Because it is said that there is less money for engagement and less quarrels

In fact, I also encountered such a problem, girls are really difficult, about this question of marriage, in fact, the first is not that we like money, lose the eyes of money, but this is a thing, involving the whole family, things are things, money is money, if it is just that our love does not need money to measure, but the fact is that we want to get engaged, determine this relationship, and get recognized by the family, in fact, it has nothing to do with love.

I'm the same, now it's a headache, my cousin got engaged 7 years ago and gave 50,000 yuan, and now my boyfriend is engaged to give me 20,000, I'm very angry, my family's mother is definitely unwilling, so a lot of things involve family and money, love has changed its taste, and men attach great importance to the family, especially parents, both parents are not easy, understand each other, the two must not quarrel, peace of mind said that they want to give us a result of love, can not be because of money to break the relationship, both sides think about it, come to a compromise methodYou can also advise your parents to have a good discussion and not to wronged themselves.

I wish you happiness.

I think. Love is not measured by money.

Love is priceless If you really love him, marry him, if your parents really love you, then they don't 'sell' their daughters, you have to think clearly, he marries you who he loves, not your parents.

The world is sometimes really a sad cut

If you really love each other, your family can do work, and I believe your family will still be considerate

If you don't get married for 100,000! Don't marry a nun either!

Since it's a custom on her side, I think it's hard to shake it.

Have you ever told your girlfriend about your family? Your girlfriend doesn't understand you? According to your current economic situation and family situation, I don't think you should be in a hurry to talk about marriage, you have just graduated, the most important thing is that you should find a good job and be stable, after all, it is difficult to find employment now, I think it will take 2 or 3 years.

The most important thing is to take the burden off your shoulders. You are a man, and your current family difficulties have not been solved, how can you go and build a family again! If you like her, you have to give her a good life, then you can't be emotional, you cherish this relationship and you have to face it more rationally, blindly want to keep her by your side but can't give her happiness, and the pain it brings is also borne by two people.

Love is not based on material things, but marriage is based on material things. I firmly believe that if the relationship between the two is long, how can it be in the morning and twilight.

It is reasonable for the woman's parents to ask for a bride price, but the key is that your girlfriend will help you do her parents' work if she doesn't want you to be embarrassed. When my husband and I got married, our hometown asked for 60,000 60,000 dowry, and my mother's family finally agreed to 30,000 yuan through difficult ideological work, and I lied to my mother-in-law that my mother-in-law gave 30,000 yuan, but in fact, I didn't ask for a cent, even if my mother's family wanted to check, the money was not written in my name. In fact, the man's parents don't use a penny for them, and it is indeed difficult for the elderly to ask their parents to pay for those who are not very wealthy, marriage, not a transaction, feelings are the most important, and they cannot be forced to add the shackles of money, otherwise the feelings will turn sour.

I think it's better to have a good talk with the woman's family After all, this is a big thing, how can it be measured by money Besides, it is embarrassing to mark the price so clearly.

Choose a day when both parents and relatives are present for a meal, don't eat rice (the particular rice is a loose meal, you can't eat) and give 10,001 yuan to set a parent.

Although I can't say anything absolute, but what kind of attitude does he have, like you? Still going to get engaged to someone? What does this mean?

Do you want to be a junior? That's too much, isn't it? And to be honest, our Zhejiang is still more economically developed than Anhui, let it go!

Are you afraid that there will be no men? Being sad proves that you really like him, but it's not worth it, give up early, and choose another person who is worthy of your love as soon as possible!

Directly have a showdown with him, either choose you, leave the hometown one, or choose the hometown one, you leave, see what he says, as long as he doesn't choose you resolutely, you can give up this man, not responsible for people who can't make their own decisions, even if you are with him, it is difficult to be happy.

The first is that he is just playing with you, not loving you wholeheartedly, the second is that the woman is more attractive than you, he is eye-catching, and the third is that he is trying to comfort you to say that he loves you in his heart Let it go, you will find someone who is really suitable for you.

He won't fight for his parents for you.

If it were me, I would definitely break up immediately, this man is not worthy of my love.

He doesn't deserve your grief.

Let it go, men are everywhere. I'm sure I'm going to be sad now, but time can dilute everything.

Treat him as a guest, even if he likes you, you don't want to look back.

In the old days, it was also known as "sending a letter" or "changing posts", which was a written form of the initial implementation of the marriage intention of both parties. The man's family asks someone to write the meaning of the marriage into a small post on red paper, and then writes auspicious greetings on the cover, as well as words such as "respectfully asking for Jinnuo" and "Gonghou Jinnuo" to express the courtship, and the matchmaker will wrap it in a pair of big red envelopes and send it to the woman's house together with the clothes, jewelry, cosmetics, bride money and other "bride price" prepared by the man's family. After receiving the Cambodian post, the woman's family replied to the post, and Wu Liang added the words "respectfully obey the orders of Taiwan" and "Yang Zun Yuyan" to express their agreement to marry, and attached a return gift, which was brought back to the man's house by the matchmaker.

Most of them return gifts with shoes and hats, the four treasures of the scholar's orange annihilation, etc., and Zichuan returns with incense, mugwort (meaning love), salt (meaning fate), wheat (meaning blessed), each wrapped into two packs with red paper. Linzi returns with a number of cakes (according to the age of the bride of the first chong, 1 pair per year), 1 pair of tea bowls, 10 pairs of sorghum and 9 pairs of chopsticks, which means "ten stops and nine stability". Then the man prepares the table to thank the matchmaker.

The custom of betrothal is still used today, and after both men and women agree, the parents of both parties come forward to show their recognition and give the woman a dowry, which is considered an engagement.

Marriage is a marriage custom in many parts of our country. The marriage is usually from a man to a woman's home. When you go, you need to bring alcohol, tobacco, pork, fruit filling, and clothes for the woman.

For the sake of festivity and auspiciousness, the gifts brought are even numbers, depending on the situation. Under normal circumstances, there are two cigarettes, two bottles of wine, and there are also four cigarettes and four bottles of wine; pork is 4 catties, and there are also 6 catties and 8 catties; The fruit filling usually comes with 24 pieces, and there are also 48 pieces. Of course, if you bring more, you will be called rich and generous by everyone; If you bring less, you will naturally be seen as poor and stingy.

But for the woman, not getting married is two families, and becoming a family is a family, so she doesn't care so much. The woman gave the man a pair of "stable heels" and a trouser belt, which means that the marriage ties the man and woman together. The ceremony is generally very simple, under the auspices of the matchmaker, the marriage is attended by both men and women, their parents and some relatives.

Everyone drank and drank together, ate and ate, talked to each other, recognized relatives, and the ceremony of establishing relatives was over. After that, it's time to get married.

It didn't take long for me to order a pro.

The nature of human beings is not well understood, so let's talk about it after a while.

Your parents asked you to be betrothed, but also to settle this marriage, and they just have a bottom in their hearts, but they just determine the relationship.

If there is no emotion, the engagement is too funny, as if you are doing business, without any emotion.

It doesn't matter if you propose marriage or not, it's not sincere at all.

It's a bit fast.。。 But look at how old you are, if you're not young, just hold on.

As for the marriage proposal. I haven't experienced it yet haha.

Let's take a while.

Isn't that a little too fast?