have always shown a nervous look in front of the person I like, this is not a long-term solution, you must overcome your inner fears, and strive to show your truest self. A person who really loves himself, he will accept everything he has, so don't be too restrained in front of the person he likes, don't be too nervous, treat this feeling with the most sincere attitude, and get along with the person he likes sincerely, then he will definitely feel his sincerity and will definitely accept his shortcomings.

It's not so much that you're very nervous in front of the person you like, but rather a deer crashing and pounding? It is precisely because the other party is the person you like and the object you want to protect, overcome your inner fears, strive to show your truest self, and sincerely maintain this relationship, so that this beauty will continue.

Because many people are afraid that the person they like will leave a bad impression on them, the psychological pressure becomes greater when they meet, so they will involuntarily get nervous. Start with a calm mind, then interact and chat with each other like a friend, while calming the tension with a relaxed atmosphere.

Because you don't know what to say. And when you see him, your face flushes. If you want to avoid it, you must first tell yourself to treat him as an ordinary friend, or he will see it.

Because you don't know what topic to talk to him about when you meet him. So if you want to avoid it, you can ask your friends to join you, so that it is also convenient to find topics.

Because I don't know how to express my like, I am nervous and afraid that I will not be able to do well.

He is not particularly relaxed in front of you, but always tense。The whole person's body is always tense and in a state of alertness. He will not remain relaxed in front of you because he will unconsciously be nervous when he sees you because he likes you and he will pay special attention to every move in front of you and will not dare to say a word or take any casual moves, for fear that his negligence will make you start to hate him and not want to continue to contact him.

In front of others, he has always been the dominant one when speaking. Every time he spoke, he was very organized. One thing goes with the flow.

However, when he speaks in front of you, he becomes incoherent and he does not know how to express it better.

He said this in front of you at the beginning and then thought it might be better to express it that way. If he says so, his impression score in front of you will be higher, and he will overturn the previous statement. The reason why he is particularly good in front of you, and why he doesn't, is because he wants to give his best in front of you.

Because men love you. Therefore, in front of you, there is a special desire to express yourself and want to get your attention. Doesn't think about whether your own abilities can solve this problem, but just wants to make a positive impression in your mind.

Therefore, he will choose the first person to do so. If it's a group of people eating together, he will take the initiative to talk about something funny to make everyone laugh. Actually, his purpose is to make you happy, but he doesn't want that purpose to be so obvious, so let's bring everyone together.

In front of you, he behaves very restrainedly, and you may also think that he may be introverted and therefore has no active topics to talk to you about, but this is not the case。He does it because he is afraid of himself, misbehaves, has something bad about it, because he doesn't know what kind of person you like, or what kind of behavior you hate, and he is worried that his actions will be too frivolous in your eyes and not enough to respect you. Don't dare to make any big moves, he wants to be nice to you because he likes you, but he doesn't want your peaceful life to be disturbed, so he chooses to do it silently.

Of course, he can do bigger moves, but he doesn't want to interfere with your normal life. He thinks that you prefer bland love, so even if he likes you, he doesn't want to do anything to you. He is afraid that it will cause you trouble and will not be able to tell you about it, so he chooses to like you silently and accompany you in the form of a crush.

If you will unconsciously feel nervous in front of the person you like, first of all, you need to calm your mind, and be neither humble nor arrogant, because you have to think clearly that in many cases, you don't need to think too much, just do your own thing, and think too much will make you feel nervous.

Because I like each other very much, I will be very nervous when I see each other's heartbeat, and I will feel very flustered in my heart.

This is a very normal phenomenon, just like you will be nervous during the interview, if you feel nervous, it means that you like him very much, otherwise you will not involuntarily reveal your unusual emotions, when a person can affect your emotions, it means that you are in love with him.

Unconsciously nervous in front of people you like, I think this is a very normal phenomenon, at this time you really have to let your mind be calm, don't be too nervous, really have to show your best side in front of the other party, so as to leave a very good impression on the other party.

We can alleviate this atmosphere and slowly communicate with him like friends. Secondly, you should give yourself a little more confidence in yourself. Tell yourself to be confident and not to be timid.

And it should be approached with a pleasant and relaxed mind. It shouldn't be too much stress and tension for me too.

There is no way, because we may not be very confident, and when facing the person we like, we always want to show our best side, but in fact, as long as you want to be in front of him, maybe you will behave more naturally, you will appear better, if you are too nervous, it may not be natural.

Not only you, I think many people will be nervous when they see the person they like, even if they are confident, no matter how good the person is, in front of the person they like, they will feel nervous, that is because the person we like is a god-like existence in our hearts, we may be sure of many things, but we are not sure whether he likes us, so we will be nervous and not confident.

You must be your first love, and it's a secret crush, I remember I was like this at the beginning, I was unconsciously nervous when I saw him, but I really wanted to see him. Later, it was determined that the relationship would not be strained, it was a normal process, and it also proved that you really like each other.

It's normal to be nervous, it's not normal not to be nervous.

From a physiological point of view, when you see your favorite person's heartbeat, your limbs will be stiff, your brain will think that you are in some predicament, and it will speed up the secretion of various hormones to provide you with enough energy, and these energies will not be used, you will feel a little trembling, in fact, it is not nervous, it is bursting with energy.

From a psychological point of view, when you meet someone you like, you will always fantasize about what will happen to him, but you feel very shy, and nervousness is just a way to relieve your emotions.

You are nervous when you see someone you like, you may be afraid that the person you like is not so much like you, and you may think that you are not so good, and then you think that the person you like is particularly good, in fact, if you want to relieve tension, you must let yourself develop and make yourself more powerful.

I think it's a normal phenomenon that can't be normal anymore. Especially when he is in the crush period, every time he sees him, his heart beats, and his face will become red.

Thinking that I was like this at that time, I was nervous and speechless when I saw the object I liked, haha.

When I was in college, I didn't interact with my boyfriend. When I saw him, he was very nervous. My face was very red.

I guess it's because the girl is very shy and likes the person very much, but I'm not sure if you like it, do you like your nervous and scared emotions?

It is a very normal psychological reaction to get nervous when you see someone you like. Because you like him, you always want to put your best foot forward in front of him, but the more you are strict with yourself, the more nervous you will feel. So it's also a lack of self-confidence, because you want to be the best you can be, but because your limitations have become more overwhelming, that's why you become nervous.

Another situation is that because you like him, before you get a reply from the other party, you will be very nervous, in the back and forth between gains and losses, so you will be more nervous, but when you are sure that something has a result, you will not be nervous anymore.

All in all, this is a process, and this is also a particularly subtle psychological reaction, I believe that slowly you will become more and more confident, and you will show a more perfect self in front of him.