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Maybe you don't believe that "human nature is inherently good", so you will one-sidedly say that people are always selfish and greedy, after all, no one is perfect, we should not use the part to deny the comprehensive, and fail to see the beautiful and good side of people.
There is a saying that "good times make people superficial, adversity makes people profound", God has good intentions, he in order not to let people in the world become superficial because of worldly life, so he creates some traps and some setbacks for people to test human beings, stimulate our will and various virtues, and I believe that not everyone can control themselves in the face of trials, on the contrary, modern people have independent personality, self-control ability is quite strong, so I believe you can also have good self-control.
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You don't need to control it, you can be bold when you see good things. When you've been through enough, you'll be able to identify those are avenues and those are traps. That's when you can control yourself.
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Color is emptiness, and emptiness is color.
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When you're going to test, you can be a little selfish.
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Do you think you don't have to do anything, and you will earn tens of thousands of yuan a month in the future, or do you think that everyone in the world is your mother, and everyone is letting you?
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Being able to say your own faults shows that you are awake and learn to try to change your real shortcomings.
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Which one depends on who is right, the person you hate, that's right, the person you like, that means you're lazy to the bone.
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If you feel bad, try to change yourself, hard work is a wealth that does not need to be invested.
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None of them. Read more and exercise more.
It's been a long time. Naturally understood.
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Since I found out that this is a shortcoming, I need to change it immediately.
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Each other... See what attitude the people around you have.
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One word change.
If you don't change it.
Retribution awaits you at any time.
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I haven't even been able to get through your question.
From the first few descriptions, a discerning person can see the person's personality and character.
You're a good guy to tolerate him for so long. Give up, both of you still have a long future ahead of you, and the sooner you separate, the sooner you will be freed. Authorities are fascinated, I hope it can help you.
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You can't live by doing your own sin, you're still young, it's not realistic enough, and when you're older, you'll understand that you must score points, and this kind of man is not worth it.
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In fact, you know the answer yourself, but you don't dare and don't want to face it
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It feels as if you're his ATM babysitter.
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It's divided, barely there is no happiness. He is 16 years old and should understand responsibility.
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It's better to find a boyfriend who is older than you, it's too tiring to find a boyfriend younger than you, accommodation is only temporary, after a long time, your current boyfriend will become worse than yours, why bother! It's not too late to think about it, and when you accept another person's feelings, you will slowly forget about this person. The next one will be better.
I advise you to think about it. Feelings don't get better if you are accommodating. Parents are the closest people to their children, and parents can't educate them well, so you just change him?
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Divide it!! Otherwise, it will hurt you in the future.
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How far can you go. Not sure. Or the longer term, it's even more uncertain.
The main thing is what you think of him. That's what you say. is an unmotivated person.
And it's not good enough for you. Do you want to try to change him? He was only sixteen years old.
You're not mature. But as long as you are optimistic about this relationship, it will be fine.
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Don't be this kind of man!
I'd rather be arrogant and moldy than humble love!
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Give up and maybe you'll be better off.
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The work is implemented to the person, and it is impossible to be lazy, and the monthly assessment is carried out at the end of the elimination system. Let their work be done separately and jointly, and everyone will be implicated in their mistakes, and see who is still selfish. Rewards and punishments must be clear, leaders must have cohesion, and must have their own core strength.
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Performance appraisal, high salary for good performance!
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Lead by example, and then all out worse than yourself, survival of the fittest!
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Division of labor and cooperation, responsibility system, monthly evaluation of internal selection of outstanding employees, clear rewards and punishments. The essence of people remains the same, and attitude decides!
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Everyone is born with desires and pursuits.
They try to get what they want, whether it's hard work or other shady means.
Everyone's lifestyle and values are different, and human nature is very complex.
However, please be yourself and keep your kindness and innocence, because only by treating others with your heart can others be able to treat you with your heart.
Some people say that life is like a mirror, and if you laugh, he will laugh. Therefore, in your spare time, you will recite more sutras and read more Buddhism, and you will realize many things that are impossible for normal people to comprehend.
Why are there so many philosophers in the West and so few in China?I think it's the lack of a belief that is religion to put it bluntly, and I started believing in Buddhism very early. Friends, if you feel that your heart is not good, please believe in Buddhism, and you will usher in a different world!
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Everyone's original intention is not to have bad ideas, but different things make different people, so the ideas change.
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There is no good or bad when people are just born, through growing up, the environment around them is constantly changing, and people are slowly learning some bad habits, this is the reality.
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Okay, try to look at the world from a different perspective Everyone has their own way of doing things, and behind each method is everyone's different past experience, position, sometimes think about it, although I don't agree with other people's practices or ideas, but if I stand in the other person's perspective, I don't necessarily have the confidence to do better than others, right, there are indeed bad things in human nature, but if we look at the angle from the wrong one, then it's not right, look at it from the perspective of others, we can't control human affairs, try to make your life full and happy It's enough to make the people around you happy, and is the rest really that important.
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The original nature of people is good, they are all acquired by the environment, and they have a lot to do with the family, and slowly they will have a relationship with the friends around them.
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Character issues.
I watched a TV show, and at the end of the time the prisoner was asked why he wanted to kill those people, and he just said, "I want to do it when I see them, and I don't understand why you don't."
Human desires lead people to make mistakes, mainly depending on what they want to become.
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Everyone's thoughts. The environment is different, so everyone is different.
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Maybe it's a human instinct, and it's also something that comes from the body. Of course, the environment will change a lot over time.
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If people do not do it for themselves, the heavens and the earth will be destroyed. Good people will have, but only few.
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Mankind lives in such a state far from God, but God loves mankind, and God's love can restore the fall of mankind.
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Society is changing, and so are people!
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There are some dark forces in society. As a result, the originally simple human beings have become selfish for their own benefit. You don't believe people, maybe he has been greatly deceived. So it's not easy to believe it.
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What kind of environment you grow in, what kind of people you can produce.
There is really no way to say anything about today's society.
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There is so much reluctance and pain after experiencing it
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Now the society is getting worse and worse, there are fewer and fewer good people, and there are more and more old ladies who ask for money as soon as they fall.
I can't wait to do nothing, if I don't starve to death without eating, I don't even bother to eat, in short, I just don't want to move!
Make yourself strong, expand your space and vision, you will find that the world is colorful, not the darkness you think, and maybe you will meet what you expect.
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